Good date/bad date? Call/don't call?

[GroinkTropin]

So I took out a girl I work with, she has been with the company as a temp maybe 2 months now or so. Mexican chick, pretty hot. Has a kid, 3 years old, chick is about 24 or so.

Took her out to this nice italian place Maggiano's, had nice pasta and I did all the ordering and what not. Appetizers dinner and cake with ice cream. After I suggested a movie and we saw grownups. Was really funny. Seemed like we had a good time, but during the movie I kept fighting the urge to sleep (ran at 7am then work, by this time it was nearly 11pm and I was dead tired) and so the combination of being exhausted and somewhat wary of making a move on a chick I work with going badly I didn't put my arm around her or try to kiss her. She kept fucking with her hair, I mean she gave me pretty good flirty signals the whole dinner and shit but damnit I was so fucking tired and not horny or anything.

Fast forward, I take her home, and of all the weird shit she not only didn't want me walking her up to her door she gave me the leftovers from dinner which I tried to give to her. Wtf??? I got a hug and again did not try to kiss her, unsure if she's into me or if I blew it not trying to make a move at the movies? Her body language got weird during the movie, like she kept sighing like she was annoyed at something and someone keptcalling her which she did not answer. So, wait till tim and call or text her? Say hey I had a good time did you and do you want to see me? Facebook her? Shes pretty old fashioned im thinking im good not sure tho. She paid for the movie. thoughts???

[dr.chimps]

She probably sensed your bad credit, bro. In a recession, that's a serious cock-blocker.   

[NaturalWonder83]

just talk w her at work

[Hulkotron]

I would forget about her, sounds like she is not into you.  Since when is "fucking with her hair" a flirty signal  

[NaturalWonder83]

I would forget about her, sounds like she is not into you.  Since when is "fucking with her hair" a flirty signal  

it is

[newmom]

Mike,

Please dont take this at all the wrong way. NEVER shit where you eat (dating co-workers or dating same gym people). Who needs the extra hassels. I go to the gym to relieve stress and shit, so no hangups there.

IMO not a great idea for movies on the first date. When you brought her home, is this where she and her child live, if so, not a good idea on her part.

Honestly, dont add her on facebook. If she wants to continue dating, she knows how to find you. If you want, text her tommorow and wish her a Happy 4th. See if she responds. If not wait a few days if you dont text her tommorow. If she doesn't respond, well then Hulkotron was right, she isn't in to you. Sounds like it if she was checking her phone during the movie, or maybe she was making sure noone was calling about her kid being sick or so.

Play it cool and see if she chats it up with ya. If not, plenty of fish in the sea

[TEsticles]

the calls she was getting was from the stud who's bangin' her and she's a little bored of him....or her babbys daddy who she still occasionaly bangs if she' bored.....enter u, who takes it slow and she got bored at the movies, when she's thinking she coulda  been banging....as you  said she's hot which means there is no shortage of guys with offers....

[spinnis]

Fast forward, I take her home, and of all the weird shit she not only didn't want me walking her up to her door she gave me the leftovers from dinner which I tried to give to her. Wtf??? I got a hug and again did not try to kiss her, unsure if she's into me or if I blew it not trying to make a move at the movies? Her body language got weird during the movie, like she kept sighing like she was annoyed at something and someone keptcalling her which she did not answer. So, wait till tim and call or text her? Say hey I had a good time did you and do you want to see me? Facebook her? Shes pretty old fashioned im thinking im good not sure tho. She paid for the movie. thoughts???

That would be the Man in her life,
She only uses you as a form of revenge on the other guy.

Dont you fucking be a retard and call her.

I made a girl shut of her phone once when watching a movie, I told her before the movie, I dont want any fucking texting and shit while watching a MOVIE. I used to put up with that but now days hell no.
She gets a text starts responding I say "you shut it off or its going into the wall and added a little laugh to make it seem like I was just "kidding",

she turned it off 

[Tapeworm]

I'd keep looking for a non-Mexican, non-sigher, without a kid but it's any port in a storm, I guess.

Never a movie early on.  Baffles me why people who are supposed to be finding out about eachother choose to spend time in a place where they can't hold a conversation.  Did you even ask who keeps calling?  Or if the off button on her phone is broken?

[Army of One]

If she likes you then she likes you, if she doesnt then she doesnt , its that simple.Nothing you did at the date will fuck it up if she's in to you.

[newmom]

I'd keep looking for a non-Mexican, non-sigher, without a kid but it's any port in a storm, I guess.

Never a movie early on.  Baffles me why people who are supposed to be finding out about eachother choose to spend time in a place where they can't hold a conversation. 

Pretty much what I said and have said before.I never understood that concept...ESPECIALLY on the first date

[Tapeworm]

Pretty much what I said and have said before.I never understood that concept...ESPECIALLY on the first date

Exactly.  So what's your favorite sexual position?

[Doug_Steele]

Exactly.  So what's your favorite sexual position?

 

She likes it Doggie. 

[Tapeworm]

I meant to say 'What's your favorite flavor of ice cream?'  Little Freudian slip there.

[Doug_Steele]

I meant to say 'What's your favorite flavor of ice cream?'  Little Freudian slip there.

Your Avatar freaks me out!! 

[Tapeworm]

Your Avatar freaks me out!!  

Yes muthafucka!  I'm Charles Ingalls!

[Hulkotron]

Yes muthafucka!  I'm Charles Ingalls!

C.I. was strong on deadlifts I bet.

[Doug_Steele]

Yes muthafucka!  I'm Charles Ingalls!

He beat up bitches. 

[Parker]

Shes pretty old fashioned im thinking im good not sure tho.

Was she married before? Because old fashion chicks don't have kids out of wedlock...

[Doug_Steele]

Was she married before? Because old fashion chicks don't have kids out of wedlock...

I read a book in college where a Whore had to wear a A on her shirt.    Scarlett's Letter  Taught me alot!

[Hulkotron]

I read a book in college where a Whore had to wear a A on her shirt.    Scarlett's Letter  Taught me alot!

Haha, I read that book too.  It would be good if such policies were enforced in the real world!

[James Blunt]

She probably sensed your bad credit, bro. In a recession, that's a serious cock-blocker.   

LOL good stuff. 

[Parker]

I read a book in college where a Whore had to wear a A on her shirt.    Scarlett's Letter  Taught me alot!

Me too, taught me that Preacher can't even stand up after he get's chick pregnant... They needed Maury back then

[Azure]

Mike,

Please dont take this at all the wrong way. NEVER shit where you eat (dating co-workers or dating same gym people). Who needs the extra hassels. I go to the gym to relieve stress and shit, so no hangups there.

IMO not a great idea for movies on the first date. When you brought her home, is this where she and her child live, if so, not a good idea on her part.

Honestly, dont add her on facebook. If she wants to continue dating, she knows how to find you. If you want, text her tommorow and wish her a Happy 4th. See if she responds. If not wait a few days if you dont text her tommorow. If she doesn't respond, well then Hulkotron was right, she isn't in to you. Sounds like it if she was checking her phone during the movie, or maybe she was making sure noone was calling about her kid being sick or so.

Play it cool and see if she chats it up with ya. If not, plenty of fish in the sea

You said it all. I reaaaalllly don't advise dating co workers. I've seen too many people get fired on grounds of sexual harrassment when things turn sour.

Movies are a bad first date.  You don't get to talk and interact enough to see if there is enough chemistry.  I prefer dinner and then maybe a coffee shop or lounge afterward (not where the music is too loud though)

[Parker]

You said it all. I reaaaalllly don't advise dating co workers. I've seen too many people get fired on grounds of sexual harrassment when things turn sour.
Movies are a bad first date.  You don't get to talk and interact enough to see if there is enough chemistry.  I prefer dinner and then maybe a coffee shop or lounge afterward (not where the music is too loud though)