Author Topic: Need Advice.... (Read 5357 times)

ThaRealist · « **on:** July 07, 2010, 08:40:56 PM »

I need some advice....Old friend contacted me about her marriage and saying everything is awesome, but is in an open marriage and wants me to be the guy on the side. Her husband has a gf and she wants me to be the bf on the side....What do you guys think???

benchmstr · « **Reply #1 on:** July 07, 2010, 08:45:05 PM »

Quote from: ThaRealist on July 07, 2010, 08:40:56 PM

I need some advice....Old friend contacted me about her marriage and saying everything is awesome, but is in an open marriage and wants me to be the guy on the side. Her husband has a gf and she wants me to be the bf on the side....What do you guys think???

that shit never ends well....i wouldnt do it.....cause if they have your contact info, there is no such thing as no strings attached...

bench

SF1900 · « **Reply #2 on:** July 07, 2010, 08:48:44 PM »

Stay away. It can only end badly. Not worth the stress.

chaos · « **Reply #3 on:** July 07, 2010, 08:51:36 PM »

I say tap that ass, what do you have to lose?

ThaRealist · « **Reply #4 on:** July 07, 2010, 09:03:44 PM »

Quote from: chaos on July 07, 2010, 08:51:36 PM

I say tap that ass, what do you have to lose?

I am kinda thinkin the same way...Haven't went through with it yet, but she texts me all the time

chaos · « **Reply #5 on:** July 07, 2010, 09:06:40 PM »

Quote from: ThaRealist on July 07, 2010, 09:03:44 PM

I am kinda thinkin the same way...Haven't went through with it yet, but she texts me all the time

Bang her silly and make her buy you stuff in return.

ThaRealist · « **Reply #6 on:** July 07, 2010, 09:07:56 PM »

Quote from: chaos on July 07, 2010, 09:06:40 PM

Bang her silly and make her buy you stuff in return.

Yeah, she wants it to be a normal thing after we have sex...

boonasty · « **Reply #7 on:** July 07, 2010, 09:19:38 PM »

Quote from: ThaRealist on July 07, 2010, 08:40:56 PM

I need some advice....Old friend contacted me about her marriage and saying everything is awesome, but is in an open marriage and wants me to be the guy on the side. Her husband has a gf and she wants me to be the bf on the side....What do you guys think???

does everything sound awesome to you

hell no stay away

Coach is Back! · « **Reply #8 on:** July 07, 2010, 09:22:13 PM »

Quote from: ThaRealist on July 07, 2010, 08:40:56 PM

I need some advice....Old friend contacted me about her marriage and saying everything is awesome, but is in an open marriage and wants me to be the guy on the side. Her husband has a gf and she wants me to be the bf on the side....What do you guys think???

Run as far as you can!

Parker · « **Reply #9 on:** July 07, 2010, 09:26:21 PM »

Quote from: ThaRealist on July 07, 2010, 08:40:56 PM

I need some advice....Old friend contacted me about her marriage and saying everything is awesome, but is in an open marriage and wants me to be the guy on the side. Her husband has a gf and she wants me to be the bf on the side....What do you guys think???

Then everything is NOT awesome, if you have to go outside. It's merely a bandaid for the issues that are in the marriage itself...

I say go for and D her down really, really good. I'm talking PUT IT DOWN LIKE NEVER BEFORE. And then keep doing it, and then just stop one day and ask, "if your marriage is so awesome, why do you need another man to screw you?", do this with him in the room.

Or just ask that question w/o doing the deed.

chaos · « **Reply #10 on:** July 07, 2010, 09:35:52 PM »

Just fuck her, deal with the consequences after you drop a load.

Agnostic007 · « **Reply #11 on:** July 08, 2010, 06:48:25 AM »

Pics or it didn't happen

DK II · « **Reply #12 on:** July 08, 2010, 06:55:59 AM »

If you're single you can fuck whoever you want but stay away from married women.

NOW they might be in an "open marriage" (whatever the fuck that is, either you're married or you aren't) but eventually in a few years it's all over and someone decides it's all your fault and shows up at your house with a shotgun.

There are enough women to fuck out there. Stay away from that one.

MORTALCOIL · « **Reply #13 on:** July 08, 2010, 07:00:19 AM »

DK speaking the truth. I've fucked a pretty long list of married women whan I was single (most of them were subtle enough to hide that fact for a while) and it only led to problems. Married women seem a good option if you're not willing to commit as you find them less needy at first. But eventually you always end up in the same place except that with a married woman you have to deal with the husband at one point.

DK II · « **Reply #14 on:** July 08, 2010, 07:05:02 AM »

Quote from: MORTALCOIL on July 08, 2010, 07:00:19 AM

DK speaking the truth. I've fucked a pretty long list of married women whan I was single (most of them were subtle enough to hide that fact for a while) and it only led to problems. Married women seem a good option if you're not willing to commit as you find them less needy at first. But eventually you always end up in the same place except that with a married woman you have to deal with the husband at one point.

I'd rather expect married women fucking around wanting even MORE than single women at one point.

Even if you don't have to deal with the husband, i would think that a married woman not getting what she wants can get a real pain in the ass.

Just find some cheap slut in a disco and fuck that.

MORTALCOIL · « **Reply #15 on:** July 08, 2010, 07:06:53 AM »

Quote from: DonkeyKong on July 08, 2010, 07:05:02 AM

I'd rather expect married women fucking around wanting even MORE than single women at one point.

Even if you don't have to deal with the husband, i would think that a married woman not getting what she wants can get a real pain in the ass.

Just find some cheap slut in a disco and fuck that.

Exactly. As long as the bitch doesn't have your number....well, she hasn't got your number and that's good news.

CalvinH · « **Reply #16 on:** July 08, 2010, 08:18:06 AM »

Tell her you wanna fuck her and the husbands girl at the same time.

El Diablo Blanco · « **Reply #17 on:** July 08, 2010, 08:23:05 AM »

Too Many whiny bitches on here that watch oprah and Dr. phil. Listen bub. Fuck her if she is attractive. Nothing wrong with pounding pussy.

bigkid · « **Reply #18 on:** July 08, 2010, 08:45:14 AM »

I see this ending badly. Like going to work in the morning and taking a shotgun blast to the face as you open your door bad.

HTexan · « **Reply #19 on:** July 08, 2010, 09:12:33 AM »

Quote from: mon_of_steele on July 08, 2010, 08:23:05 AM

Too Many whiny bitches on here that watch oprah and Dr. phil. Listen bub. Fuck her if she is attractive. Nothing wrong with pounding pussy.

there is if she a crazy bitch.

ThaRealist · « **Reply #20 on:** July 08, 2010, 10:05:07 AM »

I have been blowing her off, but she texts me all day about dumb shit. I told her if we did anything it would be strictly sex and nothing more, she wants a boyfriend and I am not down with that.

newmom · « **Reply #21 on:** July 08, 2010, 10:20:30 AM »

Quote from: ThaRealist on July 08, 2010, 10:05:07 AM

I have been blowing her off, but she texts me all day about dumb shit. I told her if we did anything it would be strictly sex and nothing more, she wants a boyfriend and I am not down with that.

IMO red flags everywhere Realist

Mr Nobody · « **Reply #22 on:** July 08, 2010, 10:38:47 AM »

Quote from: newmom on July 08, 2010, 10:20:30 AM

IMO red flags everywhere Realist

Well yes and and no if can she keep quiet here lies the key.

newmom · « **Reply #23 on:** July 08, 2010, 11:02:11 AM »

Quote from: Mr Nobody on July 08, 2010, 10:38:47 AM

Well yes and and no if can she keep quiet here lies the key.

CMON, first off she is texting him off the hook and they haven't even hooked up..STALKERRRRRRRRRRRRR besides MOST women can't keep their yaps shut (not one word Chaos, Alex23 or Calvin)

Mr Nobody · « **Reply #24 on:** July 08, 2010, 11:08:01 AM »

Quote from: newmom on July 08, 2010, 11:02:11 AM

CMON, first off she is texting him off the hook and they haven't even hooked up..STALKERRRRRRRRRRRRR besides MOST women can't keep their yaps shut (not one word Chaos, Alex23 or Calvin)

Outstanding observation, then its a no to the girl unless he dont care to get caught.