If only black males would take CARE of their kids. Then stuff liek this would never happen. And "Ghettos" would vanish within time.
Dont make a baby if you cant take care of it, white people usually think like that, hopefully black people will sometimes also come to that conclusion.
You don't get it do you? It takes two to tango. Black women pick effed up dudes to have their kids with. Black women know that the dudes will leave. One, they are mimmicking a generational habit passed down from their mothers. Two, there is a "I don't need a man" mentality. Three, black women don't hold character in high esteem when it comes to black men.It's comes right under "clipped knuckle hair;. Any other man, sure. Four, many black women have terrible chracter themselves. A man's thoughts , dreams, aspirations, goals are mirrored or reflected in his woman, if she has none, or no expectations of him, then he will not have any for himself.
It is a woman's job to dictate what she wants. Five, How can you tell someone to be a man, when they themsleves don't know? Six, Don't have a child with a man-child, and then expect him to automatically "be a man" and take care of a child
Hopefully you read this,
and I EXPECT you to not ask such a silly question again.