Sev, what's up with you?
? This new girl friend is making you soft. This guy should have the shit beat out of him and while he's on the ground whimpering like a girl everyone on this thread should surround him and piss on him bukake style.
NAH
See pellius, the human mind works as follows :
You can only perceive in others a reflection of something that's in you. If it's not in you, you simply do not "sense" it in others and obviously they cannot reflect it back.
So when something someone says bothers you, it's because you recognize in what they say a reflection of something you reject about yourself.
If it's not in you, the words or actions do not bother you.
This is why getbig is interesting ... and yes, "owning" and talking shit and people getting offended has something to do with this as well.