He's an R+B singer. Not a gangsta rapper. And he took a beating on every single TV show in America, including Oprah. All of a sudden there was a refferendum on how blacks treat the women in their lives, Jay Z had him banned from doing certain gigs and appearing on the radio, etc.
I dunno man-- I think her reputation comes out much, much, much worse. He looks like a dude that got fucked over and understandably lost his temper. She looks like a digusting pig trying to solicit fake sympathy for the fact that she gave her significant other an uncurable STD. Also, she is 10x the star he will ever be. She has a lot more to lose imo. How is Oprah, Jay z or anyone else going to give this kid a hard time when what she did is 10000x worse?
Unless he got a ton of $$$ to stay quiet, I dont buy a word of that shit.