Serious set of questions for the straight & gay members of this site.

[OneMoreRep]

Question "1":

Would the number of men your woman has been with (Slept with) influence the chance of you marrying her?

In other words, say you start dating a woman and a few months into your relationship, after you've fucked her a healthy number of times, you question her sex life prior to you and she says her sexual partner count is about 5, 10, 15, 20 men......

What then, do you continue with her but never consider marriage a viable option?  

Do you dump her immediately?  

Do you treat her with any less respect?  

Do you continue with her regardless of her prior sexual history and look to the future to make your own determining judgments?

 
Question "2":

Say your woman's prior sex life has consisted of a low partner count (<4), but 1-2 of those partners have been personal friends of yours, do you then reconsider marrying/being with her knowing that a couple of your good male friends know exactly what your woman feels/looks like in bed?

For my gay brothers in the forum, simply substitute the word woman with man and then feel free to address the same questions.

How is this bodybuilding related?

Lets just say that a few years back when I used to work out with various pros, there was one particular pro (Won't mention his name for fear of ::hint hint:: litigious action) whose now wife was screwing his training partner and even knowing of the fact, he went ahead and married her.  I wondered about this phenomenon and didn't know what to make of it.


What say you all?
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[Parker]

Question "1":

Would the number of men your woman has been with (Slept with) influence the chance of you marrying her?

In other words, say you start dating a woman and a few months into your relationship, after you've fucked her a healthy number of times, you question her sex life prior to you and she says her sexual partner count is about 5, 10, 15, 20 men......

What then, do you continue with her but never consider marriage a viable option?  

Do you dump her immediately?  

Do you treat her with any less respect?  

Do you continue with her regardless of her prior sexual history and look to the future to make your own determining judgments?

 
Question "2":

Say your woman's prior sex life has consisted of a low partner count (<4), but 1-2 of those partners have been personal friends of yours, do you then reconsider marrying/being with her knowing that a couple of your good male friends know exactly what your woman feels/looks like in bed?

For my gay brothers in the forum, simply substitute the word woman with man and then feel free to address the same questions.

How is this bodybuilding related?

Lets just say that a few years back when I used to work out with various pros, there was one particular pro (Won't mention his name for fear of ::hint hint:: litigious action) whose now wife was screwing his training partner and even knowing of the fact, he went ahead and married her.  I wondered about this phenomenon and didn't know what to make of it.


What say you all?
"1"

You asked a question you know the answer to...Many women today are like a 2011 Mercedes Benz SL with 100K on the clock, but want to be treated like a 2011 Merdeces Benz SL with no miles on the clock and a full warranty...


to really answer your question. You've seen guys with Ferraris and they drive the hell out of them, and then sell them, right when maintenance time comes around...to many guys a used Ferrari si still a Ferrari, no matter how bad the condition is...Just like a hot woman is still a hot woman, no matter her "mileage and condition"...
Would you buy a Ferrari (questionable) at a local used car Dealership?

[OneMoreRep]

Park,

You simply dodged the question by answering with yet the same question posed differently.

So would it make a difference to you or not?

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[OneMoreRep]

You asked a question you know the answer to...Many women today are like a 2011 Mercedes Benz SL with 100K on the clock, but want to be treated like a 2011 Merdeces Benz SL with no miles on the clock and a full warranty...


to really answer your question. You've seen guys with Ferraris and they drive the hell out of them, and then sell them, right when maintenance time comes around...to many guys a used Ferrari si still a Ferrari, no matter how bad the condition is...Just like a hot woman is still a hot woman, no matter her "mileage and condition"...
Would you buy a Ferrari (questionable) at a local used car Dealership?

Deeming your car scenario unfit for analysis due to a man's inability to insert their penis into a car's exhaust pipe and truly obtain pleasure from said practices (Speaking from experience of course).

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[Deicide]

Park,

You simply dodged the question by answering with yet the same question posed differently.

So would it make a difference to you or not?

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I think it might; my current gf lost her virginity to me...and I like it that way.

[OneMoreRep]

I think it might; my current gf lost her virginity to me...and I like it that way.

That's also dangerous territory to be caught in.

You see, women who have only been with one man sexually become very curious when they listen in on their co-workers and salon buddies regarding the different set of gifts and abilities between men.

Over the years, your girlfriend might hear about how one of her friends fucked a guy that had the uncanny ability to orgasm multiple times and/or hit the g-spot continuously due to the shape of his penis and even hear about certain men that have above-average, sized cocks (9-11 inches).

In light of this, she might become interested in experimenting with said creatures and venture out. 


Complicated matter,
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[Deicide]

That's also dangerous territory to be caught in.

You see, women who have only been with one man sexually become very curious when they listen in on their co-workers and salon buddies regarding the different set of gifts and abilities between men.

Over the years, your girlfriend might hear about how one of her friends fucked a guy that had the uncanny ability to orgasm multiple times and/or hit the g-spot continuously due to the shape of his penis and even hear about certain men that have above-average, sized cocks (9-11 inches).

In light of this, she might become interested in experimenting with said creatures and venture out. 


Complicated matter,
"1"

She is not Western, so that thing doesn't really apply to her.

[pellius]

Of course it matters how many men a woman has had sex with in her life if you are considering marrying her. It's one of the indications of her character. I think a man, at least most men, would be a liar to say it doesn't matter if someone he is considering spending his life with had 1-3 partners, all a result of a serious relationship, than a woman who has had say 50 to 100+ partners.

There is a double standard and there should be simply because men and women are different no matter how much society and our culture tries to convince you over wise.

[OneMoreRep]

Of course it matters how many men a woman has had sex with in her life if you are considering marrying her. It's one of the indications of her character. I think a man, at least most men, would be a liar to say it doesn't matter if someone he is considering spending his life with had 1-3 partners, all a result of a serious relationship, than a woman who has had say 50 to 100+ partners.

There is a double standard and there should be simply because men and women are different no matter how much society and our culture tries to convince you over wise.

Yes, there certainly is a double standard. 

Would a woman ever tell you the truth with regards to the actual number of men she has been with?

Women are great liars as are gay men..

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[pellius]

She is not Western, so that thing doesn't really apply to her.

Exactly. Assuming she's, say over 23 yo, then she's already heard all the stories just like guys have by the time their also in their early twenties. Not all women are motivated by sexual adventures and actually prefer a stable, committed, long term relationship. I imagine there are still small corners of the planet where the sexual revolution didn't pollute the minds of women and sell them a bill of goods where they were taught that acting more like a man would set them free. Being and acting sexually promiscuous like men didn't exactly improve their moral character but simply diminished what elevated them and distinguished them from men. One of a woman's traditional roles was to civilized men and forced them to commit to a relationship and force them to be more responsible and mature instead of alley catting around which is their natural predisposition. Times have certainly changed. And now so many men are stuck in perpetual adolescence.
    

[pellius]

Yes, there certainly is a double standard. 

Would a woman ever tell you the truth with regards to the actual number of men she has been with?

Women are great liars as are gay men..

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So true. But I would venture to guess that it wouldn't matter as much to a gay man if his potential "life partner" had many sexual partners. Though one's sexual preferences may differ, a man's nature is a man's nature.

[Tapeworm]

What counts is who she is now.

[pellius]

What counts is who she is now.

But you don't think that how a person has lived their life plays a role on how they are now and will be in the future?

[Deicide]

Exactly. Assuming she's, say over 23 yo, then she's already heard all the stories just like guys have by the time their also in their early twenties. Not all women are motivated by sexual adventures and actually prefer a stable, committed, long term relationship. I imagine there are still small corners of the planet where the sexual revolution didn't pollute the minds of women and sell them a bill of goods where they were taught that acting more like a man would set them free. Being and acting sexually promiscuous like men didn't exactly improve their moral character but simply diminished what elevated them and distinguished them from men. One of a woman's traditional roles was to civilized men and forced them to commit to a relationship and force them to be more responsible and mature instead of alley catting around which is their natural predisposition. Times have certainly changed. And now so many men are stuck in perpetual adolescence.
    

Yeah, mine has a different character. She waited for a guy she loves, which fortunately turned out to be me. I can't 100% sure (of anything in life really), but she really seems to be a keeper.

[myt1]

Some of the girls that I have slept with have had many more partners than I, and for that reason I never considered them relationship material for a couple of reasons.  Trustability, morals, psychiatric, and more importantly I wouldn't want a woman that sleeps around to be the potential future mother to my children especially a daughter.

I usually bring history up pretty early just to know what i'm dealing with so that way this isn't somthing that becomes an OMG moment/ decision 2+ months into the relationship

So was the girl fucking the training partner while in the relationship with your pro friend?  I typically consider friends ex's to be off limits, and it's pretty much a turn off anyway cuz my friend would have told me about cumming/pissing on her, fucking her in the butt, how she like to lick his ass, etc......don't really want to go their then.  lol  I wouldn't even consider talking to the bitch again let alone marry her if she was fucking my friend while we were dating though.  

[Tapeworm]

But you don't think that how a person has lived their life plays a role on how they are now and will be in the future?

Are you the same man you were when you were in your teens, 20s or 30s?

Continuing issues are a worry but the past is the past.  Besides, there are far bigger issues in a long term relationship than how many dicks a woman sucked in her college days.

[Deicide]

Are you the same man you were when you were in your teens, 20s or 30s?

Continuing issues are a worry but the past is the past.  Besides, there are far bigger issues in a long term relationship than how many dicks a woman sucked in her college days.

Depends though; rampant sexual behaviour can be a indication of much larger problems...

[V Man]

Question "1":

Would the number of men your woman has been with (Slept with) influence the chance of you marrying her?

In other words, say you start dating a woman and a few months into your relationship, after you've fucked her a healthy number of times, you question her sex life prior to you and she says her sexual partner count is about 5, 10, 15, 20 men......

What then, do you continue with her but never consider marriage a viable option?  

Do you dump her immediately?  

Do you treat her with any less respect?  

Do you continue with her regardless of her prior sexual history and look to the future to make your own determining judgments?

 
Question "2":

Say your woman's prior sex life has consisted of a low partner count (<4), but 1-2 of those partners have been personal friends of yours, do you then reconsider marrying/being with her knowing that a couple of your good male friends know exactly what your woman feels/looks like in bed?

For my gay brothers in the forum, simply substitute the word woman with man and then feel free to address the same questions.

How is this bodybuilding related?

Lets just say that a few years back when I used to work out with various pros, there was one particular pro (Won't mention his name for fear of ::hint hint:: litigious action) whose now wife was screwing his training partner and even knowing of the fact, he went ahead and married her.  I wondered about this phenomenon and didn't know what to make of it.


What say you all?
"1"

Question 1 to me is irrelevant, because marriage will never be an option, and you can never really believe what a woman tells you regards to her sexual past. So I always assume she's been a whore before she met me, regardless of what she says.

Question 2. Is simple to me, I would never date a girl that was in a serious relationship with one of my friends. Unless it was a very long time ago, and only if my friend was ok with it.

[Tapeworm]

Depends though; rampant sexual behaviour can be a indication of much larger problems...

Well if she serviced the entire regiment I'd be a little wary, but I don't have any problem with a healthy manifestation of horniness.

I'm not prepared to hold anyone to a standard I wouldn't accept for myself, whether it's promiscuity or anything else.  Most important is what I'm seeing in front of me and the why of it.  How people have become who they are is what makes them so interesting.

Of course, this is all academic.  I'm not sure you can ever really know someone.  Even if you get some facts you never have the whole picture.  I've been caught off guard all my life.  Just not too bright, I guess!

[wavelength]

The only thing that matters is: Do you love her/him.
Everything else is 100% bullshit.

[Deicide]

Well if she serviced the entire regiment I'd be a little wary, but I don't have any problem with a healthy manifestation of horniness.

I'm not prepared to hold anyone to a standard I wouldn't accept for myself, whether it's promiscuity or anything else.  Most important is what I'm seeing in front of me and the why of it.  How people have become who they are is what makes them so interesting.

Of course, this is all academic.  I'm not sure you can ever really know someone.  Even if you get some facts you never have the whole picture.  I've been caught off guard all my life.  Just not too bright, I guess!

You are right. You can't know someone 100%. I try to give 99% of myself to my gf but I always save 1%, just in case things go south...

[Deicide]

The only thing that matters is: Do you love her/him.
Everything else is 100% bullshit.

No offence man, but this is totally wrong. I loved a borderline/bipolar psycho bitch once and it wasn't good for me. Bad call.

[wavelength]

No offence man, but this is totally wrong. I loved a borderline/bipolar psycho bitch once and it wasn't good for me. Bad call.

It must have been good for you at some point, otherwise you wouldn't have loved her.

[Deicide]

It must have been good for you at some point, otherwise you wouldn't have loved her.

One must distinguish between being in love and loving someone....I don't know if you were making that distinction but I was more in love with her than I loved her. Different stuff. Yeah, anyway, she was pretty hot and I was young.

[wavelength]

One must distinguish between being in love and loving someone....I don't know if you were making that distinction but I was more in love with her than I loved her. Different stuff. Yeah, anyway, she was pretty hot and I was young.

My point is just that people will regret their choices anyway. IMHO, it's always better to regret choices made out of love than choices made out of some stupid set of rules made up by the mind.