How important do you think common interests are in a relationship?

[Deicide]

Or how important do you think it is for your gf/partner to be interested in what you do?

Opinions?

[Howard]

Or how important do you think it is for your gf/partner to be interested in what you do?

Opinions?

If she is intersted in my Johnson, I am into her poontang, THAT is common interest.

[Deicide]

If she is intersted in my Johnson, I am into her poontang, THAT is common interest.

Sure and fair enough but for the relationship to carry the distance, don't you think there needs to be more than just that?

[che]

Is not that important .

[Deicide]

Is not that important .

Reason?

[Stavios]

The girl I am dating now doesn't have any interests it seems, she just agrees with absolutely everything I like or want to do 

pretty fucked up actually

[BIG ACH]

To a point its important.  But its not the defining factor.... Not to sound like a hallmark card, but as long as you care for each other, support each other, respect each other, love each other, get turned on by each other... I think you'll be ok.

My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years, and have dated for many years before then, we actually met when we were around 14 years old (28 years old now), and for the most part we have very different interests, but things are still awesome between us!

Sure, some things interest us both equally - but I would really say for the most part we are on different ends of the spectrum, and thats totally fine, we both know it, and it doesn't hinder our love life in anyway! All is well in the House of BIG ACH, and all shall be well in the House of Deicide

[affeman]

Translation: Can a relationship function if the girl doesn't share your love for men in thongs?

[Deicide]

To a point its important.  But its not the defining factor.... Not to sound like a hallmark card, but as long as you care for each other, support each other, respect each other, love each other, get turned on by each other... I think you'll be ok.

My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years, and have dated for many years before then, we actually met when we were around 14 years old (28 years old now), and for the most part we have very different interests, but things are still awesome between us!

Sure, some things interest us both equally - but I would really say for the most part we are on different ends of the spectrum, and thats totally fine, we both know it, and it doesn't hinder our love life in anyway! All is well in the House of BIG ACH, and all shall be well in the House of Deicide

Thing is, my gf and I have zero common interests although I am slightly interested in her stuff, she studies industrial design and is pretty artistic and I can dig it but she neither understands nor cares for my stuff; she can't remember the name of the uni I am doing my MSc at. Sometimes that bothers me; the love and passion is there but sometimes I wonder if that can carry it all the way (and of course other problems like her only having a student visa but...). Maybe you are right.

[The True Adonis]

Or how important do you think it is for your gf/partner to be interested in what you do?

Opinions?

100 percent.

[Deicide]

Translation: Can a relationship function if the girl doesn't share your love for men in thongs?

Not really, it's more about a lack of intellectual interests on her part. For example, I am fascinated by language and she has ZERO interest in anything language related.

[che]

Reason?

 My wife goes to church every sunday  ,I'm an atheist ,we don't like the same movies ,we don't like the same sports ,we don't like the same food  ,we never talk about my job or her job ,she works out at a gym , I work out at home ....................etc.
We like to fuck , we get along just fine.

[The True Adonis]

My wife goes to church every sunday  ,I'm an atheist ,we don't like the same movies ,we don't like the same sports ,we don't like the same food  ,we never talk about my job or her job ,she works out at a gym , I work out at home ....................etc.
We like to fuck , we get along just fine.

Thats just fucking horrible.  Sorry, I wouldn`t waste my time if that was my situation.  Don`t sound too close in my opinion.

[Deicide]

My wife goes to church every sunday  ,I'm an atheist ,we don't like the same movies ,we don't like the same sports ,we don't like the same food  ,we never talk about my job or her job ,she works out at a gym , I work out at home ....................etc.
We like to fuck , we get along just fine.

Wow. So your marriage survives on sex alone? I could never be together with a very religious person I think.

[che]

Thats just fucking horrible.  Sorry, I wouldn`t waste my time if that was my situation.  Don`t sound too close in my opinion.

 

[The True Adonis]

I`m serious.  I think most people have awful relationships with their partners or whatever.  I can`t believe the lack of communication and the lack of interests amongst people and their significant others.

It really boggles my mind actually.  I also think it contributes to the collective stupidity of our society. 

[che]

So your marriage survives on sex alone?

Nope , we love each other .

[XXXII/LX]

The girl I am dating now doesn't have any interests it seems, she just agrees with absolutely everything I like or want to do 

pretty fucked up actually

This is really annoying to me. Sure a woman is just the useless shit wrapped around a vagina, but a decent personality goes a long way.

[XXXII/LX]

Nope , we love each other .

And she has a great ass......

[che]

I`m serious.  I think most people have awful relationships with their partners or whatever.  I can`t believe the lack of communication and the lack of interests amongst people and their significant others.

It really boggles my mind actually.  I also think it contributes to the collective stupidity of our society. 

I have a great relationship with my wife .

[che]

And she has a great ass......

Yes ,she does .thank you 

[Deicide]

I`m serious.  I think most people have awful relationships with their partners or whatever.  I can`t believe the lack of communication and the lack of interests amongst people and their significant others.

It really boggles my mind actually.  I also think it contributes to the collective stupidity of our society. 

You can care about someone without having 1 to 1 interests.

[The True Adonis]

You can care about someone without having 1 to 1 interests.

Of course, but its not going to be on a deep, meaningful level in my opinion.  I could never be with someone intellectually inferior for instance.  It just wouldn`t work.  It couldn`t work.  I would have a Meltdown trying to explain everything. 

[_bruce_]

We should have one hobby/interest in common.

[XXXII/LX]

Yes ,she does .thank you 

No problem. Props.