How important do you think common interests are in a relationship?

[che]

  I would have a Meltdown trying to explain everything. 

no if you really love that person .

[The True Adonis]

no if you really love that person .

True.  To each their own I guess. 

[BIG ACH]

Of course, but its not going to be on a deep, meaningful level in my opinion.  I could never be with someone intellectually inferior for instance.  It just wouldn`t work.  It couldn`t work.  I would have a Meltdown trying to explain everything. 

Just because you have different interests, doesn't mean they are intellectually inferior!!!

You could know a lot about Chemistry - be an EXPERT in the field

And she could know a lot about biology  - be an EXPERT in the field


Different interests, both intellectual on a certain topic!  Get what I'm saying big man?

[Deicide]

Just because you have different interests, doesn't mean they are intellectually inferior!!!

You could know a lot about Chemistry - be an EXPERT in the field

And she could know a lot about biology  - be an EXPERT in the field


Different interests, both intellectual on a certain topic!  Get what I'm saying big man?

My gf doesn#t have any intellectual interests.

[Master Blaster]

My gf doesn#t have any intellectual interests.

Who the fuck cares? She's just a girl to leave your sperm in.

Hope that helps.

[The True Adonis]

Just because you have different interests, doesn't mean they are intellectually inferior!!!

You could know a lot about Chemistry - be an EXPERT in the field

And she could know a lot about biology  - be an EXPERT in the field


Different interests, both intellectual on a certain topic!  Get what I'm saying big man?

Very true, my friend.  Sometimes as the "resident provocateur of Getbig", I can be an incorrigible asshole.  You are actually one of the few people that can pull me back from time to time.  

[The True Adonis]

My gf doesn#t have any intellectual interests.

Perhaps you didn`t inflate to 25 Psi properly. 

[unracked]

Common interests are important but I believe more importantly is that both individuals come from a similar backround/upbringing etc.

[BIG ACH]

Very true, my friend.  Sometimes as the "resident provocateur of Getbig", I can be an incorrigible asshole.  You are actually one of the few people that can pull me back from time to time.  

Bah... whatchoo talkin about bro! LOL  No one can pull you back lol

[Earl1972]

My wife goes to church every sunday  ,I'm an atheist ,we don't like the same movies ,we don't like the same sports ,we don't like the same food  ,we never talk about my job or her job ,she works out at a gym , I work out at home ....................etc.
We like to fuck , we get along just fine.

you will not last

if a person stays with anybody until the day they die, the person will basically be the same as them

E

[che]

you will not last

if a person stays with anybody until the day they die, the person will basically be the same as them

E

Still going strong after 10 years .
                                                    I hope this helps

[FREAKgeek]

She wanted to lift weights with me. I told her to lift the vacuum instead.

[Stavios]

This is really annoying to me. Sure a woman is just the useless shit wrapped around a vagina, but a decent personality goes a long way.

yeah, I think it will annoye me a bit soon if she keeps being that way.

I have way too much control over her, but in some ways I like it.

like if I talk to some girl at the gym and she asks "who was that, how do you know her blablabla", I just say "You really don't want to go there, stop with the jealousy right now". And then she apologize 

 Pretty different than my ex(es) who would NEVER stop arguing about every fucking thing !

[HTexan]

Depends.

[saucetradomous]

Thats just fucking horrible.  Sorry, I wouldn`t waste my time if that was my situation.  Don`t sound too close in my opinion.

Time apart makes the heart grow fonder fool

[The True Adonis]

Time apart makes the heart grow fonder fool

I don`t deal in cliches.

[~UN_$ung~]

the question is too reductionist and over simplistic

there are cases when people who have NOTHING in common can fall in love and make a relationship work..........has a lot to do with the individuals involved


and in other cases, people look for those of the same ilk





if you think about it though, how many married people are into the same shit..........he golfs she coaches cheerleading............ he doesd fantasy football, she is in a book club



being into the same things isnt all that important.........




but with people into fitness, it is kind of important to find another who is into that lifestyle

[PJim]

I think you should hold the same morals and values more than anything. Interests are usually going to differ due to gender and aren't as vital.  I don't think it's about weighing things up so bluntly. As long as you can and WANT to support one another for ultimately your own self-interest, you're good to go.

[2ND COMING]

Or how important do you think it is for your gf/partner to be interested in what you do?

Opinions?

mexicans

[DK II]

Just because you have different interests, doesn't mean they are intellectually inferior!!!

You could know a lot about Chemistry - be an EXPERT in the field

And she could know a lot about biology  - be an EXPERT in the field


Different interests, both intellectual on a certain topic!  Get what I'm saying big man?

And if you listen to her Biology talk and she listens to your Chemistry talk everything is perfect!

I don't think common interests are THAT important, what is important is to respect the other person.
For example, to bite on your tongue and survive 2 hours in a fucking stage play but on the other hand she goes to cinema with you for any science fiction / action movie.

[wavelength]

Some common interest is nice but it's also a good opportunity to get each other interested in other things.

[MAXX]

The girl I am dating now doesn't have any interests it seems, she just agrees with absolutely everything I like or want to do 

pretty fucked up actually

good in a way. she will probably cook your food if you tell her to. try it

[Parker]

yeah, I think it will annoye me a bit soon if she keeps being that way.

I have way too much control over her, but in some ways I like it.

like if I talk to some girl at the gym and she asks "who was that, how do you know her blablabla", I just say "You really don't want to go there, stop with the jealousy right now". And then she apologize 

 Pretty different than my ex(es) who would NEVER stop arguing about every fucking thing !

Low.Self.Esteem. You will eventual grow tired and despise her. Chicas with no backbone, either have been taught that or it's a learned behavior pattern from their mothers/fathers, or they were in abusive relationships.

[_bruce_]

Perhaps you didn`t inflate to 25 Psi properly. 

 

[devilsmile]

Or how important do you think it is for your gf/partner to be interested in what you do?

Opinions?

LOL they are the most important...

wtf are you on about... another virgin who thinks "having sex with a good looking girl" is so dificult to find and a luxury and is easy to be around with a hottie just for the looks because it's everyones fantasy

I can fucka girl one time but if she is the total opposite from me I just don't get horoused anymore, it's just waist of my time... they have to have "something" else aswell.


the saying "women should stfup" applys here for me, truly.