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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #25 on: October 17, 2010, 03:59:23 PM »
Quote from: ironneck on October 17, 2010, 03:44:41 PM
i live with my grandparents all my life
if when they die i will be very sad... very very sad

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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #26 on: October 17, 2010, 04:59:50 PM »
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #27 on: October 17, 2010, 05:08:19 PM »
The only real tragedy is if she doesn't take goodrum and munchanus with her.
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #28 on: October 17, 2010, 05:10:14 PM »
Quote from: stormshadow on October 17, 2010, 03:48:06 PM
Nobody gives a shit about your grandmother, and apparently you don't either by your actions of letting her stay in a home.

She is dying and you are worried about how YOU will feel.  

You're a fuck-ing piece of scum

Hope this helps.
 No not at all actually. She got here right lung removed in the 50's was told then she wouldn't live past 40. We always thought she'd die long ago, even doctors keep telling her that. She's fucking lucky as sin. Trust me my grandmother spend her 20's bedridden with Turbuculose. She's not afraid of dieing, nor does she have any gripes with it at this age.

I'm 23 I've known she's gonna die since I've been 11 years old I've come to grips with that part, she can't live forever.
Anyhow we had to put her in a home, she had no choice she's on a ventalator you can't bring that shit into a house.

Furthermore it never occured to me that she's a part of my life that's gone forever. I always thougth about her not me.
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #29 on: October 17, 2010, 05:50:02 PM »
Quote from: Lundgrenisgod on October 17, 2010, 03:11:50 PM
Lol my grandmother had severe lung problems, has to be on a ventalator when she sleeps. It's her only health problem. From 2000-2004 I did way more for her than she did for me. It was a huge pain in the ass too. It was like our house was a nursing home etc. So when she went to the home their was a relief on our end. And she was better taken care of. I just accepted that she could die at any time and never thought about it.

For me after high school she stopped being a part of my life. I was too far away only seen her like twice a year. However now I'm starting to think about how much a part of my life she was before  2004. I don't get sad about her not being around in the future, I get said at how much she was around in the past.

Just a piece of housekeeping here... No one goes on a Vent just to sleep at night, unless she has a trach, but even then it would be pretty uncommon... she probably is on BiPap or CPAP more likely?

Lastly- if she is still alive and you know she is dying, you should go see her. Rather than BS on getbig about whether or not you will miss her, go see her now dipshit. Are you really that stupid?!
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #30 on: October 17, 2010, 05:52:15 PM »
Quote from: Lundgrenisgod on October 17, 2010, 02:57:54 PM
Here goes my grandmother is 82 will probally die in the not to distance future. I don't think it's a tradegy or anything, she's live a long time. However She lived with me from 10-17. So I'm starting to think I might really miss her if she dies. I mean she's been in a home for 6 years. So I've gotten use to not seeing her very much. So if she dies will I be filled with regret?
stop posting on the fucking internet and go see her
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #31 on: October 17, 2010, 05:53:42 PM »
Quote from: slacker on October 17, 2010, 05:52:15 PM
stop posting on the fucking internet and go see her


agreed... my grandmother would kick the living shit outta me if i didnt see her on her death bed... and yes, i was raised by her for a lot of years also... you know, because I'm black so obviously I didn't know my real father well lol
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #32 on: October 17, 2010, 07:43:11 PM »
Nah,don't go visit her.you'll feel great about yourself when she passes.
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #33 on: October 17, 2010, 08:24:05 PM »
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #34 on: October 17, 2010, 08:36:21 PM »
Quote from: nzmusclemonster on October 17, 2010, 03:02:35 PM
If she dies..... she dies.

Rocky 4 hehehehe  ;D
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #35 on: October 17, 2010, 11:14:03 PM »
I just lost my grandfather exactly a week ago. I was extremely close to him, and this was probably one of the emotional and hardest weeks of my life. It will be tough when she dies, just try to stay strong.
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #36 on: October 18, 2010, 12:09:29 AM »
Quote from: A DUB on October 17, 2010, 05:50:02 PM
Just a piece of housekeeping here... No one goes on a Vent just to sleep at night, unless she has a trach, but even then it would be pretty uncommon... she probably is on BiPap or CPAP more likely?

Lastly- if she is still alive and you know she is dying, you should go see her. Rather than BS on getbig about whether or not you will miss her, go see her now dipshit. Are you really that stupid?!
She has been on a bipap since 1996, on an oxygen feed since 2000. She got a trach in 2004. She also needs to get it changed quite often. On friday she was getting a routine change, and she nearly died. She's been living on one lung since she was twenty. So yes she's very fucking rough shape for a while yet very lucky to be alive.
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #37 on: October 18, 2010, 04:39:03 AM »
Quote from: Lundgrenisgod on October 17, 2010, 02:57:54 PM
Here goes my grandmother is 82 will probally die in the not to distance future. I don't think it's a tradegy or anything, she's live a long time. However She lived with me from 10-17. So I'm starting to think I might really miss her if she dies. I mean she's been in a home for 6 years. So I've gotten use to not seeing her very much. So if she dies will I be filled with regret?

its pretty crazy we put the poeple we love in homes because its too muhc work to take care of them which I understand. But when you think of it its pretty damn crazy.

Some people would be shocked over hearing stuff like that lol.
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #38 on: October 18, 2010, 04:41:49 AM »
I need to wisit my damn grandmother.

Wish she lived a bit closer then 700 miles
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #39 on: October 18, 2010, 04:43:20 AM »
Quote from: Swede! on October 18, 2010, 04:39:03 AM
its pretty crazy we put the poeple we love in homes because its too muhc work to take care of them which I understand. But when you think of it its pretty damn crazy.

Some people would be shocked over hearing stuff like that lol.

But also by not having to take care of your elderly ones 24/7 it enables you to live your own life to a much bigger extent which according to me is way better. Selfish? Yes. But are your grandparents in a reasonable state of mind they would/should agree with your decision. They've had their go at life. Don't let that ruin/impede yours.

I know for sure that I would not want to be a burden on my children when I grow old.
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #40 on: October 18, 2010, 04:46:16 AM »
Quote from: lovemonkey on October 18, 2010, 04:43:20 AM
But also by not having to take care of your elderly ones 24/7 it enables you to live your own life to a much bigger extent which according to me is way better. Selfish? Yes. But are your grandparents in a reasonable state of mind they would/should agree with your decision. They've had their go at life. Don't let that ruin/impede yours.

I know for sure that I would not want to be a burden on my children when I grow old.

Exactly. thats why I could understand it. If your parent needs to be taken care of 24/7 you're not allowed to life your own life at all.

But I can also understand the people that think its fucked up.

I promised my mother I would hit her in the head with a frying pan if her body broke down because she doesn't wanna be in a fucking home in pain 24/7 lol.
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #41 on: October 18, 2010, 05:03:33 AM »
Mine died when she was 86.
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #42 on: October 18, 2010, 10:32:32 AM »
A parent slowly dying (even a formerly abusive one) is so very emotionally crushing.  No amount of counseling from friends can prepare you for it.  I can say that regardless of the bravado that many of you are expressing presently,...that will fly out the window when it starts to happen to you...
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #43 on: October 18, 2010, 10:36:46 AM »
Quote from: nzmusclemonster on October 17, 2010, 03:02:35 PM
If she dies..... she dies.


i'm ashamed to admit but i laughed.
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #44 on: October 18, 2010, 10:38:13 AM »
Go get some of the best weed in town and have a smoke with grandma
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #45 on: October 18, 2010, 12:18:03 PM »
Quote from: sync pulse on October 18, 2010, 10:32:32 AM
A parent slowly dying (even a formerly abusive one) is so very emotionally crushing.  No amount of counseling from friends can prepare you for it.  I can say that regardless of the bravado that many of you are expressing presently,...that will fly out the window when it starts to happen to you...
Not if you are used to it or if you are not superstitious.  Easy come, easy go.
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #46 on: October 18, 2010, 12:22:10 PM »
Quote from: Salvatore on October 17, 2010, 03:50:40 PM

Our base instinct, as Humans, is always our most animalistic.  Animals (which we are) don't really know what "regret" is.  

The notion of "regret" is probably something Humans picked up during the Renaissance or some other faggy time period

What i'm trying to say is that "regret" and "sorrow" are just "made up" and we are just animals who are emotionless and just want to fuck and eat



hopefully, that will make you feel better
what a load of shit haha
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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #47 on: October 18, 2010, 12:31:59 PM »
Plot twist: She outlives you.      ;D

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Re: My grandmother is dieing.
« Reply #48 on: October 18, 2010, 01:17:20 PM »
Quote from: dr.chimps on October 18, 2010, 12:31:59 PM
Plot twist: She outlives you.      ;D



What happens in act III?   :o
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Re: My grandmother is DIETING
« Reply #49 on: October 18, 2010, 01:54:18 PM »
low carbs ? or low calories ?
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