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On that side of the Gracie family you have Renzo, Ralph and Ryan. When I look at Ralph and Ryan and my experiences with them compared to Renzo it only makes me respect, admire, honor, and love Renzo that much more. How such a truly great person with the heart of a saint and a lion can come from such a family I'll never know.
Ralph is a thug, a user and a punk. We hated competing with his team because the students usually reflect their teacher. His teams were punks, sore losers, cheaters, always ready to start a brawl, always did cheap shots when grappling (pinching, digging in the elbows and knuckles). We'll I guess I shouldn't say always and everybody but they prided themselves as being thugs just like Ralph. I'm sure, in fact I know, there are acceptions and I apologize to them. It's just my experience with Ralph and his team back in the day was just so overwhelming negative.
Ryan was simply evil. A rapist and most likely a murderer. He use to pick fights all the time in clubs and really hurt people. Knock someone's eye out once. He bit off a man's ear clean off his skull in a fight at a party long before Tyson did. Many have tried to kill him because he was simply the devil incarnate and he's been shot at on several occasions.
Ralph was jealous of BJ because by the time BJ was a purple belt he could already beat Ralph. His students are loyal to him but once you get to the higher levels (like Dave Camarillo (Cain Velaquez's BJJ instructor)) things change. It's kind of like that with all the Gracies but more so with Ralph. Not with Renzo, though. The guy has the heart of a warrior and a saint.
I'm bias, as we all are, but I'm willing to admit that as a person BJ isn't the greatest guy in the world and he disgraced and shamefully dishonored himself after his loss to GSP. But Ralph is a punk and a thug. Ryan, thankfully, is now burning in hell where he belongs. His past finally caught up with him
Renzo Gracie, though he wasn't the greatest fighter in the world, or even the greatest Gracie, is the type of man I can only hope to aspire to. Although he never ever put up the tough guy persona like Ralph, who achieved nothing in MMA, or Ryan who made only a minor mark in Pride, Renzo is a legend in MMA and the only Gracie, the only one, to be willing to fight anybody, at any time, anywhere. I think of all the Gracies he's the one with the most heart of a warrior. Even more so than the family champion, Rickson, which pains me to say.
Here's Renzo training with Ryan. Beautiful Jiu-Jitsu. By the both of them.