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What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« on: October 26, 2010, 02:58:57 PM »
Today I told a female friend of mine that I've known for close to ten years(and also had a relationship with for two years) to basically go fuck herself. Reason? She turned out to be fascist pig that wishes death upon minorities. She sent me a chain-text saying that the current sniper killer in Sweden did a good job for the fatherland and that similar actions should be encouraged and if you agree send this text to your friends.

I could not believe my eyes. I sent her a text and asked if she was serious and she basically said yes. I've put up with a lot of shit she's put me through over the years including suicide attempts and the like but this just really put me off. Now mind you I'm not mr. political correctness and I do believe that europe has a pretty severe immigration problem.... but murder and shootings against innocent people are never justified. I do not consider her a friend anymore.

Anyway, that's my story. So I guess my question is what it would take for you to end a good friendship with someone? Do their political views matter? Do their moral values matter even though they do not directly affect your relationship?
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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #1 on: October 26, 2010, 03:06:38 PM »


disrespect. of any kind.

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #2 on: October 26, 2010, 03:08:56 PM »
Today I told a female friend of mine that I've known for close to ten years(and also had a relationship with for two years) to basically go fuck herself. Reason? She turned out to be fascist pig that wishes death upon minorities. She sent me a chain-text saying that the current sniper killer in Sweden did a good job for the fatherland and that similar actions should be encouraged and if you agree send this text to your friends.

I could not believe my eyes. I sent her a text and asked if she was serious and she basically said yes. I've put up with a lot of shit she's put me through over the years including suicide attempts and the like but this just really put me off. Now mind you I'm not mr. political correctness and I do believe that europe has a pretty severe immigration problem.... but murder and shootings against innocent people are never justified. I do not consider her a friend anymore.

Anyway, that's my story. So I guess my question is what it would take for you to end a good friendship with someone? Do their political views matter? Do their moral values matter even though they do not directly affect your relationship?

I lived in the middle east for a long time...people there have VERY strong political views, so much so that arguments get heated very quickly and can get violent. You have to leave the politics out of the equation over there, there's other shit to talk about. If i want to bitch about politics ill do it with other sets of friends.

So no I dont think politics should preclude you being friends with someone. Being an out and out racist, I dont know, it shouldnt affect your friendship, but if she advocates killing people because of their race I guess time to give her the cold shoulder.

Definite ones for me, a mate trying to fuck a girl im dating, stealing off me, or trying to attack me either verbally (about something very personal) or physically.

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #3 on: October 26, 2010, 03:11:10 PM »
If they talk behind my back more then once. Dont want any friends like that. (lost alot of them like that also)
If the blantly lie to my face twice.
If they time and time let themself be controlled by the pussy. I cant respect a person like that. And I cant have friends whihc I dont respect to some extent.
If they are trying to push ignorant thoughts on me. Or cant respect me for My thoughts. (I can respect them unless they try and Push their views)


I am Extremly "picky" of which friends I keep as close friends. Thats why I dont have alot of close friends at all. And Im more then happy with that.

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #4 on: October 26, 2010, 03:12:18 PM »
Being a deadbeat over a very large personal debt to me ($15,000)...

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #5 on: October 26, 2010, 03:13:13 PM »
If they don't get me any closer to my goals in life, but rather stand in my way.

When I got the impression that spent time with em is wasted time.

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #6 on: October 26, 2010, 03:13:57 PM »
Today I told a female friend of mine that I've known for close to ten years(and also had a relationship with for two years) to basically go fuck herself. Reason? She turned out to be fascist pig that wishes death upon minorities. She sent me a chain-text saying that the current sniper killer in Sweden did a good job for the fatherland and that similar actions should be encouraged and if you agree send this text to your friends.

I could not believe my eyes. I sent her a text and asked if she was serious and she basically said yes. I've put up with a lot of shit she's put me through over the years including suicide attempts and the like but this just really put me off. Now mind you I'm not mr. political correctness and I do believe that europe has a pretty severe immigration problem.... but murder and shootings against innocent people are never justified. I do not consider her a friend anymore.

Anyway, that's my story. So I guess my question is what it would take for you to end a good friendship with someone? Do their political views matter? Do their moral values matter even though they do not directly affect your relationship?
Can I get this hotties number ;D

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #7 on: October 26, 2010, 03:14:38 PM »
one time a friend rolled their eyes at my zebra print zubaz gym pants.  let's just say that was the last time we ever spoke.

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #8 on: October 26, 2010, 03:15:31 PM »
I stopped talking to my best friend of 20 years over his disrespect to me.... I helped him fix up his house and didnt charge him a cent for my time and work about 6 months worth of weekends total i think, a year later he decides to let his house go thinking he would get a bigger place in the market and FAILED misserabley, when he was moving out he told me to come pick up my tools, i told him i didnt have time that weekend, he said that they would be outside for me to pick up any time, i told him to take them to his new place he was renting and i would pick them up another time, Dipshit said he would keep them outside if someone stole them that was my fault for not picking them up... I cancelled my plans that day, picked up my tools worth about $5 grand, never kicked it with that dick head again

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #9 on: October 26, 2010, 03:17:37 PM »
Can I get this hotties number ;D
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Lol I`m loyal until dealth.

One of my buddies rapped a girl, fucked up as hell(he got into drugs emm kay.) Still won`t bail. It`s called loyalty bitch. My only regrit is I didn`t pound his ass in the ground for it. He`s cleaned up though won`t even drink anymore.

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #10 on: October 26, 2010, 03:18:31 PM »
one time a friend rolled their eyes at my zebra print zubaz gym pants.  let's just say that was the last time we ever spoke.


Maybe the fannypak would have won him over.. :'(

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #11 on: October 26, 2010, 03:22:44 PM »
If they talk behind my back more then once. Dont want any friends like that. (lost alot of them like that also)
If the blantly lie to my face twice.
If they time and time let themself be controlled by the pussy. I cant respect a person like that. And I cant have friends whihc I dont respect to some extent.
If they are trying to push ignorant thoughts on me. Or cant respect me for My thoughts. (I can respect them unless they try and Push their views)


I am Extremly "picky" of which friends I keep as close friends. Thats why I dont have alot of close friends at all. And Im more then happy with that.
This is common. You aren't suppose to have a lot of close friends. That is why they are "friends". Most people are just acquaintances 

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #12 on: October 26, 2010, 03:23:07 PM »
I stopped talking to my best friend of 20 years over his disrespect to me.... I helped him fix up his house and didnt charge him a cent for my time and work about 6 months worth of weekends total i think, a year later he decides to let his house go thinking he would get a bigger place in the market and FAILED misserabley, when he was moving out he told me to come pick up my tools, i told him i didnt have time that weekend, he said that they would be outside for me to pick up any time, i told him to take them to his new place he was renting and i would pick them up another time, Dipshit said he would keep them outside if someone stole them that was my fault for not picking them up... I cancelled my plans that day, picked up my tools worth about $5 grand, never kicked it with that dick head again

you did the right thing.

Its a shame ALOT of people let themself be treated like that.

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #13 on: October 26, 2010, 03:24:23 PM »
This is common. You aren't suppose to have a lot of close friends. That is why they are "friends". Most people are just acquaintances 

yep :)

and ofc blatant disrespect as "nails" showed a prime example of.

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #14 on: October 26, 2010, 03:28:05 PM »
People who are married, in relationships who cheat.


There is no excuse. If your word means nothing and you have no honour you are stinking up the planet with your crap.


I also dumped my best friend after going with her to hold her hand for her 3rd abortion. Read her the riot act and called her a bunch of names and never returned her calls. At some point folks who have no morals wear you out, depress the hell out of you and you just feel so much better and lighter when you cut them off.

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #15 on: October 26, 2010, 03:30:29 PM »
you did the right thing.

Its a shame ALOT of people let themself be treated like that.

Yea i mean he fucked a few girls that i dated behind my back, and when i found out i never tripped on him, BROs before HOES any day, but NEVER FUCCK witha mans Tools, its just common man law.
 
We were friends since we were 10yrs old so you can imagine the crazy fun times we had growing up..

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #16 on: October 26, 2010, 03:36:24 PM »
Yea i mean he fucked a few girls that i dated behind my back, and when i found out i never tripped on him, BROs before HOES any day, but NEVER FUCCK witha mans Tools, its just common man law.
 
We were friends since we were 10yrs old so you can imagine the crazy fun times we had growing up..

While you were dating them?!?!

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #17 on: October 26, 2010, 03:52:31 PM »
People who are married, in relationships who cheat.


There is no excuse. If your word means nothing and you have no honour you are stinking up the planet with your crap.



I also dumped my best friend after going with her to hold her hand for her 3rd abortion. Read her the riot act and called her a bunch of names and never returned her calls. At some point folks who have no morals wear you out, depress the hell out of you and you just feel so much better and lighter when you cut them off.



Funny you mention this. I just saw this in another "friend" this summer... I do not consider him friend anymore either. He turned out to be a scumbag.
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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #18 on: October 26, 2010, 03:54:34 PM »
Someone murdering me, that would be the final straw.

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #19 on: October 26, 2010, 03:56:09 PM »
While you were dating them?!?!

Well not really sure swede i think maybe one or 2 were, but non of there were ever girlfriends just girls that like to have a good time hahaha
What pissed me off more was the fact that he didnt tell me the day after he waited a few years to tell me about it

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #20 on: October 26, 2010, 04:01:20 PM »
I didn't end a friendship, but we both stopped contacting each other. Or I did, as it was always me who wanted to hang out, he had some better company I suppose. This was one of the reasons. I don't want to spend time with someone who I feel doesn't like to spend time with me. Also he didn't respect my opinion, or my choices, and belittled my efforts on different aspects of life. All around negativity on lots of things. We knew each other from junior high.

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #21 on: October 26, 2010, 04:11:30 PM »
I stopped talking to my best friend of 20 years over his disrespect to me.... I helped him fix up his house and didnt charge him a cent for my time and work about 6 months worth of weekends total i think, a year later he decides to let his house go thinking he would get a bigger place in the market and FAILED misserabley, when he was moving out he told me to come pick up my tools, i told him i didnt have time that weekend, he said that they would be outside for me to pick up any time, i told him to take them to his new place he was renting and i would pick them up another time, Dipshit said he would keep them outside if someone stole them that was my fault for not picking them up... I cancelled my plans that day, picked up my tools worth about $5 grand, never kicked it with that dick head again

Man. That's just so wrong.

This one will bug me all day.


 >:(
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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #22 on: October 26, 2010, 04:15:43 PM »
Well not really sure swede i think maybe one or 2 were, but non of there were ever girlfriends just girls that like to have a good time hahaha
What pissed me off more was the fact that he didnt tell me the day after he waited a few years to tell me about it

that would be an instant "deal breaker" for me.

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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #23 on: October 26, 2010, 04:18:56 PM »
A friend would have to appreciate the finer points of the glute/ham tie in. Otherwise we wouldn't have much to talk about.
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Re: What would it take for you to end a long lasting friendship?
« Reply #24 on: October 26, 2010, 04:21:30 PM »
If they turn out to be a closet Duke fan.