yes, attitude is everything... even when you get rejected, your attitude will make you not dissapointed because you're living in your own world, your own mindset. It's like the theory of attraction, that when you imagine all the glory, you will actually feel the glory before you even experience it, and I think that's all what is, living in the imagination. But hey, atleast I would have the attitude.
Yeah parker, one shouldn't read into things too much, just like affeman told me I should take things as they come.
However I have just seen and felt that women and men think differently (DOH!). Men want women as they are (their looks and their presence). Women want men from what they can do. Men can't be horroused from a girl who looks good but is a total nobody after she opens her mouth. Women in the other hand want to showcase "what their man can do", whatever it might be- to other women and the male appearance is a minor contribution in womans attraction to the man.
It's the same thing in nature, powerfull males get all the females, the females even battle over for some king males. The one who has the most fruits and most muscle is the high standard in the animal kingdom because that's what allows the communitys survival and a great future for the offsprings.
In todays society money and suits make greate men because they have the so called power to make things happend... now if I was a slave gladiator and killed few people infront of a massive audience, then yeah I would definetely have my own set of fans, but only then the women care to listen what I have to say. Only then the women will give any value to the things I talk about because they are allready interested in me because "I can do something".
So there's two sides to everything. But I'm doing well in general, I'm just fine
, some people just live other peoples fantasy world, because they have more than the attitude and the looks and the appearance... so it can't be all attitude and taking things for granted.
