Opinions of Long Distance Relationships? Doable, worth it, etc.?

[Lundgren]

The biggest difference between my wife and the others is family stability. It took me three times to finally figure this out. my previous "relationships" all came from unstable families meaning their families (mother and father) we're either divorced, sick or deceased. I came from a stable household, mom and dad were married for 24 years before my dad passed (I was 23) both had stable jobs, grew up in the same house since I was 6, etc,etc. The others (except my current wife) didn't have that. Now I'm not saying some of wasn't brought on by me but typically when problems arise in a stable relationship, they can usually be worked out.

Given your obsessive and overly agressive nature, do you think that might have some effect on your current situation, furthermore do your father in law demonstrate any of the overly aggreasive behaviour that you so often exhibit.

[Coach is Back!]

If you don't mind her screwing other dudes behind your back (like Coach and Big Ach) it is possible .

Being that far away you can tell (always) just by the tone in their voices if they have been cheating or not. Plus my wife has strong Christian values (which is the main reason why are marriage is strong now).

[Coach is Back!]

Given your obsessive and overly agressive nature, do you think that might have some effect on your current situation, furthermore do your father in law demonstrate any of the overly aggreasive behaviour that you so often exhibit.

LOL...what?

[che]

Being that far away you can tell (always) just by the tone in their voices if they have been cheating or not.

Hahhahaa, OK Coach 

[Stavios]

I wouldn't do it

[Stavios]

If you don't mind her screwing other dudes behind your back (like Coach and Big Ach) it is possible .

she could be only 5 miles away from you and screw other dudes behind your back anyway

[Lundgren]

LOL...what?

No reply, figures.

[BIG ACH]

she could be only 5 miles away from you and screw other dudes behind your back anyway

she could be living with you and screwing the mail man every day when you're at work!

[Stavios]

she could be living with you and screwing the mail man every day when you're at work!

exactly bro !

honnestly, I have a hard time trusting a woman, but once I do,  I do.
My philosophy is: if she does, well I will probably know about it sometime in the futur, and when I do, I will have no problem dumping her and getting myself another chick.

I have been with my girl for only a month now, so it will take a few months to learn to trust her but I am not jealous so it's no biggy. But I am not to the point where she could say " I am going to vacations for 2 weeks with my friends" and me 100% sure she won't be fucking anybody like it was the case with my ex.

I don't know her well enough yet

[Earl1972]

i don't see the point

why not hook up with somebody that's more convenient?

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[Deicide]

Bizarrement j'ai une confiance absolue en elle, alors qu'elle est fidele a moi....c'est la nature de son caractere. Non, nous avons d'autres problems.

exactly bro !

honnestly, I have a hard time trusting a woman, but once I do,  I do.
My philosophy is: if she does, well I will probably know about it sometime in the futur, and when I do, I will have no problem dumping her and getting myself another chick.

I have been with my girl for only a month now, so it will take a few months to learn to trust her but I am not jealous so it's no biggy. But I am not to the point where she could say " I am going to vacations for 2 weeks with my friends" and me 100% sure she won't be fucking anybody like it was the case with my ex.

I don't know her well enough yet

[Hulkster]

if she swallows, its worth it.

[Deicide]

The biggest difference between my wife and the others is family stability. It took me three times to finally figure this out. my previous "relationships" all came from unstable families meaning their families (mother and father) we're either divorced, sick or deceased. I came from a stable household, mom and dad were married for 24 years before my dad passed (I was 23) both had stable jobs, grew up in the same house since I was 6, etc,etc. The others (except my current wife) didn't have that. Now I'm not saying some of wasn't brought on by me but typically when problems arise in a stable relationship, they can usually be worked out.

Wife 1 - Adopted to older parents, her parents were in their late 50's and early 60's when she was 20. Eventually found out she was gay.

Wife 2 - Parents divorced when she was 14-15, mom and dad both had affairs, she had an affair on me.

Wife 3 - Both parents deceased, she is bi-polar, here mom was severely bipolar/manic. She had affairs on me.

Wife 4 - 100% stable, parents been married for over 30 years, strong family values and support.

Wife 5- coming soon!

[gh15]

The biggest difference between my wife and the others is family stability. It took me three times to finally figure this out. my previous "relationships" all came from unstable families meaning their families (mother and father) we're either divorced, sick or deceased. I came from a stable household, mom and dad were married for 24 years before my dad passed (I was 23) both had stable jobs, grew up in the same house since I was 6, etc,etc. The others (except my current wife) didn't have that. Now I'm not saying some of wasn't brought on by me but typically when problems arise in a stable relationship, they can usually be worked out.

Wife 1 - Adopted to older parents, her parents were in their late 50's and early 60's when she was 20. Eventually found out she was gay.

Wife 2 - Parents divorced when she was 14-15, mom and dad both had affairs, she had an affair on me.

Wife 3 - Both parents deceased, she is bi-polar, here mom was severely bipolar/manic. She had affairs on me.

Wife 4 - 100% stable, parents been married for over 30 years, strong family values and support.

a friend that keep marry 4 times,, it is somethign that is wrong with him not with the girls,, you are a nice fella when it coe to internet board,,btu in reality since i know the in and outs of the cult,,we both know that the type of female you chose depend on you ,,and its your responsibility to make sure you go with good girls,,you dont make mistakes 4 times in a raw unless something is wrong with the person,,what is wrong with person? usually they are addicted to something,,in your case it was hormones and the idea of becomgin best bodybuilder,,many locals are like that ,,like i know that you woudnt even enter a gym with out something in yoru system but you claim to be completly clean ,,,for how long? 2 weeks? lol

reality is bodybuilder and anyone to do with strength srpots are liars of the 10th degree,,you would shrink into 170 so fast with out anything in the system lol that you woont be able to say jack,,and if not shrinking would sit at a nicely 22-25% bf which you are not,,bloated yes! high bodyfat no!

so like with hormones like with females,,the problems were mostlikley at the least 50-75% your fault  ,,but its true to many in the cult so no worries

gh15 approved

[Deicide]

a friend that keep marry 4 times,, it is somethign that is wrong with him not with the girls,, you are a nice fella when it coe to internet board,,btu in reality since i know the in and outs of the cult,,we both know that the type of female you chose depend on you ,,and its your responsibility to make sure you go with good girls,,you dont make mistakes 4 times in a raw unless something is wrong with the person,,what is wrong with person? usually they are addicted to something,,in your case it was hormones and the idea of becomgin best bodybuilder,,many locals are like that ,,like i know that you woudnt even enter a gym with out something in yoru system but you claim to be completly clean ,,,for how long? 2 weeks? lol

reality is bodybuilder and anyone to do with strength srpots are liars of the 10th degree,,you would shrink into 170 so fast with out anything in the system lol that you woont be able to say jack,,and if not shrinking would sit at a nicely 22-25% bf which you are not,,bloated yes! high bodyfat no!

so like with hormones like with females,,the problems were mostlikley at the least 50-75% your fault  ,,but its true to many in the cult so no worries

gh15 approved

Are you saying that coach is going to have a 5th wife?

[newmom]

decide,

Didn't you post recently you were driving back from your gf's house in Brooklyn. If so, then what do you consider long distance

[Deicide]

decide,

Didn't you post recently you were driving back from your gf's house in Brooklyn. If so, then what do you consider long distance

I am in London, she is in NYC.

[Mr Nobody]

Depends on the distance if you can get together on the weekends its all good then you dont get the shit worried out of you everyday. Otherwise they suck.

[Deicide]

Depends on the distance if you can get together on the weekends its all good then you dont get the shit worried out of you everyday. Otherwise they suck.

Well, the good thing is that I have a lot of trust in my gf so worrying is really a big deal. Sometimes I worry about the long term stuff but for the moment there is nothing she or I can do.

[newmom]

I am in London, she is in NYC.

oh okay, when you posted you were driving back I thought you lived in NYC.

[marcie999]

I am in London, she is in NYC.

Dayum.

Well I wouldn't do it.

If I knew they guy well before he went away, maybe.

Your mileage may vary.

 

[Coach is Back!]

a friend that keep marry 4 times,, it is somethign that is wrong with him not with the girls,, you are a nice fella when it coe to internet board,,btu in reality since i know the in and outs of the cult,,we both know that the type of female you chose depend on you ,,and its your responsibility to make sure you go with good girls,,you dont make mistakes 4 times in a raw unless something is wrong with the person,,what is wrong with person? usually they are addicted to something,,in your case it was hormones and the idea of becomgin best bodybuilder,,many locals are like that ,,like i know that you woudnt even enter a gym with out something in yoru system but you claim to be completly clean ,,,for how long? 2 weeks? lol

reality is bodybuilder and anyone to do with strength srpots are liars of the 10th degree,,you would shrink into 170 so fast with out anything in the system lol that you woont be able to say jack,,and if not shrinking would sit at a nicely 22-25% bf which you are not,,bloated yes! high bodyfat no!

so like with hormones like with females,,the problems were mostlikley at the least 50-75% your fault  ,,but its true to many in the cult so no worries

gh15 approved

Trying to decode your post is damn near impossible, that being said I had to study it hard to figure it out.

1. I didn't say it was all of their faults (exept for #3). The rest followed the traits of the parents.

2. I train almost everyday and the days I don't go, I train in my garage (which is better anyway)

3. Been clean for 3 years from EVERYTHING.

4. Couldn't get to 170 if I wanted to.

You're slipping in the accuracy of your posts. To say someone would get to "170" when coming off gear is the most assnine thing I've read from you.

[Azure]

Well it depends on your goals with the relationship.  If you're going to get serious, then you will need to ask yourself "Are you willing to move for this person".

The people I have had long distance relationships with have never gotten to the point of being REALLY SERIOUS.

If you're going to be allowed to see other people: Really be up front and honest about it. If you expect TOTAL monogamy....be really clear about that as well.

[CalvinH]

Chaos lives in Cali and I live on the east coast but it works.

[BayGBM]

The whole point of being together is to be together.