and nothing disturbs you people about the number of times your own citizens kicked and punched this guy when he was unconscious?
its just amusement?
and you really really believe that the US is the greatest place on the planet?
its a god damn disgrace is what it is. you need to band together and fix this shit. theres videos all over the place like this.
if it happened here our communities would take some serious action...
Of course it disturbs me...I commented on my feelings on the state of affairs in the black community and I will continue to distance myself...
Here's my take from yesterday...
Wiggs whats your take on interracial families > real talk bro
Alright...truce for now...
I think the most important idea for people that decide to get married that are from different races is to respect each others races and cultures...Whether you have children or not...From my experiences from knowing and interacting with other interracial couples often when certain "hot" topics come up, or when the filter is off i.e...drunk, or angry people say some pretty mean things about the others race, culture etc....and then that's pretty much it...because those subjects are so polarizing...
When my wife and I got together 12 years ago next week, a fella that mentored me in the military told me the best thing I could do, is ensure that our families didn't get involved or have any influence on how we ran things...I'm sure you and other people have seen families on both sides stick their nose into the personal affairs of others and I've seen many relationships end because of this...My wife and I while somewhat close with our families, (not me, I haven't spoken to my father in 1.5 years because he said alot of mean things about my wife) don't let our families interfere with anything that has to do with our household...They understood this from the beginning, then again, I've always been a recluse and done things the way I thought was
white...I mean right
and I have no complaints..I'm 31 and have been with the same woman for over 1/3 of my life....Have we been perfect? Fuuuuck no...but we both realize this and I understand how big of a fucking asshole I was with all the whores and among other things and am happy my frau decided to give me another chance...
I respect my wife's culture and race and she respects mine. (although I know she wants to say things but holds back because she thinks I'll be offended..lol)..we both talk about the slew of problems within the black community but it's not something I dwell on because not to sound like an asshole or schmuck, I'm really not connected to it..there are so many reasons why...I'm still proud to be black but I'm not even a slither proud of the current state of affairs and that is the main reason I distance myself from it, I saw this as a very young fella as I didn't fit in and my father would try and force the whole black experience on my brothers and I but we were raised by my mother, and my mother raised us around white people and white things...this was all we really knew and she kept us sheltered from all the urban things but we saw these things at school but never really fit in...thus the "uncle tom" moniker...in addition, my brothers and I happen to be very intelligent, especially compared to your average nog...(no racist)...this didn't help our cases to give us street cred
....So like others stated in that thread I started two weeks ago, I blame the hip-hop community, black parents for not taking the blame and putting it off on whites or not pushing the value of education, being bad with money, not setting a good example for their children, embracing "ebonics"....(oh brother) putting it in child's head whether conscious or subconsciously that mediocrity is acceptable, putting sports and other forms of "entertainment" above education and finally not teaching the acceptance of responsibility when something doesn't go their way and that it's actually not all "whiteys" fault...Bill Cosby got crucified by the black community when he said what I said but nicer...that should tell you alot if you know how Bill was viewed by the black community...Hip-hop really did a number...and while I like some of the old music the hold much disdain for the lifestyle and the way they portray black women...
So with all that said with my wife and I it's pretty easy for the race thing because I'm not a black guy in the way that alot of people view black guys...it's more of a guy that happens to black...our race has never been a problem because I conduct my self with dignity and honor not some 85 IQ nig-nog with pants around his ass and no high school diploma...
Now before I get gang raped by the other blacks here, I understand it's not all like this....But you cannot deny there is an epidemic on how fucked up things are in the black community and no one is doing a thing about it...
I think interracial couples as in black and white are more likely to stay together if they both take on a or have similar attributes of a culture...i.e me uncle tom and her German or a black chick and a wigger...when you have a thug and a uber valley girl kind of thing, I've only seen that work for sex and of course it didn't last...I'm sure there are some examples out there that worked...
It's only a problem if you want it to be...There will be plenty of problems being together being a man and a woman in general, no need to add another category to further complicate things.....If I ever have children, they will value the things I spoke of before but I won't shelter them from the world...They will know German and value the German culture and they will know the history of blacks in this country and black heroes, i.e King, Washington Carter, President Obama
...etc...they'll understand and know why many of the blacks, "are the way they are" so they don't fall into that lifestyle or rut...
BTW many may view me as fucked up, a sell out of sorts but what I do works for me and I'm happy...
The frau and I had/have everything going against us, she's white, I'm black...She's German, I'm American, she's 40 and I'm 31....it's been tough but IMO it's worth it and when people quit over what would be in my opinion something minor, it shows they have no fight or aren't willing to compromise.
Sorry for the dissertation style meltdown...
...I'm not going back and checking for any spelling or grammatical errors on this one..
