question for married folks

[Brixtonbulldog]

if everyone who is married makes half-serious comments/remarks/jokes about how unhappy they are then why do so many even bother? 

seriously, i have yet to meet anyone who is married for any length of time and really happy about it.

so..  inspire me. 

[kiwiol]

if everyone who is married makes half-serious comments/remarks/jokes about how unhappy they are then why do so many even bother? 

seriously, i have yet to meet anyone who is married for any length of time and really happy about it.

so..  inspire me. 

Congrats, man. When did he propose?

[kh300]

I don't think you need to be inspired to get married. It just happens. You can try to run but eventually you'll pull a hamstring and give up.

[Brixtonbulldog]

Congrats, man. When did he propose?

aw shucks.. i havent met the lucky man yet 

[Sir Bigness]

aw shucks.. i havent met the lucky man yet 

Haha!! Here's the lucky guy!!

[kiwiol]

aw shucks.. i havent met the lucky man yet 

Why the lack of your usual witty come back, BitesOnButtPlugs?

I'd tell you to keep your chin up, but maybe it's not a good idea

[ryanm5593]

 It's all about comittment. Some times you are in love, some times no so much, but you remain comitted...

[Brixtonbulldog]

Why the lack of your usual witty come back, BitesOnButtPlugs?

I'd tell you to keep your chin up, but maybe it's not a good idea

gahhh.. . just seeing misery around me gets me off my game.





































and fuck you very much, btw

[ryanm5593]

gahhh.. . just seeing misery around me gets me off my game.


if seeing misery around you gets you off your game, then you aint got no game. If you got game you push through the misery.....





































and fuck you very much, btw

[BIG ACH]

I used to make those cheezy jokes about why being married sucks...  but I've stopped recently, cause I just started feel that they are tired, old, not all that funny, and not really a good representation of how I feel.

I like being married personally! 

[Ares]

marriage is awesome.. IF you marry the right person.

Looking to marry some slutty attention whore that looks great on your arm but drives you insane with her bullshit is not going to work.

You have to wait until you find someone you are responsibly attracted to but also share values/interests with and who has a stable personality.  Look past what your ego and dick want in the short term and you have a chance for a happy life. Not saying  a young single guy shouldn't try and bang hot women,  but if "smokin hot" is your main criteria for marriage material you are an idiot.  "Smokin hot" women who are not unstable, greedy, untrustworthy, or flat out nut cases are few and far between.

I'm lovin married life - she doesnt nag me, plays computer games, makes 140k, lets me do what the fuck I want, isn't too insecure, and has a great ass. Her parents never babied her and so she grew up not expecting the world to fall at her feet. Don't ever marry a woman with no job or no skills who expects you to carry her water for her all through life.

[Brixtonbulldog]

marriage is awesome.. IF you marry the right person.

Looking to marry some slutty attention whore that looks great on your arm but drives you insane with her bullshit is not going to work.

You have to wait until you find someone you are responsibly attracted to but also share values/interests with and who has a stable personality.  Look past what your ego and dick want in the short term and you have a chance for a happy life. Not saying  a young single guy shouldn't try and bang hot women,  but if "smokin hot" is your main criteria for marriage material you are an idiot.  "Smokin hot" women who are not unstable, greedy, untrustworthy, or flat out nut cases are few and far between.

I'm lovin married life - she doesnt nag me, plays computer games, makes 140k, lets me do what the fuck I want, isn't too insecure, and has a great ass. Her parents never babied her and so she grew up not expecting the world to fall at her feet. Don't ever marry a woman with no job or no skills who expects you to carry her water for her all through life.

Happy for ya.. sounds like you have a great thing going.

It's not so much that I'm reflecting my own situation but what I've been seeing around me.  Excellent post all around tho.

[stormshadow]

 "Smokin hot" women who are not unstable, greedy, untrustworthy, or flat out nut cases are few and far between.

Smart man...

few and far between is optimistic in my experience...

[Voice of Doom]

I'll give you several good reasons for marriage...I just need to ask my wife what they are first.


 



 

[freespirit]

marriage is awesome.. IF you marry the right person.

Indeed, IF. Winning the lottery seems easier.

[The Wizard of Truth]

marriage is awesome.. IF you marry the right person.

Most true thing ive ever heard

[johnny1]

marriage is awesome.. IF you marry the right person.

Looking to marry some slutty attention whore that looks great on your arm but drives you insane with her bullshit is not going to work.

You have to wait until you find someone you are responsibly attracted to but also share values/interests with and who has a stable personality.  Look past what your ego and dick want in the short term and you have a chance for a happy life. Not saying  a young single guy shouldn't try and bang hot women,  but if "smokin hot" is your main criteria for marriage material you are an idiot.  "Smokin hot" women who are not unstable, greedy, untrustworthy, or flat out nut cases are few and far between.

I'm lovin married life - she doesnt nag me, plays computer games, makes 140k, lets me do what the fuck I want, isn't too insecure, and has a great ass. Her parents never babied her and so she grew up not expecting the world to fall at her feet. Don't ever marry a woman with no job or no skills who expects you to carry her water for her all through life.

First and last sentence is Bang-on.

[littleguns]

2 questions:

1. If I became a quadriplegic, do I truly believe this person will stick with me?

2. If she became a quadiplegic, would I want to still stay with her

If you said yes to both then marriage material.

Obviously you take into account, personality, sexual chemistry etc, remember looks will fade

[The True Adonis]

if everyone who is married makes half-serious comments/remarks/jokes about how unhappy they are then why do so many even bother?  

seriously, i have yet to meet anyone who is married for any length of time and really happy about it.

so..  inspire me.  

Its just a unintelligent Societal meme and social American custom/norm derived from poorly written sit coms and horrible Romantic Comedies (All Americans do is basically watch Television and repeat what they see whilst they shovel a bag full of Bugles in their gaping maws) to spout one liner after one liner about marriage being miserable.

Americans live for the next one liner after the next one liner.  As you can tell, I have much disdain for this type of mindless banter.

[JimmyJam1974]

It ain't that bad. Just make sure you've sewed all your oats

[Alexander D]

My wife is awesome... she's beautiful, smart and puts up with ALL of my shit... we rarely ever argue... plus she cooks lol livin' the good life!

[Master Blaster]

It's hard to put aside childish dreams and start a family. Especially for someone like me who still has the emotional maturity of a teen ager. 

[che]

My wife is awesome... she's beautiful, smart and puts up with ALL of my shit... we rarely ever argue... plus she cooks lol livin' the good life!

Fixed and X2

[JasonH]

I split up with my wife about three months ago - we'd been married for six years and together for ten. We're still friends though and the split wasn't acrimonious - we had just come to the end of our time together and wanted to move on. It was tough all the same though but it hasn't put me off getting married again.

[Brixtonbulldog]

Its just a unintelligent Societal meme and social American custom/norm derived from poorly written sit coms and horrible Romantic Comedies (All Americans do is basically watch Television and repeat what they see whilst they shovel a bag full of Bugles in their gaping maws) to spout one liner after one liner about marriage being miserable.

Americans live for the next one liner after the next one liner.  As you can tell, I have much disdain for this type of mindless banter.

Petty Canadian psychobabble. 

Americans are some of the most hard-charging, cunning, and courageous people the world has the benefit of being blessed with and the bad apples never leave the country anyway.  With statements like this it is no wonder why Canada is the bottom bitch of every 'one-liner' and pissing contest the world over.