The other thing u people fail to see is that the military is not a 9 to 5 job. There is a vast number of conservative christians, black and white that have a massive problem with this. The problems will be huge. Most of those issues will never make the media. But take that fucking retard Choi. He was still a 1Lt in 2009 when he got discharged. He graduated from West Point in 2003. He should have made Captain in 2006ish but he struck his platoon sgt while he was a platoon leader with 10th Mountain in 2005. He was a borderline incompetant officer. Its hard enough to bounce some of the mouth breathers we have now....imagine when assholes like him plead gay and get to stay in..because of some agenda. You folks don't understand the 2nd and 3rd order effects.
all of your issues would be resolved if you allow them equal rights, then there is no agenda. Its like replacing the word black with gay, your argument doesn't hold any water gayness does not equate to being more sexual, to being more violent, less adapt to combat fighting, performing a job etc.. all it says about a person is that they are attracted to men, the things that you attach to that are false. What does it matter if the person you outlined above was gay? that doesnt mean all gays are assholes nor does it mean that all blacks are crooks and gangsters.
i understand that as someone who dislikes gays its hard for you to understand that they have rights to, but insted of focusing on one aspect of them (gayness) try seeing them as, gasp, people like you and me. Just like i can't know anything about you other then you like woman from your sexuality, you cant infer anything about them.
Im hetero, guess what my favorite food is, what i enjoy doing as a hobby, my interests, my height, weight, health status. Now assume im gay, and answer the questions, should they change?