My GF is being a dick.....

[w8m8]

It really shouldn't be at the point it is TBH .... explaining your place has more room and will be more comfortable should have been enough for her to agree to cook at your place

If it isn't understandable ... then she's more interested in what she wants as opposed to how much nicer it would be for almost everyone else

It's pretty immature and petty to be so adamant about "cooking" and "entertaining" in a place that may end up being over crowded ... isn't the whole idea supposed to be spending time with everyone and everyone enjoying it .. making nice memories ? It's not supposed to be about how much of an impression you can make on people ... that's egotistical and self-centered ... people should like you for who you are .. not what you can do or how well you can do it

If she already knows you'd prefer it at your house then it should be a no brainer and she should have asked you to help her get all the stuff she needs to cook with taken over there ... it's not even a sacrifice .. it's merely one small concession to make YOU happy ..  

I don't get why she doesn't want to do that for you .. especially for Christmas  

[Flexb]

See that's where guys have it wrong. Fuck the whole "scorned" woman b.s. You have to know how to control a woman and not let her fuck with you.

Actually I'm going through some shit with my current gf as we wpeak.

I had a business meeting come up last night with a friend of mine. I had to go over there and do some work (great money making opportunity) I told this to my gf, that it was going to be a late night (I got home at 3 am) Well she flipped shit, saying I was going over there to fuck around, drink, mischifef...etc. Her and I didn't even have plans to do anything that night.

I do not tolerate such behavior because it's unnecessary bullshit. She comes over today after a whole day of no texts/no calls (unusual for us) I ignored her completley and told her to have a nice Christmas (I left her alone at my house)  and how she was going to have to explain to her family why her boyfriend didn't buy her any presents or isn't at Christmas with her family.

My phone has been blowing up all day with her calls/text ...apologizing. I've ignored all the calls/texts except one telling her that she's spending Christmas without me and I didn't buy her any presents...which is true.

I know what I'm doing is harsh, especially around Christmas. But my point is that she needs to learn that you can't go crazy apeshit and then expect to crawl back into bed with me the next night because you said a meaningless word "sorry" to me.

I will bet a large sum of money that such an episode won't happen again...at least in the foreseeable future.

I totally agree on that issue. When a chick is irrationally shitting on you, you can't just sit there and take it or she will gain control and get worse. You need to spank that ass and ensure it doesn't happen again. A girl won't respect you if you let her walk all over you, but this doesn't mean never giving her her own way sometimes. Sometimes they will love you more for letting them do what they want to do, as long as it isn't hurting you.
I have to go for Dinner at my neighbors house tonight because my girl is friends with the wife. We were invited about 6 months ago for dinner and I said no fuking way since I had just gotten home from work and was tired and just wanted to relax. She was mad but didn't try to force the issue and she ended up going by herself. A few days ago she told me we were asked again for Dinner on Christmas Eve. I really don't want to go but realize this time I gotta make her happy and go.

[YngiweRhoads]

I wouldn't make to much of a big deal about it, just go to her place and enjoy yourself man.

[Oldschool Flip]

Putting pussy on a pedestal = you're fucked.

If you let a woman walk all over you because you want to fuck her real bad ... pathetic.

Yep I used to think like you did. Now I have a sugar mama and a beautiful daughter to boot. You aren't thinking about a relationship, you're just thinking about control. If that's your bag then good luck with it, but I can honestly say that I'm way better off now that when I used to be that way.

[Oldschool Flip]

What's funny is all these "real men" talking all this shit about how to put a woman in her place, but if it were their own daughter or sister who were put in this position, they wouldn't have it. They would go out a try to beat the ass of the guy that would do it to them. Epic hypocrites.

[Flexb]

Let her do what she wants and just drink a lot if if you're unhappy.

 

But seriously, let her have it her place and just don't show up. You have dinner where you want, how you want. If she doesn't it like it, tough.

lol, and then he woke up. The world doesn't work like that unless you want to remain single your whole life.

[Shockwave]

the real underlying schema in groink and alex's lives is that they are repressed homosexuals living with copies of their mothers. Groink figured it out and is now with a younger women to cope with reality he cannot accept. You can change partners as long as you can you re still a repressed homosexual. Alex is still living with his mother = his woman.  They try to portray themselves as ''alpha males'' constantly on here and in real life because they are precisely repressed homosexuals.
 They cannot find any pleasure in sex with women, they always feel like they re having sex with their mothers, which is somehow the case because we unconsciously select women who share physical traits or traits of personnality with our original feminine figure, our mother.
They re looking for something they cannot accept, they re never satisfied and always overcompensating which costs a lot of psychic and physical energy. They re constantly in denial. And they are models to all younger individuals who identify themselves with them cause they too are repressed homosexuals who are often abandonned by their fathers and who were only raised by a single mother/ with or without sisters.

Everything is hydraulical, cyclical and sytemical.

As you sow, so you shall reap. Wether what you saw is positive or negative.

I thought all men subconciously look for women that are like their mothers?
I was thinking about this the other day, as my wife reminds me of my mother in many ways. (Personality, less physically, but I guess there are similarities there too) But Im totally fine with that, in fact it makes me more comfortable than Ive ever been with any other GF, as I feel like I understand her more than any other woman.
Are you saying that repressed gay men change their partners because they choose ones that remind them of their mom, but arent happy with that, whereas legitimatley straight men are fine with being with people that are similar to their mother? Or did I read that totally wrong?

[chaos]

Flexb has got to be the biggest bullshitter on getbig right now.

[Palpatine Q]

the real underlying schema in groink and alex's lives is that they are repressed homosexuals living with copies of their mothers. Groink figured it out and is now with a younger women to cope with reality he cannot accept. You can change partners as long as you can you re still a repressed homosexual. Alex is still living with his mother = his woman.  They try to portray themselves as ''alpha males'' constantly on here and in real life because they are precisely repressed homosexuals.
 They cannot find any pleasure in sex with women, they always feel like they re having sex with their mothers, which is somehow the case because we unconsciously select women who share physical traits or traits of personnality with our original feminine figure, our mother.
They re looking for something they cannot accept, they re never satisfied and always overcompensating which costs a lot of psychic and physical energy. They re constantly in denial. And they are models to all younger individuals who identify themselves with them cause they too are repressed homosexuals who are often abandonned by their fathers and who were only raised by a single mother/ with or without sisters.

Everything is hydraulical, cyclical and sytemical.

As you sow, so you shall reap. Wether what you saw is positive or negative.

you forgot to call me a bad father in that one....you're slipping

[Tito24]

[Shockwave]

I know...I know....I should just backhand her in the teeth and tell her to shut the fuck up, like all of you lonely virgins "studs" here at Getbig would  

LOL @ the fantasy world you guys live in where you are "the man" and your woman obeys your every word.....and then you woke up

Hahahah
This.
Sometimes I wonder if some of these people have ever been in a real relationship, and if they have, if its lasted more than 3 months, or if their women were just so fucked up that they wouldnt leave them.
Lol.

[boonasty]

the real underlying schema in groink and alex's lives is that they are repressed homosexuals living with copies of their mothers. Groink figured it out and is now with a younger women to cope with reality he cannot accept. You can change partners as long as you can you re still a repressed homosexual. Alex is still living with his mother = his woman.  They try to portray themselves as ''alpha males'' constantly on here and in real life because they are precisely repressed homosexuals.
 They cannot find any pleasure in sex with women, they always feel like they re having sex with their mothers, which is somehow the case because we unconsciously select women who share physical traits or traits of personnality with our original feminine figure, our mother.
They re looking for something they cannot accept, they re never satisfied and always overcompensating which costs a lot of psychic and physical energy. They re constantly in denial. And they are models to all younger individuals who identify themselves with them cause they too are repressed homosexuals who are often abandonned by their fathers and who were only raised by a single mother/ with or without sisters.

Everything is hydraulical, cyclical and sytemical.

As you sow, so you shall reap. Wether what you saw is positive or negative.

groink is a good dude but i think you've nailed other getbiggers pretty close in the past.  you should post a thread analyzing other getbiggers.  

please start with devilsmell.

[Flexb]

Flexb has got to be the biggest bullshitter on getbig right now.

Explain?

[wes]

All the virile he-men talking trash about putting women in their place, will be crying tonight as they jerk off before bed once again !!

[chaos]

Flexb either you are full of shit or you are an idiot for thinking that about your old lady.  I personally think you're full of shit with this story, just like the bs claims we talked about in PM.

[Shockwave]

Flexb either you are full of shit or you are an idiot for thinking that about your old lady.  I personally think you're full of shit with this story, just like the bs claims we talked about in PM.

Pwn3d.
(Yes sal, Im stealing your lines. Hahaha)

[Ex Coelis]

there's nothing more pathetic than a man who needs to control a woman

[Shockwave]

there's nothing more pathetic than a man who needs to control a woman

Or other people they need to "put their woman in her place". Lol.

[w8m8]

flip a coin .... for real

it's not even worth more than 10 minutes of discussion

[Palpatine Q]

flip a coin .... for real

it's not even worth more than 10 minutes of discussion

Oh it was settled before i even posted....just stirring the pot 

[Flexb]

Flexb either you are full of shit or you are an idiot for thinking that about your old lady.  I personally think you're full of shit with this story, just like the bs claims we talked about in PM.

For thinking what?  

And what story? Why the hell would I make up stories about my family or my thoughts on females.

[Natural Man]

you forgot to call me a bad father in that one....you're slipping

you are a bad father at the moment, without a doubt. But you still can change this before the harm gets... bigger.





Also for those who seemd to care and are looking for answers women search men who are a mix of physical and psychological traits coming from their fathers/grandfathers/brothers. It's reassuring because it's original. There is a simmetry between genders. There are also asymetrics things going on, it's a mix of both.

This is motivated by evolution and natural selection, by instinct of survival. Specialization and improvment of strenghts generation after generation and transmission, sharing of values and capitals.

Want to know more more? go to your local library, i did my job here.

[Shockwave]

the real underlying schema in groink and alex's lives is that they are repressed homosexuals living with copies of their mothers. Groink figured it out and is now with a younger women to cope with a reality he cannot accept. Ironically if this ''new'' woman has what the older one didnt have -a physique- she must be sharing physical or pyschological traits with his mother anyway and she will piss him off again after a while. If he spawns a kid with her he will then repeat the serparation of his father with his moter. It's reassuring cause it's original so we reproduce it unconsciously. We reproduce what we ve learned, we cannot reproduce what we didnt learn.
 You can change partners as long as you can you re still a repressed homosexual groink , because you spent too much time with your mother -and/or sister(s)?- when you father left. Alex is still living with his mother = his woman.  They try to portray themselves as ''alpha males'' constantly on here and in real life because they are precisely repressed homosexuals.
 They cannot find any pleasure in sex with women, they always feel like they re having sex with their mothers, which is somehow the case because we unconsciously select women who share physical traits or traits of personnality with our original feminine figure, our mother becaue what is originel reassures us. Behaviors, apparences. If it looks like something we knew originally in our first years, we will think it's reassuring. The problem is when we re reassured by negative, non adaptive behaviors or thoughts coming from other people.
They re looking for something they cannot accept, they re never satisfied and always overcompensating which costs a lot of psychic and physical energy. They re constantly in denial. And they are models to all younger individuals who identify themselves with them cause they too are repressed homosexuals who are often abandonned by their fathers and who were only raised by a single mother/ with or without sisters.

Everything is hydraulical, cyclical and sytemical.

As you sow, so you shall reap. Wether it's positive or negative.

I thought all men subconciously look for women that are like their mothers?
I was thinking about this the other day, as my wife reminds me of my mother in many ways. (Personality, less physically, but I guess there are similarities there too) But Im totally fine with that, in fact it makes me more comfortable than Ive ever been with any other GF, as I feel like I understand her more than any other woman.
Are you saying that repressed gay men change their partners because they choose ones that remind them of their mom, but arent happy with that, whereas legitimatley straight men are fine with being with people that are similar to their mother? Or did I read that totally wrong?

 
 
 
 

[Flexb]

you are a bad father at the moment, without a doubt. But you still can change this before the harm gets... bigger.





Also for those who seemd to care and are looking for answers women search men who are a mix of physical and psychological traits coming from their fathers/grandfathers/brothers. It's reassuring because it's original.

This is motivated by evolution and natural selection, by instinct of survival. Specialization and improvment of strenghts generation after generation.

Want to know more more? go your local library, i did my job here.

It's similar as men, what we want in woman. Physically, it's a template of all the females we respected growing up and had crushes on. Similarities in breast size, color of hair, facial features, height etc. Basically all of those females mashed into one girl is the one we find most attractive.,

[Alex23]

shock, latest international scientifc studies claim we are all bisexual by nature. As other animals are. What determines our sexual orientation are our conditionnings (of all sorts) and how long we ve been exposed to them. It is adaptive to be homosexual when you re only living with men or women because you need to release your sexual tension with someone else -ie in jail-. Some original, past conditionnings happening in the first years will deeply alterate this and shape your sexual orientation once an adult.

Often men who are homosexuals also have homosexual fathers who repressed their own homosexuality all life long but their unconscious is transmitted to their son -with the conscious-, they share the same unconscious / conscious. If the father repressed it, the son will repress it too using the same strategies the father used. Father is often scared his son might figure out his own homosexuality and reveal his fahter's homosexuality in the process -there is always an origin to everything, we can only only the psychological, physical sum of what spawned us and what ve been exposed too (people/situations)- hence rejecting him.

Hi Adonis. You've been spending a lot of time researching penile2penile penetration potentialities lately.

What gives?