Parker....I like you dude....but you SERIOUSLY need to stop projecting this ghetto culture shit onto a largely white board.
What you are talking about is a straight up BLACK thing, brothers up in the pen hooking up with fat broads that pay their bills and send them money.......I really don't think that's even on the radar of shit Flip should be concerned about....this is coming from a Dad as well
And who do you think falls for those....and many of them are not fat chicks, I have personall seen hot women of diff races with GOOOD ass jobs, with some dude right out of the pen...they have all day to plot and plan unlike you and me...on the real there are women who fall for that shit...
I was also told by a nurse who used to work at Rikers, that there were tons of deisel ass dudes who had pretty girlfriends that worked as attorneys, or in med school, or were in the professional world...yet they spending time with these dude....I could go on.
Good to see another dad who wants the best for their kid.
Just to set the record straight for Parker.............I'm Asian so in my culture education and family are first and foremost. I don't worry that my daughter will underachieve or lack initiative......I'm just taking steps to show her that she doesn't have to settle for puds like some of these "he men" on the boards who think that slapping a girl around and making them their slave with no backtalk is an option she would have to consider. Girls that have to settle for shit like that lack self confidence and end up living unhappy for most of their lives.
And who do ou think would piss daddy off more? Plus, your Flip, not Japanese. Just because your Asian, let's notmake all Asian cultures be about education and family first...because I've been around some flips that were about other things than eduation...
Also, YOU DON'T KNOW THE FUTURE...all you can do is hope that she takes what you have taught her and use it to her best advantage...that whole shit of you don't have to settle is the same shit that fathers have been telling (selling) gen X and Y, and look at us now...on the real, it should be
YOU DON'T SETTLE not you don't HAVE to. There is no option. You give the option, they will take the option, and it will be Option D with dad over the loser...
But, I do hope your daughter will turn out okay...it just bugs me when people say, "my daugther will...", because I went to school with kids who had fathers who said that...yeah, their daugther dropped out of Yale and is turning tricks...yeah their daughter didn't go to U of MD and now is a stripper in LA...