bears,
Great post and I agree as long as BOTH parents live in the same househould. But if a single mother or father has full custody then the burden shifts way more on the parent with sole custody. Not to dimenish the parent that has visitation or the alike but the burden does weigh more heavy on the custodial parent. I do believe Straw meant childbirth.
thats the only thing I've been talking about and the only point of my post was to refute the ridiculous view that Tony holds that the woman has some unfair advantage over men.
If you're a responsible adult man (or a woman) then you know the rules before you start playing the game
if you don't like the rules then don't play the game
when the day comes when the woman can give the fetus to the man for him to carry and deliver then we can change the rules
until that time the woman will always have the larger burden in
pregnancy than the man and will have the option of getting an abortion
