there is a big down side to that...and that is actually having someone who is in that career path hearing you....and kicking your ass 
i have a friend who is a full time blackwater employee(XE now) as a accountant or some other office shit...but bitches melt when they find out who he works for..he just doesnt tell them his job title 
i have never told a female that i wasnt already dating what kind of work i do though...
bench
i let you in alittle secret
...I lied about lying to girls at bars and telling them i'm in "Black ops"
like you said- that would get me in huge trouble
plus, i'm 32 and comfortable in my own skin to tell girls the truth....god help me