Ugly and/or fat people with self-confidence, high self-esteem

[whataname]

Serious question!
I am not talking about those succesful people who have power, money, great talent in something etc. - this is about average, loser-type people around me, co-workers, neighbours, buddies and so on, who can fairly see their own cock/pussy, they are hairy, smelly, unattractive persons, still they have self-confidence, they like to socialize with others, love to party, enjoy life, think positive, even dating women/men   etc.
How do they do it?! Where do they get the power from?!

I won't post a pic but as every Getbigger, I also have a lean and muscular, swimmer-like pussy pulling body and movie star good looks (no, really, I think I'm okay), I have had a quasi-wife for like 8 years, but had hit some fine bitches before, I have a well paid white collar job, but anyway I have always been and will be an anxious, negative, uptight person with insecurites and fears. I can't let myself go in social situations, I hate people etc.

It's just the power of mind, so simple??  

[Fallsview]

If you win the Lotto, doesn't matter what you look like...as this gentleman shows...

STAYING POSITIVE...WITH FORCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[spude]

I totally understand you mate...guess we are a bit similar, I also have a job where I basically meet and negoziate with  many new faces everyday and I'm actually fine with that. It's nice to meet ppl in work situations, talk about business, throw a few jokes around etc...But truly socializing with new people, opening myself, telling about my feelings...I fucking hate that! I've always prefered keeping my own things to myself, I don't need anyone to be my "best friend", anyone to share my ups and downs...Guess I'm a "bit" intoverted person faking to be extroverted  

And nothing, fucking nothing pisses me off as much as happy, social, extroverted FAT people...It's just so much wrong in all the fucking aspects, fat ppl are supposed to be losers, people who I can pick up and laugh at...It's just freaking unfair that EVEN they can be happy and enjoy life when I'm ready to smash everyones face who dares to ask me "how I am tonight, what plans I have for this evening etc..." Others don't need to know that I feel like shit, will probably after work go to gym, alone, and after that watch a stupid romantic comedy, alone...
Or that's how it was for a pretty long time untill I found this wonderfully hot, petite little supersexy girl to watch those movies, that like magic are much better now, with me...The best thing is she is just as introverted as I am so we don't need to go anywhere and waste valuable time socializing with stupid lower humans...therefore, we have more time for "night-time cardiovascular activities"...

[whataname]

If you win the Lotto, doesn't matter what you look like...as this gentleman shows...

STAYING POSITIVE...WITH FORCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yeah, but the people I'm talking about didn't win the lotto!!  
One more example: we had a team building weekend and these men and women have zero problem with taking their clothes off to swimsuit and go to the jacuzzi, sauna etc showing their disgusting physique. On the other hand, I am not too happy in such situations, actually I rather skip them. And not because I am an all drugs steroid freak and "they wouldn't understand"... I would likely own them all, but still I'm afraid of their opinion, I simply don't want them to judge me neither in a positive, nor in a negative way.

[roccoginge]

Serious question!
I am not talking about those succesful people who have power, money, great talent in something etc. - this is about average, loser-type people around me, co-workers, neighbours, buddies and so on, who can fairly see their own cock/pussy, they are hairy, smelly, unattractive persons, still they have self-confidence, they like to socialize with others, love to party, enjoy life, think positive, even dating women/men   etc.
How do they do it?! Where do they get the power from?!

I won't post a pic but as every Getbigger, I also have a lean and muscular, swimmer-like pussy pulling body and movie star good looks (no, really, I think I'm okay), I have had a quasi-wife for like 8 years, but had hit some fine bitches before, I have a well paid white collar job, but anyway I have always been and will be an anxious, negative, uptight person with insecurites and fears. I can't let myself go in social situations, I hate people etc.

It's just the power of mind, so simple??  ???You already answered your own question, laugh at yourself and make others laugh, then you should be ok.  How you look isn't the end all and be all of life.

You

[roccoginge]

Something happened with my post.  I said, you answered your own question.  Just laugh at yourself and make others laugh as well.

[Earl1972]

i think it's genetics, some people are wired to always feel good and enjoy what they have, rather than dwell on what they don't have, they're also good at moving on from disappointment and failure, a traumatic experience to a "negative" person might just be a minor setback in a "positive"  persons mind

i also think it's life experiences, maybe they never truly experienced any traumatic events (death in family or close friends) in their life so they never had a legit reason to feel unhappy or depressed

you say they are gross looking now, maybe they looked normal while growing up and didn't have to deal with any bullying or teasing as a kid therefore they don't have self esteem issues as an adult

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[Oldschool Flip]

People don't have to look ugly to be ugly. There are many "pretty" people who are total asses and girls that have "ugly" attitudes.

[Earl1972]

People don't have to look ugly to be ugly. There are many "pretty" people who are total asses and girls that have "ugly" attitudes.

and his question is why?

why do you think an ugly person can be so happy and a pretty person so unhappy?

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[The Abdominal Snoman]

Serious question!
I am not talking about those succesful people who have power, money, great talent in something etc. - this is about average, loser-type people around me, co-workers, neighbours, buddies and so on, who can fairly see their own cock/pussy, they are hairy, smelly, unattractive persons, still they have self-confidence, they like to socialize with others, love to party, enjoy life, think positive, even dating women/men   etc.
How do they do it?! Where do they get the power from?!

I won't post a pic but as every Getbigger, I also have a lean and muscular, swimmer-like pussy pulling body and movie star good looks (no, really, I think I'm okay), I have had a quasi-wife for like 8 years, but had hit some fine bitches before, I have a well paid white collar job, but anyway I have always been and will be an anxious, negative, uptight person with insecurites and fears. I can't let myself go in social situations, I hate people etc.

It's just the power of mind, so simple??  

I believe it comes from their upbringing. However many times self confidence and insecurity are linked.

[mitchyboy]

Its called overcompensation. See it all the time with fat bitches wooping it up at clubs and such.

[magicuser]

mating is based on looks

he or she with outragous body gets lots of action whle thos ewho don't don't

large and in charge types are limited by money

money evens out the bs

rest is all attitude n smoke

[Firemuscle]

 Being good looking is over rated I think.

 Most fat and ugly people I know still get laid, still have friends, still have everything. Doesn't make much difference when you are an adult.
 
 Of course in high school and college it's different. But that's an immature and naive time.