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Kid Defaults Match Instead of Wrestling A Girl
« on: February 17, 2011, 03:59:12 PM »
http://sports.espn.go.com/ncaa/highschool/news/story?id=6131909

DES MOINES, Iowa -- A standout Iowa high school wrestler refused to compete against a girl at the state tournament on Thursday, relinquishing any chance of becoming a champion because he says wrestling a girl would conflict with his religious beliefs.

Joel Northrup, a home-schooled sophomore who was 35-4 wrestling for Linn-Mar High School this season, praised his first-round opponent, Cedar Falls freshman Cassy Herkelman, and Ottumwa sophomore Megan Black, who became the first two girls to make the state wrestling tournament in its 85-year history.

But in a news release, he said he defaulted on his match with Herkelman because he doesn't think boys and girls should compete in the sport.
 
"I have a tremendous amount of respect for Cassy and Megan and their accomplishments. However, wrestling is a combat sport and it can get violent at times," Northrup said. "As a matter of conscience and my faith I do not believe that it is appropriate for a boy to engage a girl in this manner. It is unfortunate that I have been placed in a situation not seen in most other high school sports in Iowa."

There were several thousand fans at Wells Fargo Arena on Thursday, but many were watching other matches when the referee raised Herkelman's hand to signal her win. There was a smattering of cheers and boos from the crowd before Herkelman was whisked into the bowels of the arena.

Tournament organizers declined to make Herkelman available for questions. She entered the tournament with a 20-13 record and will wrestle Friday in the quarterfinals of the 112-pound weight class.

Her father, Bill Herkelman, told The Associated Press via text message that he understands and respects Northrup's decision.

"It's nice to get the first win and have her be on the way to the medal round," Bill Herkelman wrote. "I sincerely respect the decision of the Northrup family especially since it was made on the biggest stage in wrestling. I have heard nothing but good things about the Northrup family and hope Joel does very well the remainder of the tourney."

Because he defaulted and didn't forfeit, Northrup was allowed to compete in the consolation rounds, and he won his first match later Thursday by major decision.

He was spared any chance of meeting up with Black, who also wrestles at 112 pounds and was 25-13 entering the tournament, when she was eliminated after being pinned in both of her matches. But it's possible Northrup and Herkelman could be matched again if both make the finals of the consolation bracket.

Northrup's father, Jamie Northrup, is a minister in the Believers in Grace Fellowship, an independent Pentecostal church in Marion that believes young men and women shouldn't touch in a "familiar way," said Bill Randles, the church's pastor.

"We believe in the elevation and respect of woman and we don't think that wrestling a woman is the right thing to do. Body slamming and takedowns, that full contact sport is not how to do that."

Randles said Joel has been involved in wrestling for many years, and he and his family have discussed before the possibility of girls getting involved in the sport.

"It's totally his choice. He's a young man now and he's worked hard to get where he's gotten. It's up to him, and it was his conviction" not to wrestle Herkelman.

Black said Northrup refused to wrestle her three years ago, and that she respects him for adhering to his beliefs.

"If it's his religion and he's strong in his religion, then I just respect that," Black said. "Obviously, everyone can be pointing fingers at him. He, at least, is true to his beliefs and you have to respect that. It takes a lot for a 15- or 16-year-old boy to do."

Marth Stetzel, a Perry mother whose two sons were taking part in the tournament, said she also didn't have a problem with Northrup's decision.

"We're really raising kids that are going to be bigger than wrestling, and if it's something that he believes strongly in -- which is not necessarily what I would do -- you've got to respect a kid like that," Stetzel said.

Wrestling is extremely popular in Iowa, and Black and Herkelman are the first girls to qualify for the state tournament since it was first sanctioned by the Iowa High School Athletic Association in 1926.

According to the National Federation of State High School Associations, more than 6,000 girls competed in wrestling in 2009-10 -- compared with nearly 275,000 boys. Though most states require girls to wrestle boys, California, Hawaii, Texas, Washington and Tennessee sponsor girls-only high school wrestling tournaments.

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Re: Kid Defaults Match Instead of Wrestling A Girl
« Reply #1 on: February 17, 2011, 04:10:41 PM »
http://sports.espn.go.com/ncaa/highschool/news/story?id=6131909

DES MOINES, Iowa -- A standout Iowa high school wrestler refused to compete against a girl at the state tournament on Thursday, relinquishing any chance of becoming a champion because he says wrestling a girl would conflict with his religious beliefs.

Joel Northrup, a home-schooled sophomore who was 35-4 wrestling for Linn-Mar High School this season, praised his first-round opponent, Cedar Falls freshman Cassy Herkelman, and Ottumwa sophomore Megan Black, who became the first two girls to make the state wrestling tournament in its 85-year history.

But in a news release, he said he defaulted on his match with Herkelman because he doesn't think boys and girls should compete in the sport.
 
"I have a tremendous amount of respect for Cassy and Megan and their accomplishments. However, wrestling is a combat sport and it can get violent at times," Northrup said. "As a matter of conscience and my faith I do not believe that it is appropriate for a boy to engage a girl in this manner. It is unfortunate that I have been placed in a situation not seen in most other high school sports in Iowa."

There were several thousand fans at Wells Fargo Arena on Thursday, but many were watching other matches when the referee raised Herkelman's hand to signal her win. There was a smattering of cheers and boos from the crowd before Herkelman was whisked into the bowels of the arena.

Tournament organizers declined to make Herkelman available for questions. She entered the tournament with a 20-13 record and will wrestle Friday in the quarterfinals of the 112-pound weight class.

Her father, Bill Herkelman, told The Associated Press via text message that he understands and respects Northrup's decision.

"It's nice to get the first win and have her be on the way to the medal round," Bill Herkelman wrote. "I sincerely respect the decision of the Northrup family especially since it was made on the biggest stage in wrestling. I have heard nothing but good things about the Northrup family and hope Joel does very well the remainder of the tourney."

Because he defaulted and didn't forfeit, Northrup was allowed to compete in the consolation rounds, and he won his first match later Thursday by major decision.

He was spared any chance of meeting up with Black, who also wrestles at 112 pounds and was 25-13 entering the tournament, when she was eliminated after being pinned in both of her matches. But it's possible Northrup and Herkelman could be matched again if both make the finals of the consolation bracket.

Northrup's father, Jamie Northrup, is a minister in the Believers in Grace Fellowship, an independent Pentecostal church in Marion that believes young men and women shouldn't touch in a "familiar way," said Bill Randles, the church's pastor.

"We believe in the elevation and respect of woman and we don't think that wrestling a woman is the right thing to do. Body slamming and takedowns, that full contact sport is not how to do that."

Randles said Joel has been involved in wrestling for many years, and he and his family have discussed before the possibility of girls getting involved in the sport.

"It's totally his choice. He's a young man now and he's worked hard to get where he's gotten. It's up to him, and it was his conviction" not to wrestle Herkelman.

Black said Northrup refused to wrestle her three years ago, and that she respects him for adhering to his beliefs.

"If it's his religion and he's strong in his religion, then I just respect that," Black said. "Obviously, everyone can be pointing fingers at him. He, at least, is true to his beliefs and you have to respect that. It takes a lot for a 15- or 16-year-old boy to do."

Marth Stetzel, a Perry mother whose two sons were taking part in the tournament, said she also didn't have a problem with Northrup's decision.

"We're really raising kids that are going to be bigger than wrestling, and if it's something that he believes strongly in -- which is not necessarily what I would do -- you've got to respect a kid like that," Stetzel said.

Wrestling is extremely popular in Iowa, and Black and Herkelman are the first girls to qualify for the state tournament since it was first sanctioned by the Iowa High School Athletic Association in 1926.

According to the National Federation of State High School Associations, more than 6,000 girls competed in wrestling in 2009-10 -- compared with nearly 275,000 boys. Though most states require girls to wrestle boys, California, Hawaii, Texas, Washington and Tennessee sponsor girls-only high school wrestling tournaments.



^^ Is code for: "I didn't want to risk being beaten by a chick."

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Re: Kid Defaults Match Instead of Wrestling A Girl
« Reply #2 on: February 17, 2011, 04:17:10 PM »

^^ Is code for: "I didn't want to risk being beaten by a chick."

 ;D
haha I was thinking the same thing. He's super religious so he was probably afraid he'd jizz in his singlet.

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Re: Kid Defaults Match Instead of Wrestling A Girl
« Reply #3 on: February 17, 2011, 04:30:47 PM »
haha I was thinking the same thing. He's super religious so he was probably afraid he'd jizz in his singlet.


Just today I just had a conversation with someone about boys wrestling girls and the awkwardness it causes...and that's with "normal" kids.

I have theories about home schooled and/or overly religious kids that are based on personal observations, but that's for another time.
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Re: Kid Defaults Match Instead of Wrestling A Girl
« Reply #4 on: February 20, 2011, 06:07:19 PM »

^^ Is code for: "I didn't want to risk being beaten by a chick."

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To be fair on your angle, it's a no-win situation for him.  If he loses, then yes, epic humiliation.  If he wins, then he gets ridiculed even more..."big man beating a girl." 

When it comes to wrestling, women should be valets...or wrestle one another in bra and panty matches.  It's what God intended.
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Re: Kid Defaults Match Instead of Wrestling A Girl
« Reply #5 on: February 20, 2011, 06:36:13 PM »
To be fair on your angle, it's a no-win situation for him.  If he loses, then yes, epic humiliation.  If he wins, then he gets ridiculed even more..."big man beating a girl."  

When it comes to wrestling, women should be valets...or wrestle one another in bra and panty matches.  It's what God intended.


Yeah, I was just kidding around more than anything with that comment.
It's hard enough being a kid nowadays.

I'm too tired to re-read the whole article; did they say how old the boy is?
I know they mentioned he's a sophomore.
What is that: 15/16?

A lot of home-schooled kids are a bit socially backward to begin with.
But, he's probably just a good, respectable kid who would probably freak out at being forced to have rough, pysical contact with a "girl."

The kid cited religious reasons, too.
I respect that.
I know next to nothing about the Pentecostal ministry, but how can you not respect a faith that teaches its followers to respect other people?

So, I don't think it's a cop-out.
I think the kid's genuine.
And, he's definitely got some skills on the mat, so I doubt he was backing down.

Good for him!

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Re: Kid Defaults Match Instead of Wrestling A Girl
« Reply #6 on: February 20, 2011, 10:17:00 PM »
i honestly wouldnt waste my time fighting a female....maybe if they gave her angel dust or something to make her crazy, and super strong...but otherwise i dont see the challenge..

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Re: Kid Defaults Match Instead of Wrestling A Girl
« Reply #7 on: February 21, 2011, 04:51:00 AM »
i honestly wouldnt waste my time fighting a female....maybe if they gave her angel dust or something to make her crazy, and super strong...but otherwise i dont see the challenge..

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