Author Topic: Anyone else feels too tired during a workout to flirt back at chicks?? (Read 3746 times)

Bam-bam · « **on:** February 28, 2011, 07:08:04 PM »

Damn, seems like when Im training hard I cant get any other facial expression other than the tired/focused psycho mtherfucker!

Today while I was resting between chest sets, I was kinda laying on some machine and by coincidence I crossed sights with some hot girl somewhat far away from me, like 12 feet distance. We kept firmly looking at each other for like five seconds until she discretly said hi (couldnt actually listen to it, just lip reading). Then I tried with all my forces to make a charming smile and say hi back but I was so physically and mentally tired from the workout that my face muscle and nerves simply didnt respond, at all! The result is that I kept staring at her without any change in my facial expression, just like some sick fuck would do!!

After this happened I walked by very near from her three times, staring at her and wanting the chance to say hello back again, but she would totally ignore me. Its obvious I freaked her out for good. Maybe I should starting training lighter and socialize more in the gym? In the end, I work out to get the pussy, not to repel it!!!

DAMN

Bam-bam · « **Reply #1 on:** February 28, 2011, 07:21:36 PM »

this is EXACTLY how I was staring at her. Seriously, 100% chance she thinks Im some sort or sick pervert or something now.

Bam-bam · « **Reply #2 on:** February 28, 2011, 07:23:50 PM »

now Im realizing I cant smile or make smiley faces at all when Im working my balls out at the gym. Hurts my game a lot, what the hell.

#1 Klaus fan · « **Reply #3 on:** February 28, 2011, 07:32:04 PM »

Quote from: Bam-bam on February 28, 2011, 07:08:04 PM

fisically

Bam-bam · « **Reply #4 on:** February 28, 2011, 07:42:42 PM »

yea Im brazilian and portuguese is my birth language. Sorry for typing too fast, already fixed that!

MP · « **Reply #5 on:** February 28, 2011, 08:29:45 PM »

Christ. Just say hi the next time and stop being a fag online.

wes mantooth · « **Reply #6 on:** February 28, 2011, 08:40:13 PM »

Quote from: MP on February 28, 2011, 08:29:45 PM

Christ. Just say hi the next time and stop being a fag online.

this

dj181 · « **Reply #7 on:** March 01, 2011, 01:53:12 AM »

I'm curious man, how do those Brazilian chicks dress for the gym? Do they like to show off their sexy, round, and firm bubble asses?

Jeffro · « **Reply #8 on:** March 01, 2011, 02:08:40 AM »

This didn't happen.

The Grim Lifter · « **Reply #9 on:** March 01, 2011, 03:17:18 AM »

This kind of happened to me not long ago. I was walking back and forth before a big set on legs and i sort of feel someone looking at me (really weird) and slowly look up and this chick is just standing there staring. It took me totally by surprise and we locked eyes for a few seconds and she grabbed the barbell and walked off. She had trained there for 2 years at least and never once did i see anything from her or me even do anything either.

I'm so social in general and have no problem talking to people or approaching, this kind of threw me off. Will still approach her now.

WillGrant · « **Reply #10 on:** March 01, 2011, 03:18:00 AM »

http://marzia-prince-nude.blogspot.com/

Parker · « **Reply #11 on:** March 01, 2011, 03:25:27 AM »

Quote from: Bam-bam on February 28, 2011, 07:23:50 PM

now Im realizing I cant smile or make smiley faces at all when Im working my balls out at the gym. Hurts my game a lot, what the hell.

You don't go to the gym for "social hour", that being said, cardio tends to be the best time to pick them up, since the that chick prolly comes there, make note of when her cardio day is, come in and pick the treadmill next to her, and talk...

When I was heavily at the gym, I was anti-social---get in, workout, get out...45 minutes to 1 hour...that is it...

hrspwr · « **Reply #12 on:** March 01, 2011, 06:01:28 AM »

Quote from: Parker on March 01, 2011, 03:25:27 AM

You don't go to the gym for "social hour", that being said, cardio tends to be the best time to pick them up, since the that chick prolly comes there, make note of when her cardio day is, come in and pick the treadmill next to her, and talk...

If that doesn`t work, figure out what car she drives and where she lives and works. Go through her garbage and gather her personal information. Stalk her relentlessly but never let her know you are there. Sit in your car at night and stake out her home, learn who her friends and family are so you can seperate her from them until she is alone.
Watch her, learn all you can about her while at the same time use her information to drive wedges between her and her family, set up email accounts in her name and destroy all of her friendships.
Finally after she has been alienated at she is at the end of her rope, follow her when you "know" her car is going to breakdown. Its at this point when she is most vulnerable you can swoop in and be her knight in shining armor.
Worked on my wife.

The Showstoppa · « **Reply #13 on:** March 01, 2011, 06:05:28 AM »

Quote from: hrspwr on March 01, 2011, 06:01:28 AM

If that doesn`t work, figure out what car she drives and where she lives and works. Go through her garbage and gather her personal information. Stalk her relentlessly but never let her know you are there. Sit in your car at night and stake out her home, learn who her friends and family are so you can seperate her from them until she is alone.
Watch her, learn all you can about her while at the same time use her information to drive wedges between her and her family, set up email accounts in her name and destroy all of her friendships.
Finally after she has been alienated at she is at the end of her rope, follow her when you "know" her car is going to breakdown. Its at this point when she is most vulnerable you can swoop in and be her knight in shining armor.
Worked on my wife.

LOL.....

tendonitis · « **Reply #14 on:** March 01, 2011, 06:08:03 AM »

if you can't get a boner when a hot chick flirts with you then you're working out way too hard
back off a bit and get your priorities in line
boners before biceps

Parker · « **Reply #15 on:** March 01, 2011, 06:09:47 AM »

Quote from: hrspwr on March 01, 2011, 06:01:28 AM

If that doesn`t work, figure out what car she drives and where she lives and works. Go through her garbage and gather her personal information. Stalk her relentlessly but never let her know you are there. Evan Centopani, Sit in your car at night and stake out her home, learn who her friends and family are so you can seperate her from them until she is alone. Trademark abuser mentality
Watch her, learn all you can about her while at the same time use her information to drive wedges between her and her family, set up email accounts in her name and destroy all of her friendships. Typical Getbigger.
Finally after she has been alienated at she is at the end of her rope, follow her when you "know" her car is going to breakdown. Its at this point when she is most vulnerable you can swoop in and be her knight in shining armor.
Worked on my wife.

Fixed for reality... This one chick I know, made note of where this rcih guy who lives in a million dollar cond in Baltimore Inner Harbor, gets his gas...so one day she is dressed "appropriately", and "happens" to be at the gas station when he was getting his gas...

Guess where she is living now...in that million dollar condo, of course

lovemonkey · « **Reply #16 on:** March 01, 2011, 06:18:57 AM »

The problem with these sort of encounters is that you only have a very limited amount of time to make up your mind. You just had eye contact with a girl you've never even seen before and if you don't act fast your chances are pretty slim of attracting her interest. But how is one supposed to act fast when you're not sure if you wanna hit it? I seriously doubt any significant amount of relationships start out that way, with just a mere surprise glance at each other in a hectic environment. It's when you start seeing each other regularly at the gym, work or any other social context that the magic starts happening if at all.

dj181 · « **Reply #17 on:** March 01, 2011, 06:28:57 AM »

Wow lovemonkey, you sound like a you are a pretty romantic dude, I envy you man (no homo)

lovemonkey · « **Reply #18 on:** March 01, 2011, 06:40:39 AM »

Quote from: dj181 on March 01, 2011, 06:28:57 AM

Wow lovemonkey, you sound like a you are a pretty romantic dude, I envy you man (no homo)

lol romance

Quote

Once made sexytime with a chick I met on the subway 1 hour after meeting her, if she is moderately attractive go for it, pussy is pussy

I disagree about this timeframe etc, these are all limitations/boundaries you make in your own head IMO.

I've done that too with a girl I met in a club.... I'm not saying it's impossible(it is what you make it) but the point of my post was in the context of this thread where OP was devastated because of a failed stare down at the gym which most likely wasn't going anywhere, or if it indeed was it'll more likely happen when he sees her again.

You can not seriously expect to get a boner-popping, vagina-wetting attraction within 10 seconds every single time.

Parker · « **Reply #19 on:** March 01, 2011, 06:43:20 AM »

Quote from: lovemonkey on March 01, 2011, 06:18:57 AM

The problem with these sort of encounters is that you only have a very limited amount of time to make up your mind. You just had eye contact with a girl you've never even seen before and if you don't act fast your chances are pretty slim of attracting her interest. But how is one supposed to act fast when you're not sure if you wanna hit it? I seriously doubt any significant amount of relationships start out that way, with just a mere surprise glance at each other in a hectic environment. It's when you start seeing each other regularly at the gym, work or any other social context that the magic starts happening if at all.

This

Bam-bam · « **Reply #20 on:** March 02, 2011, 11:08:04 AM »

Quote from: hrspwr on March 01, 2011, 06:01:28 AM

If that doesn`t work, figure out what car she drives and where she lives and works. Go through her garbage and gather her personal information. Stalk her relentlessly but never let her know you are there. Sit in your car at night and stake out her home, learn who her friends and family are so you can seperate her from them until she is alone.
Watch her, learn all you can about her while at the same time use her information to drive wedges between her and her family, set up email accounts in her name and destroy all of her friendships.
Finally after she has been alienated at she is at the end of her rope, follow her when you "know" her car is going to breakdown. Its at this point when she is most vulnerable you can swoop in and be her knight in shining armor.
Worked on my wife.

rofll, pure gold of getbig

newmom · « **Reply #21 on:** March 02, 2011, 11:10:55 AM »

Quote from: Bam-bam on February 28, 2011, 07:23:50 PM

now Im realizing I cant smile or make smiley faces at all when Im working my balls out at the gym. Hurts my game a lot, what the hell.

well if you're working those at the gym, Don't do that, it may scare her away

dude, seriously, say hi if you want, if she wants to act all prissy and shit, keep moving along

Croatch · « **Reply #22 on:** March 02, 2011, 11:15:22 AM »

In a gym like Gold's, you usually see middle aged fake skanks on clenbuterol/mild test/with implants. So this almost never comes up. However, they compliment the pretend bbers nicely. One big sea of trash.

Disgusting.

Bam-bam · « **Reply #23 on:** March 02, 2011, 11:20:03 AM »

Quote from: newmom on March 02, 2011, 11:10:55 AM

well if you're working those at the gym, Don't do that, it may scare her away

dude, seriously, say hi if you want, if she wants to act all prissy and shit, keep moving along

the problem is I couldnt, my lips, moth, head muscles simply wouldnt move!! Its always like that inbetween sets! Once a girl that I was already friend with approached me to ask if I was dazed or something, lol (its ok tough, 1 week later I was in her parents house sucking off her nice tits).

On the other hand, before or after a training session, at the gym lounge Im a socializing machine so its all good tho!

Pet shop boys · « **Reply #24 on:** March 02, 2011, 11:33:59 AM »

Quote from: Bam-bam on February 28, 2011, 07:21:36 PM

this is EXACTLY how I was staring at her. Seriously, 100% chance she thinks Im some sort or sick pervert or something now.

Chances are she's right.

WOOOSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH