with all due respect but "Bisexual" (for men, at least) is a way for gay men to "have their cake and eat it too"- they can have sex with men without the taboo of being full blown gay. Sure, you might do things with women but in reality you're lust for another men had manifested itself to the point that you actually indulged in banging/blowing a dude a couple time in your life.
Testosterone is a all or nothing type hormone and it drives you to fuck in one direction. Which direction it is is up to you (vagina or male rectum?).
The only way a man can be equally attracted to both men and women is if you are some sort of sex freak
In a Perfect world, a "bisexual" male would be someone who can look at nothing but straight porn for a hour and cum then he would take a break and proceed to look at nothing but gay porn for a hour and cum. Come on now- you know that shit ain't happening. In the real world, that "bisexual" male will just look at the gay porn and continue to look at gay porn then try and fool his friend by saying "yeah i look at gay porn but i'm not gay- I'm bi"....what a load of bullshit
Women on the other hand can be Bisexual.
I don't care what flack i'm gonna get for the above. I know i'm right.
I don't know about perfect worlds as you describe them. The fact is not all folks are the same so what you suggest might apply to some folks, but not all. Why should anyone want to fool their friends about their sexual preferences? Human beings are sexual, how each of us expresses our sexuality is our own business. Unless someone is doing things that hurt other people, they have nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to explain and nothing to apologize for. I admit to being bisexual because I am not in the closet not because I am in the closet. Realistically, I don't have to say anything about my sexuality because it is really no one elses business.
How is a bisexual male any different from a bisexual female?
What is having one's cake and eating it too....what is the cake and who does the eating? Are you saying that bisexuals have the best of both worlds....well, you are right about that.
Testosterone is responsible for our sex drive. This is true both for women and men. What we do to satisfy that drive is individual and it isn't only about fucking someone. There are many ways in which folks derive sexual satisfaction besides fornication.
As for your knowing you are right, I find it interesting that gay men seem to have the most issues with bisexuality. However, you are the first person I've heard who thinks women can be bisexual and men cannot.