A "gay gene" has not been found. It is not genetic. There is no proof that homosexuals are born that way.
I have a theory about this. First, NO it is not genetic. And if it is, it must be wiped out.
Think about it- if you believe homosexuality is caused by a GENE, then you are saying there is a gene out there which tells an organism NOT to reproduce. This is completely contradictory to all other life on this planet. In animals, genes like this are seen and wiped out.
Without getting too much more into this, I ask you this- HOW MANY homosexuals had a sexual encounter with someone of the same sex FIRST? No holds barred- talking exploring with friends,molestation, whatever.
I say FIRST because there is a key here that people overlook- the Old Brain.
Let me explain- human beings have some very primal drives built in which are designed to keep us alive as a species. Food water sex shelter etc. They all share something in common- dopamine.
I have a theory- as we are developing, the reward systems in our body are just waiting to be fired up. As a normal human progresses, we get hormonal urges and these push us to explore the opposite sex. To seek them out, we cannot control it. It's that first kiss, that first taste of a female's lips, that excited blood rushing to the face feeling that you will NEVER forget. And of course you won't, because biologically you are PROGRAMMED to never forget it.
I truly believe you do NOT need sex to get this process going, it can be other things, like seeing a naked guy (or girl) when you are young and being sexually stimulated, that makes this all happen and YOU CAN NOT REVERSE IT.
I will say this to homosexuals credit- THEY CAN NOT BE CHANGED. Once a brain is hardwired it's fucking hardwired. Like a cocaine addict, you cannot make an addict NOT an addict, they fight their addiction all their lives. Same with sexual orientation, once you are one way or the other you always will be.
But I truly believe it is our INITIAL sexual experiences that shape the rest of our lives. If you are a boy and your first encounter is with a girl, you end up straight, if another boy, you are gay. Pretty simple really.
And I believe many people know this, which is why the push to get children to "explore" their sexualities at a young age, to "embrace" their potential homosexuality that sort of thing. It cannot be on accident.
You are all free to make your own opinions, but let's face it- 8 9 year olds are being taught in school put condoms on pickles, how to fist each other, that being gay is hip and cool and should be embraced at all times...I don't know about all of you, but I disagree that our children should be exposed to this kind of shit..
And I say what I say a guy who has gay friends, and I have no prejudice against them. I feel gay marriage is a misnomer and something designed to DIVIDE us, not unite us.
ALL gay marriage proponents let me ask you something- IS THIS COUNTRY EVER GOING TO FULLY ACCEPT GAY MARRIAGE?
Any sane person knows that will never happen. Why not COMPROMISE?
I propose this- completely separate church and state. No more benefits for getting married. Keep marriage what it is supposed to be- A RELIGIOUS CEREMONY- A HOLY UNION WHERE MAN AND WOMAN BECOME ONE FLESH UNDER GOD TILL DEATH DO THEM PART.
Offer civil unions to ALL couples, male female male male whatever, same perks ,married couple receive now- with regard to taxes, hospital visitation rights, that sort of thing.
Then everyone can enjoy what homosexuals supposedly really want anyway- EQUALITY. Everyone is equal under the law. Christians are happy because marriage is still sacred and gays are happy because they can enjoy equal rights afforded to them under the law. Everyone is equal, in theory we are all happy.
if ANYONE can challenge me feel free, I would love to hear it. You should know first hand that calling me a bigot without defending your stance simply makes you look foolish and uneducated. If you want a legit discussion here, let's go for it.
Remember, I want to be part of the solution, not the problem. Have at it.