first of all, banging a 14 year old does not make you a pedo nor does it put you remotely close to someone that touches children. What I am saying is that a 14 year old has an under developed brain has not matured to its fullest and if someone who has been an adult for longer then the girl has been alive, well we arent talking an even playing field, not only shamefull, but shows low class at the least and in my books they are scum, and yes they would get destroyed in jail
I think you are mistaken here. A 30 something year old with a 14 year old, ok that is pretty damn bad.
But in all honesty, if the girl got involved willingly, it's just as much her fault as the guy.
Since when does a fucking birthday signal maturity and vice versa?
I have a niece who is 16 and has the brain of a 12 year old. She's never even really dated.
I have met a few girls who were VERY immature into their 20's.
And I have a half-cousin (whatever she is, on my step dads side of the family) who had 3 kids by the time she was 16. Not kidding! She had twins by the time she was 14, then had her daughter at 16.
Point is, by your logic age is a reliable indicator of maturity and it is NOT sir.
A 17 year old girl is not "prey" until the magic night she turns 18.
I am not trying to justify men's lust for younger girls, simply pointing out the flaws in your thinking.
And the biggest gap I ever had was a 16 year old I semi-dated when I was 22. I couldn't stand to be around her, though I was attracted to her, and it went nowhere. Now I am 30 and I swear I meet girls who are 19 20 and they seem like kids to me. So, I can see where you are coming from in that you are not attracted to teenage girls, and I agree with you.
But back to the point, I would not automatically categorize an older guy with a younger girl as a pervert, many other factors would need to come into consideration.
If it means anything to you, in many other developed countries you see teenage girls with much older guys and no one bats an eyelash. Seems you are basing morality on law and I disagree with that.
Do you also find steroids to be "wrong"? And how about smoking pot? Just curious..