How quick can you pick a girl up and "close" with her? (Off Topic, Srry Ron!)

[Danny-Boy]

Read more on Strauss and David Deangelo...good stuff.....the whole world becomes your playground..kinda like a video game... their strategies def work if ur trying to close the  deal like that...  but i know many men like me want to find the one where they wouldn't wanna lose....the quick game worked for a while..but never made me happy coz i never failed to start judging them and viewing them as what I was capable of doing (dark side)  Power is ur fellas!

[Tapeworm]

No more than several months, a lockpick set, a roll of duct tape, and a sturdy shovel. 

Game set match, bitches!

[Danny-Boy]

OMG We have the best seed of men roaming the boards of Getbig.. Things never change after 10 years LOL

[Parker]

I agree w/ Paul's tactics and most of these other PUAs...Bottom Line..One MUST not put the lady on the pedestal, where the man must feel and always believe that he is capable of seeing eye 2 eye w any chick!!!  Gotta have confidence w/ what u DO have.. Use your best self..It's all a science ..when u mastered that..There is no fear of Failure/Rejection...  Must develop that Jedi Mentality    Cocky-funny to a degree where you do not come off as a threat like most creepy Doods...

True, but Danny-boy, those chicks pictured are your reg everyday skinny young white women (who wear bloomer bottom bikinis), they are easier to pick up than sticks...
 they are not the mid 20s-early 30s hot woman, that expects one to be more one dimensional than just a good body, and if you eff up...they will let you know real quick...
The PUA lead people to believe the same tactic will work on those women pictured (as a example), vs Amber Rose or Khristi Hill or Mylessa Ford, when it doesn't...

Of course putting cooter on a pedestal doesn't work these days, hell even saying good morning, first, at work to a woman---they think that is a weakness....

[abijahmaniaco]

beautiful woman there. she yours? (is that you?) or who is this dude?

[Danny-Boy]

She's my Fiance..Game is done ... n' can happily say I learned a lot from it

[RadOncDoc]

Honestly guys, this "game" business is a lot of hype which all started with the Neil Strauss book. You'll probably call me a liar, but for what it's worth, I have partied with a couple of guys from the book The Game, including Mystery himself. These guys are not master pickup artists. Other than Mystery himself (who in person is an above average looking guy, which is why he gets girls), the dorky short guys you see (remember the Indian guy and white-haired skinny guy from the show?) don't get girls. They get laughed at in clubs. I was living and practicing in Hollywood at the time doing pretty well for myself around 2007-2008 when this book and the VH1 TV show were popular. Much of the gaming, so to speak, took place in Hollywood, and I happened to be in a club on two separate occasions with a colleague of mine when Mystery and some of the other instructors were running a class. The reason these guys have girls around them when they go to clubs is that they run these classes where they take guys (often guys with money) to Hollywood hot spots and make them buy bottle service. Well, if you buy bottle service at a top hollywood club, you are going to have girls around you no matter what you look like. But they don't really get the girls they make you believe. Do you really believe that game alone is helping Neil Strauss pull pussy? I mean, really? The girls are there getting free alcohol, and importantly, some of them recognized Mystery as the "guy from TV." Now, please don't get me wrong, Mystery and the guys on the show were really cool guys, and I'm not trying to bash them. But honestly, I think they are just making a lot of money playing to the fantasies of men. "If I just knew what to say, I could get the girl!" But that's not how life works. Getting girls is about looks and/or money, and if you have either of those traits and just a little courage to talk to women,  you will get girls. No amount of game will make up for being ugly and/or poor. If you're good looking or drive a Bentley, all you need to do is say "hi," and you are in.

[Danny-Boy]

True, but Danny-boy, those chicks pictured are your reg everyday skinny young white women (who wear bloomer bottom bikinis), they are easier to pick up than sticks...
 they are not the mid 20s-early 30s hot woman, that expects one to be more one dimensional than just a good body, and if you eff up...they will let you know real quick...
The PUA lead people to believe the same tactic will work on those women pictured (as a example), vs Amber Rose or Khristi Hill or Mylessa Ford, when it doesn't...

Of course putting cooter on a pedestal doesn't work these days, hell even saying good morning, first, at work to a woman---they think that is a weakness....

That's why the "push-pull" method is KEY (Negging the lady w/ ur first impression-->ur opener)  N' I wouldn't say these women are that easy to the average male (esp. us getbiggers) given they are all post graduates well into their careers...I'm just saying regardless who u encounter..there is still a method into triggering any women into shifting her pysche into a less cautious state of mind, where u are no longer seen as the threat .(using keywords, body gestures,etc.).. Bottom line..u gotta make her believe that u are "the catch"  n women sense that!!!   I believe and totally agree that this concept is UNIVERSAL

[Danny-Boy]

Honestly guys, this "game" business is a lot of hype which all started with the Neil Strauss book. You'll probably call me a liar, but for what it's worth, I have partied with a couple of guys from the book The Game, including Mystery himself. These guys are not master pickup artists. Other than Mystery himself (who in person is an above average looking guy, which is why he gets girls), the dorky short guys you see (remember the Indian guy and white-haired skinny guy from the show?) don't get girls. They get laughed at in clubs. I was living and practicing in Hollywood at the time doing pretty well for myself around 2007-2008 when this book and the VH1 TV show were popular. Much of the gaming, so to speak, took place in Hollywood, and I happened to be in a club on two separate occasions with a colleague of mine when Mystery and some of the other instructors were running a class. The reason these guys have girls around them when they go to clubs is that they run these classes where they take guys (often guys with money) to Hollywood hot spots and make them buy bottle service. Well, if you buy bottle service at a top hollywood club, you are going to have girls around you no matter what you look like. But they don't really get the girls they make you believe. Do you really believe that game alone is helping Neil Strauss pull pussy? I mean, really? The girls are there getting free alcohol, and importantly, some of them recognized Mystery as the "guy from TV." Now, please don't get me wrong, Mystery and the guys on the show were really cool guys, and I'm not trying to bash them. But honestly, I think they are just making a lot of money playing to the fantasies of men. "If I just knew what to say, I could get the girl!" But that's not how life works. Getting girls is about looks and/or money, and if you have either of those traits and just a little courage to talk to women,  you will get girls. No amount of game will make up for being ugly and/or poor. If you're good looking or drive a Bentley, all you need to do is say "hi," and you are in.

I def agree to some of your points to an extent..w/ regards to their rise in fame n increased popularity w/ women...  n' have partied myself w/ many of these guys as I have also lived in southern CA for over 10 yrs.Newport ,Laguna..n' also raised in NJ..believe me..system works but I believe it is most beneficial and effective in a less hostile setting..where women can read ur body language and what u have to say more clearly...these guys have to repeatedly fail first in order to see what works best for each of them..women sense honesty n when u have pure evil intentions---one just gotta use what he's good at in convincing her otherwise-(finding ur best-self)  --a lot to explain..but when broken down..there is a lot of psychology involved

[RadOncDoc]

I agree with you to some degree as well. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't read the book. I wouldn't have recognized the guys otherwise . I think you'd probably agree that the best part of that books is just encouraging you to talk to women.

[garebear]

Expressed as a percentage, how many girls do you think are into buttsex?

[Danny-Boy]

I agree with you to some degree as well. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't read the book. I wouldn't have recognized the guys otherwise . I think you'd probably agree that the best part of that books is just encouraging you to talk to women.

Yep which is men's biggest fear... they go by their last experience of rejection n dont wanna move forward..book teaches one how to take the blows n realize that a woman can already have several preconceived notions that are out of your control.. so what a man should learn to do is just say to themselves.."you dont want this..then fuck u" =) hehe nah not that harsh but def want someone that will dig ur game...

[Danny-Boy]

beautiful woman there. she yours? (is that you?) or who is this dude?

This is me..way too blasted coz she made me down a whole concoction of alcohol prior LOL BBTW Yes I am a blessed man

[Danny-Boy]

Expressed as a percentage, how many girls do you think are into buttsex?

The girls you don't want to keep ...

[obtuse_waiter]

gime 150$ and its 10 second phone call

[che]

I agree w/ Paul's tactics and most of these other PUAs...Bottom Line..One MUST not put the lady on the pedestal, where the man must feel and always believe that he is capable of seeing eye 2 eye w any chick!!!  Gotta have confidence w/ what u DO have.. Use your best self..It's all a science ..when u mastered that..There is no fear of Failure/Rejection...  Must develop that Jedi Mentality    Cocky-funny to a degree where you do not come off as a threat like most creepy Doods...

haha, You look like a gay version of Manny Pacquiao .

[Danny-Boy]

haha, You look like a gay version of Manny Pacquiao .

I guess lookng gay has helped me get what I want 
Life is good when one realizes that he doesn't have to please everyone.....

[Danny-Boy]

BTW this just proves my point where looks and $$ aren't everything in order to get what u want ...

[Danny-Boy]

Someday I hope to be as jacked as my hero Pacman

[Danny-Boy]

Neil Strauss's approach is actually the opposite of using testosterone filled masculinity where he exudes intellectual confidence. Here, from 1st impression, many women would think he was gay..thus evading ill-intentions and breaking the openers

[Parker]

Neil Strauss's approach is actually the opposite of using testosterone filled masculinity where he exudes intellectual confidence. Here, from 1st impression, many women would think he was gay..thus evading ill-intentions and breaking the openers

so acting like an Effiminate man puts a woman's guard down? Well, the first impression is a girly man, yes it will...but, a first impression is a lasting one, and in the long run, it won't last. Men are are men, women are women...Strauss' game plan is helping "men" to be wimpy dick boys... Being a dick isn't cool, nor is the exact opposite...being the cool dude that exudes swag, yet intellect is the thing to be...
You talk to the woman...but you do what Cassanova has said hundreds of yrs ago, and it still rings true today..."Just Listen". Women love to talk, and love eye contact

[Danny-Boy]

BTW im just breaking down strauss's tactic that works for him...i agree w/ the less threatening aspect of his approach..Unfortunately, I am too aggressive in nature to keep that type of game up..but that seems to work him him, where that's HIS best-self

[Danny-Boy]

I prefer a combination of strauss's intellect and David Deangelo's Cocky-Funny..Here, humor is my best weapon, and I also never let my ego get the best of me...

[Parker]

BTW im just breaking down strauss's tactic that works for him...i agree w/ the less threatening aspect of his approach..Unfortunately, I am too aggressive in nature to keep that type of game up..but that seems to work him him, where that's HIS best-self

The game--pretending...today's world is about image, the fake self...today's men have been brought up in a world where they are handicapped due to piss poor parenting...so they must "pretend" to be who they want, in torder to get what they want...thus leading to  behavior like that of women...

I'm glad you are not that way...

[Danny-Boy]

The game--pretending...today's world is about image, the fake self...today's men have been brought up in a world where they are handicapped due to piss poor parenting...so they must "pretend" to be who they want, in torder to get what they want...thus leading to  behavior like that of women...

I'm glad you are not that way...

LOL nope I actually grew up at the opposite extreme...raised in Jersey and long beach CA..I was always trying too hard to be this wannabee tough guy and getting into fights all the time in order to prove my manhood...never got the right chicks this way..was always too intimidating..eventually learned the simple power of the "smile"-which evokes confidence and symbolizes to many women that he's got his shit together... That changed everything...the bad boy in me is always there but not my best aspect..that my friend ..i hold on reserve for it gives my lady that security blanket when the time comes