I hear u but i've known her well before I had decided to get into med school..where I was going job to job finding my own passionate interest...from personal training/fitness modeling to getting into my own family business.. Further, she's only beginning her career as an elementary school teacher...please believe I understand your logic...thru usage of "the game" n other similar tactics I can say I have honed up to several other women just as beautiful as her...but thru honest perserverance, i was patient w/ the game to find someone who was sincerely passionate about me..where i can read into their sincerity...one cannot lose that mindset in order to be truly happy w who they r to b w..trust--i have seen some scandalous sluts in my day who never trruly gave a shit about what i was about...but thru practice--u get to learn how to separate the real from the fake.and allow urself to say"hey i don't need nor do i deserve this bs..on to the next!"....i got blessed w finding a real country girl from a good background..it is up to me to fuck this up
btw she is just finishing her masters in psychology by june...here, she passes my prerequisite of an educated-independant woman
run for the hills, elementary school teacher and a masters in the "p word"?
Got to break this down for you...My mother was a teacher and I have a degree in Hist/Secondary Ed, my mother tole me to stay away from women who are elementary school teachers, and other women have told me that as well. Why? Well, because they usually have emotional issues in which they want to deal with under developed people, so that they can guide them. Also, as the yrs go by, they get stuck in a "stunted" reality, in which the outside world passes by them...because they deal with lil kids all day...lil kids stay the same each yr...if you deal with 6 yr olds this yr, you'll deal with 6 yr olds next yr, and so on. A 6 yr old is still a six yr old, so one's communication level stays at that level.
The "p word", I forgot the stats, but "p word" have the highest rate of divorces. Especially if the woman has a degree in "p word", why? Well, because she is usually analyzing her man, using him to test out certain things, usually without his knowledge. If it has ro do with her being a elementary school teacher---it may have something to do with her own childhood...I've run into too many women like this,
many women today have way too many issues going on, which were brought about by piss poor Baby Boomer Parenting...thus, her acting out as a surrogant parent by becoming a Elementary school teacher...
This is merely a highly educated guess by my experience, and observation...I don't know her or you...
But, be warned...