can't believe I'm posting this, but...fuck her? or keep her??

[Tre]

There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships.  But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long.  I am not the kind of guy who could ever be pussy-whipped, primarily because even 'sunshine pussy' has equals out there and can always be replaced.  

The issue: she's made it subtly clear that she's not into sharing.  Can't pinpoint why - exactly - I thought she'd be into swing, but she's let me know that even a casual threesome isn't something that would make her happy (though she'd participate to make ME happy) and she's not at all down with dating outside a committed relationship.  Unlimited flirting is fine, but dating or playtime without her would not be acceptable.  

Ordinarily, moving on would be a no-brainer, but for some strange reason, I find myself *almost* willing to agree to these draconian terms, because we're so compatible in every other sense and I actually like her.  Plus, she's hot as fuck, isn't a drug addict, and comes from a good, welfare-free home.

For the record, she meets all my (present) needs, so if we did decide to make this more of a thing, it's not like there would be any gaps that would need to be filled by other women.  

I think I know what I'm going to do, but what would the majority of TRUE GetBiggers do?  No need to respond if you're not GetBig TRUE For Life.

[WillGrant]

I need to poop

[DK II]

So you are asking if you should dump a great girl because she will keep you from fucking around with lesser girls??

Keep her until something better pops up.

[Dr Kincaid]

Kick her to the kerb,
she sounds like trouble.

[Samourai Pizzacat]

give it a chance, you can always opt out if it doesn't work for you.

[Impactedman]

There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships.  But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long.  I am not the kind of guy who could ever be pussy-whipped, primarily because even 'sunshine pussy' has equals out there and can always be replaced.  

The issue: she's made it subtly clear that she's not into sharing.  Can't pinpoint why - exactly - I thought she'd be into swing, but she's let me know that even a casual threesome isn't something that would make her happy (though she'd participate to make ME happy) and she's not at all down with dating outside a committed relationship.  Unlimited flirting is fine, but dating or playtime without her would not be acceptable.  

Ordinarily, moving on would be a no-brainer, but for some strange reason, I find myself *almost* willing to agree to these draconian terms, because we're so compatible in every other sense and I actually like her.  Plus, she's hot as fuck, isn't a drug addict, and comes from a good, welfare-free home.

For the record, she meets all my (present) needs, so if we did decide to make this more of a thing, it's not like there would be any gaps that would need to be filled by other women.  

I think I know what I'm going to do, but what would the majority of TRUE GetBiggers do?  No need to respond if you're not GetBig TRUE For Life.

Does she have ginormous muscles?

[claymore]

There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships.  But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long.  I am not the kind of guy who could ever be pussy-whipped, primarily because even 'sunshine pussy' has equals out there and can always be replaced.  

The issue: she's made it subtly clear that she's not into sharing.  Can't pinpoint why - exactly - I thought she'd be into swing, but she's let me know that even a casual threesome isn't something that would make her happy (though she'd participate to make ME happy) and she's not at all down with dating outside a committed relationship.  Unlimited flirting is fine, but dating or playtime without her would not be acceptable.  

Ordinarily, moving on would be a no-brainer, but for some strange reason, I find myself *almost* willing to agree to these draconian terms, because we're so compatible in every other sense and I actually like her.  Plus, she's hot as fuck, isn't a drug addict, and comes from a good, welfare-free home.

For the record, she meets all my (present) needs, so if we did decide to make this more of a thing, it's not like there would be any gaps that would need to be filled by other women.  

I think I know what I'm going to do, but what would the majority of TRUE GetBiggers do?  No need to respond if you're not GetBig TRUE For Life.

Give it a chance...if it doesn't work out or you start to see something that you don't like about her then flee.

[Stark]

Tre

You are not ready for a relationship, if you have to ask on getbig if you should keep or dump her because she forbids you from fucking around you're obviously not in love with her.

For your information, if you really truly love somebody you don't even think about fucking around it doesn't even enter your mind, and no i am not talking about the first few month, that's not love that's lust, but what happens for most people afterwards when things have settled down thats what I would consider love.
The problem with people like you is that you never learn to love somebody since you never give it a chance, its like cutting a flowers head of before it had a chance to blossom.
A relationship is work on both sides if you're not even able to do the little bit of work to make it work in the first few weeks well my friend you aren't ready.
And btw there isn't anything wrong with that, but don't come crying back that nobody wants you for a serious relationship when you hit 40

[GroinkTropin]

So you are asking if you should dump a great girl because she will keep you from fucking around with lesser girls??

Keep her until something better pops up.

^^^^^^^^^^^

[Bam-bam]

Pics or it didnt happen

[BikiniSlut]

The only reason you can't be monogamous Tre is because no girl wants you.

And this girls wants you for what little income you have until you are drained and then she will move on. She doesn't want you spending it on another whore.

[Tre]

Does she have ginormous muscles?

No, she's into Pilates and has no mental issues that would've led her to the realm of heavy lifting and 'supplementation'. 

[Stark]

No, she's into Pilates and has no mental issues that would've led her to the realm of heavy lifting and 'supplementation'. 

Serious question...

How old are you again?

[Tre]

Tre

You are not ready for a relationship, if you have to ask on getbig if you should keep or dump her because she forbids you from fucking around you're obviously not in love with her.

For your information, if you really truly love somebody you don't even think about fucking around it doesn't even enter your mind, and no i am not talking about the first few month, that's not love that's lust, but what happens for most people afterwards when things have settled down thats what I would consider love.
The problem with people like you is that you never learn to love somebody since you never give it a chance, its like cutting a flowers head of before it had a chance to blossom.
A relationship is work on both sides if you're not even able to do the little bit of work to make it work in the first few weeks well my friend you aren't ready.
And btw there isn't anything wrong with that, but don't come crying back that nobody wants you for a serious relationship when you hit 40

True, man, thanks...the deal is that we're in that just-before-exclusivity stage.  This is the time when most people get trapped...things have gone so well, they're emotionally vested, they don't wanna risk losing a potentially good thing, etc. etc....but then they end up wasting time with a decent, but not exactly good relationship that eventually goes nowhere.

Being 40 certainly has its disadvantages - looks and body have begun to fade and I'm generally a lot more jaded - but there are advantages, too - I've got my shit together and any woman who's kicking it with me gets to enjoy a little taste of the good life.  

But it's these fucking 'relationship rules'.  Every couple is different and gets to decide what's allowable or not, but it seems she's not fully onboard with less traditional concepts for her own relationships.  She's fine with what other people do, but for herself, she ain't havin' it...and goddamnit if there ain't a part of me that really appreciates the fact that she's into me and only me.  

I think I'm in my patented sabotage-it-before-it-gets-serious mode which worked so well in HS, college, military years, etc.  I think I'm as emotionally mature as I was at 20...trying to fuck a good thing up now, so that I don't have to worry about possibly fucking it up later when it might actually hurt both of us.  

I already got one major grow-up call when my then-wife and I had our child, but no relationship was required.  I just had to be a good dad, provide love and support and time for my kid, etc.  But now, I feel like she's my grow-up call with respect to developing a real, adult relationship with someone.  This is a total mindfuck.

[disco_stu]

There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships.  But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long...


the answer is right there...how many 15-20 year periods are you going to have in your life?- and how many are going to be actually productive?

bite the bullet and grow up and commit. you could end up a lonely guy full of shouldas and wouldas...

[Tre]

Serious question...

How old are you again?

40, and working to avoid the 20-somethings.  Really enjoyed life for most of my 30s, but time to stop chasing my lost youth through a series of meaningless, almost gratuitous flings.  

[Tre]

The only reason you can't be monogamous Tre is because no girl wants you.

And this girls wants you for what little income you have until you are drained and then she will move on. She doesn't want you spending it on another whore.

GETBIG!!!

LOL

Certain women have distinct mating criteria and, despite my twinkish stature, I do have incredible DNA.  Plus, knowing how to make money doesn't hurt.

[Stark]

40, and working to avoid the 20-somethings.  Really enjoyed life for most of my 30s, but time to stop chasing my lost youth through a series of meaningless, almost gratuitous flings.  

Youth is only a fictional idea, you are always as young as you feel and sure age sets certain limitations in regards what you maybe able to do physically - but apart from that its no point dwelling in the past too much.

Problem is when it comes to woman (and I mean the class woman) the older you get the harder it will be to find the one that has the full package, not only because they get rare out there since most are settling down somewhat around the age of 30 but also because you will get more and more in the mindeframe that always finds something wrong with some girl, if you can accept that nobody is perfect that you will not be able to find a perfect person but that the little things are the once that count you find somebody in no time and most important you can be happy with.
Woman nagg and woman are always on your case and you will never make them 100% happy and neither should you - marriage is as far as I can see now 70% good times and 30% which are filled with little annoying things like nagging and this and that for complicated reasons.
Its all part of the fun and trust me I am probably coming accross like Mr know it all, but I don't and I am fucking terrible in a relationship banging doors and having a huge temper with very combined with being sometimes hugly egoistic.
But I know she loves me for what ever I am and I love her for what she is, not once in the six years have I ever thought I made the wrong choice, in fact the longer the relationship goes on the more I am learning and the more we are getting on.

I hope you find somebody you can life with cuz life is fucking short mate

Edit: You know what is so much more important than having a bangable body and cute face? Trust, you find somebody that is sticking to you 100% all the way pfff everything in life is light shit.

[Tre]

There are more than a couple of reasons why guys like me don't do relationships.  But fuck, this new girl is the type of incredible I haven't experienced in a very, very long time...like 15-20 years long...

the answer is right there...how many 15-20 year periods are you going to have in your life?- and how many are going to be actually productive?

bite the bullet and grow up and commit. you could end up a lonely guy full of shouldas and wouldas...

No question.  While I suppose I could continue on like a bratty little kid for another decade, if that happens, then at 50, I'm washed up, nothing more.  Now, though, I've got a chance to embark on a new, adult life, while I've still got the vigor to enjoy it.  

If we do this thing and it lasts 20 years, hey, it will have been a very good run, I'm sure.  But if my life experience holds form, and she is my once-in-20 years girl...then it would be a huge mistake to let this go simply because I've grown accustomed to my limit-free life.  

[wes]

Stay the player you`ve always been!!

Why settle for one broad when there is a veritable smorgasborg  out there?

Don`t tie yourself down,unless you are truly ready to committ.

[Stark]

No question.  While I suppose I could continue on like a bratty little kid for another decade, if that happens, then at 50, I'm washed up, nothing more.  Now, though, I've got a chance to embark on a new, adult life, while I've still got the vigor to enjoy it.  

If we do this thing and it lasts 20 years, hey, it will have been a very good run, I'm sure.  But if my life experience holds form, and she is my once-in-20 years girl...then it would be a huge mistake to let this go simply because I've grown accustomed to my limit-free life.  

lol you can analyze this all you want when it comes down to committed relationships there is no 100%, you never ever know how it works out, all you can do is jump into the dark - say fuck it and give it all you have.

[io856]

how long have you guys been seeing each other?

+ how the fuck did she bring all that up? must have been awkward... would've been funny to see your reaction

[Stark]

how long have you guys been seeing each other?

+ how the fuck did she bring all that up? must have been awkward... would've been funny to see your reaction

[Tre]

Youth is only a fictional idea, you are always as young as you feel and sure age sets certain limitations in regards what you maybe able to do physically - but apart from that its no point dwelling in the past too much.

Problem is when it comes to woman (and I mean the class woman) the older you get the harder it will be to find the one that has the full package, not only because they get rare out there since most are settling down somewhat around the age of 30 but also because you will get more and more in the mind frame that always finds something wrong with some girl, if you can accept that nobody is perfect that you will not be able to find a perfect person but that the little things are the once that count you find somebody in no time and most important you can be happy with.
Woman nagg and woman are always on your case and you will never make them 100% happy and neither should you - marriage is as far as I can see now 70% good times and 30% which are filled with little annoying things like nagging and this and that for complicated reasons. Its all part of the fun and trust me I am probably coming accross like Mr know it all, but I don't and I am fucking terrible in a relationship banging doors and having a huge temper with very combined with being sometimes hugly egoistic.
But I know she loves me for what ever I am and I love her for what she is, not once in the six years have I ever thought I made the wrong choice, in fact the longer the relationship goes on the more I am learning and the more we are getting on.

I hope you find somebody you can life with cuz life is fucking short mate

Edit: You know what is so much more important than having a bangable body and cute face? Trust, you find somebody that is sticking to you 100% all the way pfff everything in life is light shit.

Not only are you smart, but you also have more posts than I do. 

I'm a horrible relationship guy, too, because I believe that a person really can have it all.  I never had an affair when I was married.  Never slept with any other women, nor did I ever make plans to sleep with any other women.  But, I flirted a lot and had very close relationships with a few women, including a few 'situations' that had not been fully settled at the time I got married.  I had unfinished business and I didn't know how to resolve it, so I carried on in a way that some women might consider inappropriate.  I didn't realize that my wife was reading my email, but though I never acted on any of the thoughts she may have read, she did commit a huge breach of trust by reading my private emails, something I've never forgiven her (and won't).  As a loyal, brainwashed Mormon, baby mama was never really on my team. 

New girl = totally on my team, and I really do value that.

I've got a huge ego, too, but have no problem admitting when I'm wrong.  She's over 30, never married, no kids, no psycho ex-boyfriend, no daddy issues, isn't Mormon, and doesn't smoke.  It sounds crazy, I know, but I'm desperate to find her fatal flaw! 

[smoothasf]

She's full of shit, everything a woman says is lies and you get bored of fucking even the hottest chick. This one just has your mind saying 'I won't get bored of that' just like a new car.