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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #25 on: July 01, 2011, 09:58:41 PM »
Did her cheating on you play on your mind alot leading to this?

No actually, zero percent.  What played alot was I might want biological children at some point and with her being 41 the chances of the child having defects are great increased.  In addition, we no longer do anything together and we enjoy it that way.
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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #26 on: July 01, 2011, 10:00:02 PM »
No actually, zero percent.  What played alot was I might want biological children at some point and with her being 41 the chances of the child having defects are great increased.  In addition, we no longer do anything together and we enjoy it that way.

41? Time to get yourself a young ho

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #27 on: July 01, 2011, 10:00:02 PM »
Wiggs, do you think it had anything to do with the age difference? I mean, it might not have mattered when she was younger, but do you think her reaching her 40's had anything to do with it?

Yes, HUGE difference.  It's started to become an issue over the past 2-3 years.
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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #28 on: July 01, 2011, 10:00:50 PM »
No actually, zero percent.  What played alot was I might want biological children at some point and with her being 41 the chances of the child having defects are great increased.  In addition, we no longer do anything together and we enjoy it that way.

Wiggs, a lot of older women are having kids that are just fine.

Let's be real, you're trading up for a newer model  ;)

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #29 on: July 01, 2011, 10:01:18 PM »
Yes, HUGE difference.  It's started to become an issue over the past 2-3 years.
reverse the roll now and start banging tight 18yo's

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #30 on: July 01, 2011, 10:01:20 PM »
No actually, zero percent.  What played alot was I might want biological children at some point and with her being 41 the chances of the child having defects are great increased.  In addition, we no longer do anything together and we enjoy it that way.

What?? She's nearly dead at 41, you're in the spring of your life, go fuck some hot twens for a few years, then when you hit 35-36ish go get a good 27-28 year old and get her pregnant.  ;D ;D ;D

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #31 on: July 01, 2011, 10:02:07 PM »
Wiggs, a lot of older women are having kids that are just fine.

Let's be real, you're trading up for a newer model  ;)

No actually. What we had was not my idea of a marriage that's why we are splitting.  Irreconcilable or philosophical differences.
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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #32 on: July 01, 2011, 10:02:19 PM »
Yes, HUGE difference.  It's started to become an issue over the past 2-3 years.

Yes, I had a feeling. It appears woman change when they reach their 40's. They start to look for something different in a man. Something men in their 30's (I'm 30) can't provide. I am not saying this is a bad thing for us, because I am sure eventually we will also change when we reach our 40's.

Well, you had a good run and as long as its a lesson learned, what more can you ask for, eh?  :D
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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #33 on: July 01, 2011, 10:03:38 PM »
Yes, I had a feeling. It appears woman change when they reach their 40's. They start to look for something different in a man. Something men in their 30's (I'm 30) can't provide. I am not saying this is a bad thing for us, because I am sure eventually we will also change when we reach our 40's.

Well, you had a good run and as long as its a lesson learned, what more can you ask for, eh?  :D

Yes, I agree 100%
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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #34 on: July 01, 2011, 10:05:39 PM »
I say you get her an account here and you two hash it out Mike and Laura style.


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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #35 on: July 01, 2011, 10:06:10 PM »
What happened, figgs?? She wasnt satisfied with your 5 inch "wigglet," anymore? 8)

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #36 on: July 01, 2011, 10:07:13 PM »
That's all folks...Amicable decision, just grew apart.  We both agree not to mudsling and will remain friends.  I'm still young 32 in 14 days and no children so I got out pretty well.

Was this a sudden decision or did you know it was coming, Wiggs? "Grew apart" sounds like the woman's viewpoint. Did you know that you grew apart? Well, regardless of how it came about, I feel for you both. Change is tough.

Good that you agreed to stay friends. Oddly enough, coming from a guy like me who has been married for almost 47 years the friends part is the cement in a relationship, IMO. My wife and I are each other's BFF's. I seem to remember some rough patches early on in my wife and my relationship....we've toughed it out and neither of us regret it.

Yeah your still a kid compared to me at 32. That's great! You still have your life in front of you whether it's with your wife or someone else. No kids is a good thing when it comes to divorce. Kids always suffer. I know, my parents divorced. So, at least this part is a blessing.

Again, change is always hard. I really do feel for you. You are probably going to go though a process that includes grieving and anger. But, you'll survive. I don't know you, but just talking about it helps usually. Your off to a good start towards recovery.

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #37 on: July 01, 2011, 10:09:38 PM »
Wiggs,  do you talk to any of her friends?  This is a great time to fuck them.  I bet you got a bowl packed right now dont ya bro.  ;D

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #38 on: July 01, 2011, 10:10:09 PM »
No actually. What we had was not my idea of a marriage that's why we are splitting.  Irreconcilable or philosophical differences.

maybe she was just more mature and ahead of you in those philosophical differences, and in time you too will feel more like she did in 'philosophical' terms. and realize she was right all this time,

maybe you just need some time to realize it





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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #39 on: July 01, 2011, 10:14:15 PM »
maybe she was just more mature and ahead of you in those philosophical differences, and in time you too will feel more like she did in 'philosophical' terms. and realize she was right all this time,

maybe you just need some time to realize it






Or maybe he got tired of knocking the dust off that old pussy.



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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #40 on: July 01, 2011, 10:15:06 PM »
Wiggs, its a very rare occasion when I find myself jealous or envious of another man.  Kudos

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #41 on: July 01, 2011, 10:19:45 PM »
Its hard emotionaly/mentally to end a relationship of that amount of time even if terms are easily agreed upon...good luck man...lay the pipe to a few young hoes to ease the pain...and a bottle and a splif...

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #42 on: July 01, 2011, 10:21:08 PM »
Yes, I had a feeling. It appears woman change when they reach their 40's. They start to look for something different in a man. Something men in their 30's (I'm 30) can't provide. I am not saying this is a bad thing for us, because I am sure eventually we will also change when we reach our 40's.

Well, you had a good run and as long as its a lesson learned, what more can you ask for, eh?  :D

People change all the time. The difference in their ages only means that those changes are less likely to mesh. What a guy wants out of a relationship at eighteen is different than what he wants when he is thirty-two. What a woman wants at twenty-eight vastly different then what she wants at forty-one.

My uneducated guess is that Wigg's wife didn't want or couldn't have children. Wiggs, on the otherhand, probably wasn't as interested in having children when he was eighteen as he is today. This brings us today. Wiggs wants to create an heir and his wife is not the best person to do that with him in the usual way. Additionally, folks who do not have children tend to be more self-absorbed. I think for his wife, she may have reach a point of no return. She probably likes her life without children at this point....after all that is all she knows.

Regardless, as I said to Wiggs, change is difficult. Sometimes it is freeing, but it can take us awhile to realize this.

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #43 on: July 01, 2011, 10:23:20 PM »
what a loser.

Isnt he that guy who admited she cheated on him? Haha.

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #44 on: July 01, 2011, 10:30:31 PM »


uberman he cheated on her
many times
with many disgusting drug addict women
he gave her itchies down stairs
she has had enough of his
lying cheating lazy drug addict ways
shes out!

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #45 on: July 01, 2011, 10:33:37 PM »

uberman he cheated on her
many times
with many disgusting drug addict women
he gave her itchies down stairs
she has had enough of his
lying cheating lazy drug addict ways
shes out!

hello Maddy, are you the wife of wiggs? we will support you too if you need it.

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #46 on: July 01, 2011, 10:34:29 PM »
hello Maddy, are you the wife of wiggs? we will support you too if you need it.

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #47 on: July 01, 2011, 10:36:02 PM »
he gave her itchies down stairs

hilarious.

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #48 on: July 01, 2011, 10:37:51 PM »
pics of said wife and husband or it didnt happen.

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Re: After 12 years of marriage the wife and I are calling it quits...
« Reply #49 on: July 01, 2011, 10:38:05 PM »
Finally! You won't regret it wiggsy.