Women have a different psyche. Unlike men, they are very conscious of their own biology. They might fool around as teenagers, but women are programmed to have children with a suitable mate. Now, there exist abberations due to psychological issues: coalburners, liar/manipulator types, etc. But the vast majority are not thinking about pecs, 6 packs and biceps. That is the territory of the homosexual man. Women want security. That means money. Again, it is my experience that menan especially gym rats, resist this truth. They have laid plans for biceps, but have made no plans to build wealth, and therefore will never live the lifestyle they daydream about; i.e. a lifestyle of womanizing. That is the lifestyle of the powerbroker. He may or may not have a physique, but he has unlimited credit, multiple properties, beautiful cars, expensive suits, vacations and toasty warm places while the gym rats are scraping the snow off their shitboxes to drive to Gold's.