I don't necessarily desire to hit or hurt anyone, but if someone gives it, he or she can expect it back. Now, sure, I am MUCH less inclined to smash a female, however, if a woman comes at me and won't stop, even when I attempt to remain only mildly physical, she is gonna end up wishing she had.
I was a doorman in a strip club for a few years and, let me tell you, some chicks can be HORRIBLE and extremely violent.