full-time boyfriend of one of your side pieces wants to be friends

[Benny B]

[newmom]

Tre, you might be right, he may have his suspicions but if I may pose a question. Have you ever been cheated on? If so, it probably didn't make ya feel to good.

Trust, I'm not judging, especially doing what I've done, but it's a shitty thing to do

[Marty Champions]

tre can fuck her if he wishes , but tre just needs to know what he's getting himself into and that means a possible dilema of some dude stalking him or wreaking havic on his life. the less tall a man is the more violent and less compassionate he will be when he's judging if he should kill you or not

tre is definitly drawn to this fine poon tang. but for me ive had to get out of situations that were too hectic for my liking, theres plentys of other hoes out there. its only a matter of time where . the costs outweigh the benifits

hes definitly 'on to you' so do what black people normally do

[Tre]

LOL @ Johnny!  Yes, it may be time to split.    Her guy and I aren't going to become drinking buddies, but the fact that he's made these little overtures spells trouble.  Maybe he's just a really nice guy, but if that is the case and that's all that's up, then still, it's time for me to move on, because it's not like I have some long-standing relationship with the woman either.

Playa....LOL...more like dirtbag...sorry Tre...I'm not down with O.P.P.

Your whole issue lies in that second 'P', because you're indicating by your tone that you feel that the arbitrarily assigned titles of 'boyfriend'/'girlfriend' carry with them certain rights, privileges, and obligations that rise to the level of a married or even engaged-to-be-married couple. 

There are too many people who are under the spell of 'coupledom'.  You've been conditioned to believe that the 'couple' is some vital unit which gets to police not only the behaviors of its members, but also the behaviors of others outside the 'couple' as well.  Needless to say, I'm not at all a fan of the social policing power this arbitrarily-created unit has been granted over the generations.

[Tre]

Tre, you might be right, he may have his suspicions but if I may pose a question. Have you ever been cheated on? If so, it probably didn't make ya feel to good.

Trust, I'm not judging, especially doing what I've done, but it's a shitty thing to do

I think the whole concept of 'cheating' is grossly overplayed, the term itself way overused.  I could argue that this concept - which is instilled at a very early age in the lives of most Americans - is just one more tool women use to control men, but regardless of any gender bias, it's certainly used by many as a way to control others...even though they themselves may not even be in that relationship: e.g., "Girl, he's cheatin' on you!!"

To answer your question, though, it hasn't happened that I am aware of, but then again, I haven't had a 'girlfriend' in over 20 years. That's due in no small part to the fact that I don't subscribe to the rules of coupledom that the vast majority have bought into.  I would say that what I went through leading up to the dissolution of my marriage was far worse than merely being 'cheated on'.

[Marty Champions]

some people dont even care if there girl is cheating. they might just a little in a positive or a negative way or a mix of both feelings. theres much more bigger things in life to think about/contemplate on in life.

if one is always worried about whos fuckin who thats what your life will be about. just be greatful for what you do get in life thats all no need to be mad at nobody. being mad at people in life is no way to live, you gotta be thankful that your alive in this vastly entertaining world

alot of men have some real anger issues and it comes out in there post. who really likes feeling that way, why feel that way, sure its naturally initially to get mad but sometimes you gotta mature and just brush it off

[Cleanest Natural]

lol at this


tre is not a scumbag...but still not fully ok

i understand him

[Tre]

some people dont even care if there girl is cheating. they might just a little in a positive or a negative way or a mix of both feelings. theres much more bigger things in life to think about/contemplate on in life.

if one is always worried about whos fuckin who thats what your life will be about. just be greatful for what you do get in life thats all no need to be mad at nobody. being mad at people in life is no way to live, you gotta be thankful that your alive in this vastly entertaining world

a lot of men have some real anger issues and it comes out in there post. who really likes feeling that way, why feel that way, sure its naturally initially to get mad but sometimes you gotta mature and just brush it off

QFT.

Many will consider me a fool, but if I'm seeing someone, I honestly could give a shit what she's doing when we're not together.  I've got my life, she's got hers, and then we have a part of our individual lives which is shared.  If we're married and/or have kids together, it's a slightly different story, but even then, if she's meeting her obligations as wife and/or mother, I've got no gripe.  There are people who are breaking up real families over someone's Facebook activity.  We talkin' about FACEBOOK...a damn internet site!

If I'm working to provide for my family, I don't have the time, energy, or desire to wonder about who she's fantasizing about at any given moment.  She takes care of me when I get home...why do I care what got her in the mood??  Work is meant to be hard, but life is meant to be enjoyed...not spent with people dancing on eggshells as if it could all fall apart any second.

[outby43]

QFT.

Many will consider me a fool, but if I'm seeing someone, I honestly could give a shit what she's doing when we're not together.  I've got my life, she's got hers, and then we have a part of our individual lives which is shared.  If we're married and/or have kids together, it's a slightly different story, but even then, if she's meeting her obligations as wife and/or mother, I've got no gripe.  There are people who are breaking up real families over someone's Facebook activity.  We talkin' about FACEBOOK...a damn internet site!

If I'm working to provide for my family, I don't have the time, energy, or desire to wonder about who she's fantasizing about at any given moment.  She takes care of me when I get home...why do I care what got her in the mood??  Work is meant to be hard, but life is meant to be enjoyed...not spent with people dancing on eggshells as if it could all fall apart any second.

Great outlook on life Tre.

[Army of One]

I remember a post where Tre said he didnt associate with or befriend ugly people by choice, or people who wernt as handsome as he was  That right there told me all I needed to know about the man.

[ManBearPig...]

Playa....LOL...more like dirtbag...sorry Tre...I'm not down with O.P.P.

ha ha, like Tre knows what that means.

[Tre]

I remember a post where Tre said he didnt associate with or befriend ugly people by choice, or people who wernt as handsome as he was  That right there told me all I needed to know about the man.

I've actually got a small file entitled "I said that?!" which lists some of the shit I've said over the years that could not be taken back.  A lot of what I put out there are throwaway lines easily dismissed as tongue-in-cheek, but I'm the first to admit I've said stuff in all seriousness that would've been better kept to myself.  The list I have is far from exhaustive, though.  Would you happen to remember what was being discussed in that thread?  It sounds like something I would've said (I take ownership of that), but if I wasn't joking at the time, then there was surely some larger point I was making. 

The 2 options that come to mind:

1) I don't want to be the best-looking one in a group, because if that's the case, the group isn't going to attract much grade A (or even grade B!) talent

2) in general, American life tends to favor the Beautiful People and the more of them you associate with, the better your life will have a tendency to be

Based on the way you couched it, I'm leaning towards '2'.

[Board_SHERIF]

About 8 years ago I met a married women at the gym, ended up fuking her after our workouts regularly. It then escalated to me Picking her up from her house a few times, where I would go in and talk to her husband while waiting for her to finish getting ready for "our" date. The first time I felt "creepy"  but got used to it   LOL good times....

[DK II]

Stories like Tre's make me smile because it's only a matter of time when he'll fuck the wrong bitch and the dude will just go ballistic and kick the living shit out of him.

What goes around...

This.

[Cleanest Natural]

anyone ragging on tre is either insecure or was cheated on


he's ok .it's more common than water

[Big Worm]

yeah you're a scumbag if you fuck women who you know have a boyfriend, much less KNOW the fucking guy....you have no morals, who are you kidding?  how old are you again ?

I agree 1 billion % !  Maybe you should be cool with him,so he could set you up and kill you..? Think about it..Scumbags like you always get someone else arrested because of your nonsense.. If your cool with him,he can find a nice sweet spot,lure you in,and handle his business,and hopefully dispose of your body without getting caught..?  Just hope that the ditch is deep enough for you and that piece of sh!t bitch.. This way,both of you can P.i.P. together..

[Board_SHERIF]

I agree 1 billion % !  Maybe you should be cool with him,so he could set you up and kill you..? Think about it..Scumbags like you always get someone else arrested because of your nonsense.. If your cool with him,he can find a nice sweet spot,lure you in,and handle his business,and hopefully dispose of your body without getting caught..?  Just hope that the ditch is deep enough for you and that piece of sh!t bitch.. This way,both of you can P.i.P. together..

Its only Skin 

[PJim]

Cheating is a crime, it happens everday...