Author Topic: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?  (Read 16746 times)

Benny B

  • Time Out
  • Getbig V
  • *
  • Posts: 12405
  • Ron = 'Princess L' & many other gimmicks - FACT!
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #100 on: July 25, 2011, 04:18:26 PM »
Beach Bum says a guy my age... 36, having sex with an 18 year old is "perverted".

What do you guys think?

I guess I'm just a pervert... I think if she's 18 and hot, you fuck her.

He even likened it to child pornography... THAT is fucked up.


I didn't even realize until just now that it was Bitch Bum who said sex with an 18 year old is perverted. What a surprise!  ::)
He is unquestionably one of the DUMBEST people on this website, and that is saying something, considering some of the imbeciles we have running around this asylum we call getbig. The fucktard probably hasn't gotten laid by chick under 20 since Betamax was considered new technology. Bitch Bum's opinion is about as valuable as salt that has lost its taste.
!

Natural Man

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 11164
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #101 on: July 25, 2011, 04:21:04 PM »
if you had a 18 yo old daughter, would you want her to date a 36 y/o ?

Natural Man

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 11164
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #102 on: July 25, 2011, 04:23:37 PM »
Back in the 80s and 90s, most of the women who posed for Playboy (and even now) were 18 yrs old...

It's not perverted---but, it can mean something is up with you as far as ego or self esteem. Meaning that she is fresh meat, per se, let her deal with dudes her own age...do you want to recapture your youth is another question? Control issues are implied as well.

/end of thread. But i guess these men do not care about hurting the psychological stability of a weaker, younger individual and abuse her if it makes them feel good about themselves.
Any 18 y o girl fucking someone older than 22 has issues with her daddy anyway.

tu_holmes

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 15922
  • Robot
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #103 on: July 25, 2011, 04:26:06 PM »
if you had a 18 yo old daughter, would you want her to date a 36 y/o ?

I would trust my daughter to date who she wants to... She is an adult after all. I can only believe she is dating him for whatever reasons she chooses.

Do we think that people like Hugh Hefner or Rupert Murdoch are "perverts"?

Benny B

  • Time Out
  • Getbig V
  • *
  • Posts: 12405
  • Ron = 'Princess L' & many other gimmicks - FACT!
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #104 on: July 25, 2011, 04:31:12 PM »
if you had a 18 yo old daughter, would you want her to date a 36 y/o ?
Who are you addressing this to?

If I had a daughter, I'd likely find fault with ANYONE she chose to date. lol If the 36 year old was respectful and well educated, I don't think it would be any worse in my mind than her dating a HORNY ass 18-21 year old.
Ultimately, any daughter of mine would be raised with strong Christian values and the ability to use discernment in judging the character of people she dates and chooses to surround herself with. After that, it is up to her as an adult to make her own decisions in life...its out of my hands.
!

Natural Man

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 11164
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #105 on: July 25, 2011, 04:31:36 PM »
I would trust my daughter to date who she wants to... She is an adult after all. I can only believe she is dating him for whatever reasons she chooses.

Do we think that people like Hugh Hefner or Rupert Murdoch are "perverts"?
they re beyond being perverted. On a side note, obviously you have no daughter. Well, i hope so.

Benny B

  • Time Out
  • Getbig V
  • *
  • Posts: 12405
  • Ron = 'Princess L' & many other gimmicks - FACT!
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #106 on: July 25, 2011, 04:31:50 PM »
/end of thread. But i guess these men do not care about hurting the psychological stability of a weaker, younger individual and abuse her if it makes them feel good about themselves.
"End of thread" my hairy balls.  ::)
!

tu_holmes

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 15922
  • Robot
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #107 on: July 25, 2011, 04:34:19 PM »
they re beyond being perverted. On a side note, obviously you have no daughter. Well, i hope so.

I have a 5 year old daughter... So what?
Who are you addressing this to?

If I had a daughter, I'd likely find fault with ANYONE she chose to date. lol If the 36 year old was respectful and well educated, I don't think it would be any worse in my mind than her dating a HORNY ass 18-21 year old.
Ultimately, any daughter of mind would be raised with strong Christian values and the ability to use discernment in judging the character of people she dates and chooses to surround herself with. After that, it is up to her as an adult to make her own decisions in life...its out of my hands.

This... I don't think I will like any guy she brings over.

But if he's a decent person and has his shit together at 36, I'll most likely find him less deplorable than some 21 or 22 year old ass clown who's going to be a broke artist and have no ability to help take care of her or treat her like shit as is all too common in todays society.




Benny B

  • Time Out
  • Getbig V
  • *
  • Posts: 12405
  • Ron = 'Princess L' & many other gimmicks - FACT!
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #108 on: July 25, 2011, 04:42:10 PM »
You doubt it? They are the gen that everything went to shit. Don't know how to parent, the Civil Rights era people still thnk it's 1968---and always want to march...
Parents giving their kids everything, and treating them like they are friends, and it's never anybody's fault...
Put kids in therapy for heir bad parenting...absentee fathers, mothers don't care, "I can do it all by myself, I don't need a man to raise a kid"

you see I'm younger than you, part of generation nothingness---but the Baby Boomer generation was too busy in their selfish endeavors to make sure that this generation had a good start--leaders, etc...yet they have brought the country down...not to say they haven't done good things, which they have, one has to take the good with the bad...I had a internship...I guess if you mean a senior---but I think career oriented to me is if you have a career first...you have the job and you are embarking on a career path...establishing one...
You are MASSIVELY generalizing an incredibly large generation of Americans. Ridiculous. You absolve the generation the BB's spawned by making excuses. I don't like excuses, particularly when they are not well thought out and poorly articulated.

You act like the Civil Rights movement was a bad thing...if it weren't for that movement your ass would likely not be on this board, or have been able to do half of the things you've done with your life. You owe them a HUGE debt. As far as marching...it may not be the best method in this day and age, but it is still a way to demonstrate, in large numbers, opposition to a particular issue or cause. What are YOU or YOUR generation doing to advance the political or social dynamic in America today that is so much more effective?

The fact that you are younger than me (and not by very much) WEAKENS your case, rather than strengthening it.  ;)
!

HTexan

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 20031
  • Heath must lose!!
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #109 on: July 25, 2011, 05:23:54 PM »
IMO your a sick fuck. Wait until she is at least 21.She can't even legally drink
A

Jonny34

  • Getbig III
  • ***
  • Posts: 336
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #110 on: July 25, 2011, 05:31:08 PM »
I have a 5 year old daughter... So what?




Sick fuck, there's no way your 36 years old, more like 56. LOL

Parker

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 53475
  • He Sees The Stormy Anger Of The World
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #111 on: July 25, 2011, 05:39:51 PM »
You are MASSIVELY generalizing an incredibly large generation of Americans. Ridiculous. You absolve the generation the BB's spawned by making excuses. I don't like excuses, particularly when they are not well thought out and poorly articulated.

You act like the Civil Rights movement was a bad thing...if it weren't for that movement your ass would likely not be on this board, or have been able to do half of the things you've done with your life. You owe them a HUGE debt. As far as marching...it may not be the best method in this day and age, but it is still a way to demonstrate, in large numbers, opposition to a particular issue or cause. What are YOU or YOUR generation doing to advance the political or social dynamic in America today that is so much more effective?

The fact that you are younger than me (and not by very much) WEAKENS your case, rather than strengthening it.  ;)
No, I am correct and many baby boomers agree..sure there are some good spots, but overall the Baby Boomers have FUCKED UP

And I never said that the Civil rights era was a bad thing...I said that those people act like it's the same, when it's not...
This people want to march and what not and talk about racism, when it's black men who are being shot by black men, black men dealing drugs, and killing their neighborhoods, black men not graduating from HS---I beleive the percentage is 45%...The problems now are eduaction, drugs and violence...racism exists, but there are bigger problems hat need to be addressed...the reason why it's not...is because it's us hurting each other, and the is no white boogey man to blame. I am thankful for that movement. But they want to hand over the torch, they sure hell don't act like it...

Back to what I was stating, when you grow up with kids who have everything handed to them, and then talk about how they got into a fight with their mom or dad..a actual fight, or why dad didn't give them the BMW, but got them a Honda instead, When you witness mothers trying to outdo their daughters and and tells their moms to shut up...and this is not a isolated thing...My mother was a teacher for 40+ yrs, and she has seen the change...
The Baby boomers thought of nothing but themselves for 40 plus yrs, and now the Chickens are coming home to roost (And you know damn well that if Malcolm and MLK saw how their legacies have gone they would be very disappointed--especially with people who try to pimp the Civil Rights Movement0  
All in All, it's there and you've seen, my generation has seen it    

tu_holmes

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 15922
  • Robot
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #112 on: July 25, 2011, 05:57:58 PM »
Sick fuck, there's no way your 36 years old, more like 56. LOL

God, the gimmicks come out like crazy.

Why did you crop out the chicks that were in the photo with me?

No... I'm 36... I just have some gray... Been going gray since I was 16.

The original photo of course...






Natural Man

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 11164
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #113 on: July 25, 2011, 06:22:33 PM »



mmmh.... sometimes i wish i was wrong. Nice find jony. This pretty ends the debate, and answers the original question lol...

tu_holmes

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 15922
  • Robot
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #114 on: July 25, 2011, 06:24:38 PM »
IMO your a sick fuck. Wait until she is at least 21.She can't even legally drink

But she can go die in a war in a desert... What the hell does being able to drink even have to do with anything at all?

WillGrant

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 21058
  • Ron is Watching
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #115 on: July 25, 2011, 06:33:48 PM »
Slide her some for Will , Tu!!   :D ;D

Parker

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 53475
  • He Sees The Stormy Anger Of The World
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #116 on: July 25, 2011, 06:42:00 PM »
But she can go die in a war in a desert... What the hell does being able to drink even have to do with anything at all?
Make her "drink from the fountain of love, and you take a sip from her cup", "69 was a very good year"
-Joe, "All The Things Your Man Won't Do"

Doug_Steele

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 10875
  • I'm totally Brolic, bro!
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #117 on: July 25, 2011, 06:47:20 PM »
IMO your a sick fuck. Wait until she is at least 21.She can't even legally drink

Fuck that shit. If she is 18, it's all good.  8)
D

WillGrant

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 21058
  • Ron is Watching
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #118 on: July 25, 2011, 06:47:26 PM »
Team Tu The Tiger!!! Tagger of Tiny Teens FTW

WillGrant

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 21058
  • Ron is Watching
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #119 on: July 25, 2011, 07:49:36 PM »

tu_holmes

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 15922
  • Robot
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #120 on: July 25, 2011, 07:51:17 PM »
That is beautiful.

pedro01

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 4800
  • Hello Hunior
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #121 on: July 25, 2011, 08:04:27 PM »
Beach Bum says a guy my age... 36, having sex with an 18 year old is "perverted".

What do you guys think?

I guess I'm just a pervert... I think if she's 18 and hot, you fuck her.

He even likened it to child pornography... THAT is fucked up.



I fucked an 18 year old on my 36th birthday. To be honest, it was mostly to take advantage of the first time in my life I'd been able to fuck someone half my age. I put this down to being shallow and have no excuses for the behaviour.

I'm 42 next birthday & won't be seeking out a 21 year old. Conversation was hardly stimulating. I wouldn't have a relationship with an 18 year old for sure. I doubt I'd even fuck one. I like a woman with a few miles on the clock, sexually speaking. I've done my stint as a teacher thank you very much.

My girlfriend, who I live with and who I  have a lovely 20 month old daughter with, is 29. That sort of age gap is do-able but an 18 year old? Fuck no - she'd drive you nuts.

The only fault I can find with my current girlfriend (of 6 years) is her insistence of giving me a 'start rating' after each fuck. Ratings are 1 star to 5 star with 5 being the highest. Maybe this is the norm in gals in their late 20's nowadays. I catch myself occasionally thinking "this is 5 stars for sure" when we are having sex - somethings definitely not right about that. I shudder to think what 18 year olds are doing - ratings in each category - foreplay, duration, width, length, weight distribution.... Jeez...

apply85

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 3833
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #122 on: July 25, 2011, 08:19:09 PM »
I fucked an 18 year old on my 36th birthday. To be honest, it was mostly to take advantage of the first time in my life I'd been able to fuck someone half my age. I put this down to being shallow and have no excuses for the behaviour.

I'm 42 next birthday & won't be seeking out a 21 year old. Conversation was hardly stimulating. I wouldn't have a relationship with an 18 year old for sure. I doubt I'd even fuck one. I like a woman with a few miles on the clock, sexually speaking. I've done my stint as a teacher thank you very much.

My girlfriend, who I live with and who I  have a lovely 20 month old daughter with, is 29. That sort of age gap is do-able but an 18 year old? Fuck no - she'd drive you nuts.

The only fault I can find with my current girlfriend (of 6 years) is her insistence of giving me a 'start rating' after each fuck. Ratings are 1 star to 5 star with 5 being the highest. Maybe this is the norm in gals in their late 20's nowadays. I catch myself occasionally thinking "this is 5 stars for sure" when we are having sex - somethings definitely not right about that. I shudder to think what 18 year olds are doing - ratings in each category - foreplay, duration, width, length, weight distribution.... Jeez...

omg

Benny B

  • Time Out
  • Getbig V
  • *
  • Posts: 12405
  • Ron = 'Princess L' & many other gimmicks - FACT!
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #123 on: July 25, 2011, 09:44:00 PM »
No, I am correct and many baby boomers agree..sure there are some good spots, but overall the Baby Boomers have FUCKED UP
If only thinking you are correct could make it so.  ::) Your logic has more holes than Swiss cheese and lacks cohesion. You are a pretty intelligent guy Parker, and I respect you. However, blanket states usually end up in creating false equivalencies and broad, sweeping generalizations that cannot be substantiated.

Many boomers will NOT all agree that they take have to take the responsibility for the following generations fuck-ups. Nor should they.

Quote
And I never said that the Civil rights era was a bad thing...I said that those people act like it's the same, when it's not...
This people want to march and what not and talk about racism, when it's black men who are being shot by black men, black men dealing drugs, and killing their neighborhoods, black men not graduating from HS---I beleive the percentage is 45%...The problems now are eduaction, drugs and violence...racism exists, but there are bigger problems hat need to be addressed...the reason why it's not...is because it's us hurting each other, and the is no white boogey man to blame. I am thankful for that movement. But they want to hand over the torch, they sure hell don't act like it...
You most certainly DID denigrate the demonstrations and mass mobilization that occurred during the Civil Rights era with your asinine asseveration.

You are turning the discussion into an issue of African-American baby boomers. My points were certainly not based on such a narrow racial demographic. I am thinking with a significantly broader scope...the overwhelming population of boomers are NOT Black, as should be obvious given that Blacks are a minority of the U.S. population. I am not sure why you chose it take your assertion in that direction, as that limits the scope of your original premise.  :-\ The whole issue of the original vanguard of Civil Rights leaders being reluctant to pass the baton is something you may want to create another thread to discuss. I am not going there...again, your blanket statement was off base. Many of those Civil Rights leaders are PRE-baby boomer in age anyway.  ;)

Quote
Back to what I was stating, when you grow up with kids who have everything handed to them, and then talk about how they got into a fight with their mom or dad..a actual fight, or why dad didn't give them the BMW, but got them a Honda instead, When you witness mothers trying to outdo their daughters and and tells their moms to shut up...and this is not a isolated thing...My mother was a teacher for 40+ yrs, and she has seen the change...
This is another exaggeration...for every family who had that situation you presuppose, there are TEN families who did not raise their children in this manner. A completely spurious and disjointed avouchment.C'mon...you had children of the upper middle class and wealthy class spoiling their children prior to the boomers too! BOTH of my parents taught in public schools and at the university level. There are many dynamics that have created change in today's youth. But you are going to lay ALL of that at the feet of the boomer generation? I don't accept it. 
 
Quote
The Baby boomers thought of nothing but themselves for 40 plus yrs, and now the Chickens are coming home to roost (And you know damn well that if Malcolm and MLK saw how their legacies have gone they would be very disappointed--especially with people who try to pimp the Civil Rights Movement0   
All in All, it's there and you've seen, my generation has seen it     
Bringing issues of the environment and pollution was done for FUTURE generations as much their own. Fighting for gender equality was done so that FUTURE generations of women would be able to pursue careers and step into senior management in ways previously unavailable to them. Affirmative action and other civil rights legislation helped women, minorities (people like YOU) get the chance to pursue higher education, live where you want to live and not be red lined into a particular side of town. Demonstrating against the Vietnam War when it was not the politically correct thing to do was so that FUTURE generations would not continue to have blood on their hands for being citizens of an American imperialist nation. The boomers were the first to join the Kennedy administration's Peace Corps, going to underdeveloped countries around the world and trying to make a difference.

Malcolm and Martin would be disappointed in a LOT of things about America today, but unlike you, they would not lay all the blame on the kids that came up 20 years after them. EVERYONE is responsible for what is both good and bad in America today. That includes YOU and your generation that has in many ways forgotten completely what it means to take a stand for cause that is greater than themselves and may not have a personal financial benefit.

In many ways, with the obsessive celebrity culture America has, which has reached an all-time high, leads me to believe that the current generation of those in the 18-35 age range are the MOST materialistic and self-centered of that demographic we've ever had.

~Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.  ~Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy
!

Parker

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 53475
  • He Sees The Stormy Anger Of The World
Re: Yay or Nay... Is having sex with an 18 year old "perverted"?
« Reply #124 on: July 26, 2011, 01:28:13 AM »
If only thinking you are correct could make it so.  ::) Your logic has more holes than Swiss cheese and lacks cohesion. You are a pretty intelligent guy Parker, and I respect you. However, blanket states usually end up in creating false equivalencies and broad, sweeping generalizations that cannot be substantiated.

Many boomers will NOT all agree that they take have to take the responsibility for the following generations fuck-ups. Nor should they.
You most certainly DID denigrate the demonstrations and mass mobilization that occurred during the Civil Rights era with your asinine asseveration.

You are turning the discussion into an issue of African-American baby boomers. My points were certainly not based on such a narrow racial demographic. I am thinking with a significantly broader scope...the overwhelming population of boomers are NOT Black, as should be obvious given that Blacks are a minority of the U.S. population. I am not sure why you chose it take your assertion in that direction, as that limits the scope of your original premise.  :-\ The whole issue of the original vanguard of Civil Rights leaders being reluctant to pass the baton is something you may want to create another thread to discuss. I am not going there...again, your blanket statement was off base. Many of those Civil Rights leaders are PRE-baby boomer in age anyway.  ;)
This is another exaggeration...for every family who had that situation you presuppose, there are TEN families who did not raise their children in this manner. A completely spurious and disjointed avouchment.C'mon...you had children of the upper middle class and wealthy class spoiling their children prior to the boomers too! BOTH of my parents taught in public schools and at the university level. There are many dynamics that have created change in today's youth. But you are going to lay ALL of that at the feet of the boomer generation? I don't accept it. 
 Bringing issues of the environment and pollution was done for FUTURE generations as much their own. Fighting for gender equality was done so that FUTURE generations of women would be able to pursue careers and step into senior management in ways previously unavailable to them. Affirmative action and other civil rights legislation helped women, minorities (people like YOU) get the chance to pursue higher education, live where you want to live and not be red lined into a particular side of town. Demonstrating against the Vietnam War when it was not the politically correct thing to do was so that FUTURE generations would not continue to have blood on their hands for being citizens of an American imperialist nation. The boomers were the first to join the Kennedy administration's Peace Corps, going to underdeveloped countries around the world and trying to make a difference.

Malcolm and Martin would be disappointed in a LOT of things about America today, but unlike you, they would not lay all the blame on the kids that came up 20 years after them. EVERYONE is responsible for what is both good and bad in America today. That includes YOU and your generation that has in many ways forgotten completely what it means to take a stand for cause that is greater than themselves and may not have a personal financial benefit.

In many ways, with the obsessive celebrity culture America has, which has reached an all-time high, leads me to believe that the current generation of those in the 18-35 age range are the MOST materialistic and self-centered of that demographic we've ever had.

~Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.  ~Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy

CHECK YOUR PM...THIS ISN'T THE THREAD FOR IT...