Exactly! They sound like some queer fashion designer nitpicking the color and style of her swimsuit,
QFT
I'm a happily married man, but if I were single and any one of these women engaged me in conversation, I would do everything I could to get to know her better.
I always refer back to a Jerry Seinfeld line...he was complaining about some woman he had gone out with...Elaine then asked, "So why are you seeing her again?" Jerry replied, "Well, she IS a woman."