Mars, it's all biology. Women have a short half-life time, basically late teens to late twenties, then their best assets (looks) are mostly gone. The analogy I would use is that women are sprinters and men are long distance runners, because as a man you can improve yourself even in later years when a woman's best assets (looks) are gone. For this reason they can come on as arrogant. Short half-life time.
exactly, they have to find the richest and most stable male in that short window, the best male they can get depending of their looks, who will increases her and heir offpsring odds of survival.
So many good looking women who age well but who are engaged to guys who dont and they dont like them anymore too... Who wonder why they chose "this guy" and wish they could start another life with a better dude... but often they alrdy have kids... People constantly compare themselves to each others and always want more... they never satisfied... They constantly regret their past choices... and become angry as they age. Just because they cant balance things in their mind with spiritual values and goals.
Fact is you need faith, values if you re looking for stability and hapiness. If you re not spiritual enough you re constantly frustrated by everything. There are ugly people who are happier than good looking ones who are way too vain, insecure, dominating, aggressive, and whatever the amount of money, material goods or beauty they have, they feel miserable etc
it's all in the head.
And it starts when you re a kid, the way your parents raise you, love you, love each others, what they put in your head. Good influences and values from the start shape an happy mind, even if you re not that good looking. People who dont care about their kids dont love them and shape them insecure from the start, they are also often faithless at the same time.