Do you married guys maintain friendships with divorced friends?

[MP]

Do you married guys stay good friends with your buddies when they get divorced?

I have a longtime friend who recently got divorced. I'm really happy for him, as I know he was trapped with a mothering, goodie goodie type wife and never truly acted himself around her. There was a lot of deception going on. Plus the sex was non-existent.

Now that's he divorced, he's getting lots of tail and I couldn't be happier for him.

I thought I'd see MORE of the guy now that he's free, but it's the opposite.

He's the worst about getting back to me and other buddies about confirming plans or even responding at all.

I think part of the problem is he's kind of spacey any way (pot smoker), so he simply forgets dates and things he's said he'd do with friends.

Don't get me wrong, I'm happy for the guy, but wonder how much time I should bother trying to keep our friendship going. Or, just accept the fact that when he wants to do something, we'll hear from the guy.

[Natural Man]

so you left your wife and now wonder why none of your friends who are married want to talk to you?

Also what kind of moron leaves his wife because she takes care of him? 


What a retarded thread.

[MP]

LOL. No stories hear. I'm talking about an actual friend.

Never really posted anything personal on here, but figure this is a good one to talk about with strangers.

[reppingfor20]

Do you married guys stay good friends with your buddies when they get divorced?

I have a longtime friend who recently got divorced. I'm really happy for him, as I know he was trapped with a mothering, goodie goodie type wife and never truly acted himself around her. There was a lot of deception going on. Plus the sex was non-existent.

Now that's he divorced, he's getting lots of tail and I couldn't be happier for him.

I thought I'd see MORE of the guy now that he's free, but it's the opposite.

He's the worst about getting back to me and other buddies about confirming plans or even responding at all.

I think part of the problem is he's kind of spacey any way (pot smoker), so he simply forgets dates and things he's said he'd do with friends.

Don't get me wrong, I'm happy for the guy, but wonder how much time I should bother trying to keep our friendship going. Or, just accept the fact that when he wants to do something, we'll hear from the guy.

Who exactly is we'll hear from the guy, are you talking about yourself in the third person?

Disregard uberman, he is obsessed with marriage and that it is the only way to find true happiness.  You can live together with your significant other and be just as happy, marriage brings problems more than it creates positives.

[MP]

Who exactly is we'll hear from the guy, are you talking about yourself in the third person?

We = me and my group of friends.

[reppingfor20]

We = me and my group of friends.

he is just busy trying to get laid, doubt he think hanging out with you and the rest of the married crew will help his odds, so spending time with you now would only hinder his chances at achieving his ultimate goal which is to get the fucking out of him that has been pent up for so long.

[BIG ACH]

One of my bestest, bestest, bestest friends is a divorced guy who is very anti marriage now.  He gets tons of tail LOL

When I was still living back in DC we used to hang out all the time and now that I'm in Florida we play xbox online together all the time.

I'm married, but that hasn't changed anything between us!

[MP]

he is just busy trying to get laid, doubt he think hanging out with you and the rest of the married crew will help his odds, so spending time with you now would only hinder his chances at achieving his ultimate goal which is to get the fucking out of him that has been pent up for so long.

Yeah, for sure. He definitely travels in other circles now. He doesn't even bother with the bar scene. He picks up chicks online.

That's the thing. It seems so easy for him to meet - and score - with ones he meets online. He doesn't have to put a lot of time in to find them.

Thus, I figure he'd have some free time.

I could be over-thinking this. Or, it could just be all the pot smoking that makes him the way he is.

But the inability to give a simple yes or no to plans with friends (i.e., not even responding to emails or texts) makes you want to stop bothering to ask the guy.

[Army of One]

Reading between the lines, you may want to approach him slowly about your feelings of wanting his stiff rod inside of you, maybe go round there with a few beers one night and when he starts to slur, tell him how you blogged like a menstruating woman on a message board about your emotions towards him and his lack of caring and thought for you.When he sees you really are a dripping Vagina under that false machismo, he may proceed to pump you senseless like the submissive prison bottom bitch you are.

[MP]

Reading between the lines, you may want to approach him slowly about your feelings of wanting his stiff rod inside of you, maybe go round there with a few beers one night and when he starts to slur, tell him how you blogged like a menstrating woman on a message board about your emotions towards him and his lack of caring and thought for you.When he sees you really are a dripping Vagina under that false machismo, he may proceed to pump you senseless like the submissive prison bottom bitch you are.

LOL. Not bad. I thought that would  be the first reply. But, a few serious replies snuck in first.

[garebear]

Reading between the lines, you may want to approach him slowly about your feelings of wanting his stiff rod inside of you, maybe go round there with a few beers one night and when he starts to slur, tell him how you blogged like a menstruating woman on a message board about your emotions towards him and his lack of caring and thought for you.When he sees you really are a dripping Vagina under that false machismo, he may proceed to pump you senseless like the submissive prison bottom bitch you are.

Now there's a GB response if I ever saw one.

[leadhead]

he is just busy trying to get laid, doubt he think hanging out with you and the rest of the married crew will help his odds, so spending time with you now would only hinder his chances at achieving his ultimate goal which is to get the fucking out of him that has been pent up for so long.

This. I hang out more with my single friends more now that I'm divorced. I don't look at them as a hinderance, but I know I'm not going to meet many women around them as I will my single friends. Btw your wife and his ex weren't friends, were they? There's a few couple friends of my ex's that I don't have much to do with anymore because I know they will tell my ex info that I don't want the bitch knowing, so I avoid talking to them much..

[cart@@n]

You could also ask "Do married guys maintain friendships with single friends?"

[reppingfor20]

Yeah, for sure. He definitely travels in other circles now. He doesn't even bother with the bar scene. He picks up chicks online.

That's the thing. It seems so easy for him to meet - and score - with ones he meets online. He doesn't have to put a lot of time in to find them.

Thus, I figure he'd have some free time.

I could be over-thinking this. Or, it could just be all the pot smoking that makes him the way he is.

But the inability to give a simple yes or no to plans with friends (i.e., not even responding to emails or texts) makes you want to stop bothering to ask the guy.

The only part I don't understand is why he is not getting back to you on plans, if he doesn't respond twice in a row, let it be, he is the one who has the ball in his hands to get back to you now, it really doesn't matter, because if he doesn't value the friendship anymore, there is no reason you should either.  Let time go by and if he get's back to you then hang out with him again.