HAHA, what a legend, someone invite him here
"I am so happy that I am finally able to post my story here. I have been lurking here for over a year. My weight loss journey started over a year ago. Basically, I was pushing 230 and I was only 5'8". I was happily married but my sex life started to suck. When me and my wife got married, I was around 175. Our sex life was great and we were both very open in the bedroom. 5 years later and I had gained some weight. My wife said that she didn't care about the extra weight but I was starting to feel insecure about my weight. My wife was not open as much and she never seemed to touch me like she did before.
Whenever me and my wife had sex, she stopped giving me bjs. At first I didn't think much of it but every time I would ask her, she would make up an excuse such as she had a toothache or that her stomach was hurting. One day I confronted her about it and she straight up told me that she thought it was disgusting and didn't want to do it anymore. This really hurt me because she was perfectly fine with it for 5 years and I never demeaned her in the bedroom. The part that made me upset was that she still expected me to go down on her.*
I looked at my life and the only reason that I could think of for her behavior was my weight gain. I figured that she found my weight disgusting and that's why she didn't want to do it anymore. I was depressed for a while but I started to lose weight. I started to watch my diet and I went to the gym for 6 days *a week. She never said anything about my weight lost until I got around to 190. She started to say that I looked like I was losing weight and she started to touch me more and feel on my arms. A couple of months ago, I managed to get my weight down to 175. I noticed that a couple of her friends would stare at my when they came over and a couple of her friends used to smile at me and make small talk just to give them an excuse to look at me.
A few weeks ago, we had a baby shower over our house. Since I don't like a lot of kids running through my house tearing up my stuff, I was there to try to keep order with the kids. This meant that I was the only dude at the baby shower but I was completely fine with it and when the kids were under control, I was in our bedroom playing my xbox. I overheard the ladies in the other room talking about sex and a couple of them were talking about bjs. I tried my best not to eavesdrop but some of it was kind of funny. My wife was there but I didn't stick around to hear what she said since I didn't want to make anyone uncomfortable. I just put on my headphones and played my xbox. The party ended later that evening and I was glad when everybody left. When my wife came to the bedroom, we just talked and made jokes about some of the people from the party. She also told me that one of her friends wanted me to fix her computer and that she gave her my number to text me later. I didn't think much of it and we talked about some other stuff before going to sleep.
The next day, I got a text from a unknown number saying "I want to suck your ****". I didn't reply because I thought it was a joke. I got curious later and I texted back to ask who it was. When she identified herself as my wife's friend, I was shocked! To make a long story short, I slept with her and she gave me the best bj that I have ever had. That was 2 weeks ago and since then, I have had relations with 3 of my wife's friends. All of them were at the party too. I don't know if I should tell my wife but during the time that I was fatter, none of the women seemed to pay me too much attention. I know it is wrong but I do blame some of it on my wife since she neglected me and when she told me that she thought it was disgusting, I pictured her telling me that I was disgusting.*
Anyways, it feels good to let this off of my chest and my goal is to stay around 170 until next summer and then I will start a slow bulk."
