You know, fellas, some of us guys have been through all the crap most of you haven't experienced yet. There is, collectively, a lot of good information to be culled here. You just have to encourage the older, experienced guys to tell you more. When I was young there was no internet to make a fool of yourself on. No way to get information and no porn, either. What a difference. Let me tell you what a marriage manual advised in 1962. In those days living with a woman before marriage was called living in sin. You weren't supposed to have sex before marriage and the pill wasn't around until 1962 but even then a lot of women wouldn't go on the pill for various reasons, some religious. Well, this gynocologist suggested that after the wedding was over and you were alone with your wife just take a flashlight and have a look at her privates and when you see the layout you should know what to do. I mean, imagine doing that today. You would be considered weird and maybe even a pervert! Those weren't good days at all.
