Thanks for the replies everyone, I like reading what you all have to say.
Tbombz, it's well known that you stay a couple of reps away from failure, but what are your sets like? Do you ramp up to one top set? Do you do multiple sets with the same weight? How do you determine when to stop?
Seems like a lot of people do set after set with the same weight, trying to totally annihilate the muscle, but I bet you would disagree with this.
its taken me along time and alot of experimenting to come to find what works and its a little complicated but ill try to break it down
usually what i do i pick one exercise per body part and do 4 sets total.
2 sets with a weight that i can do 10-12 reps with, and then 2 sets that i can do 5-8 reps with.
i use the same amount of weight workut to workout, slowing moving up in the rep range untill i need to increase the weights a bit.
for example ill do 3 lates a side on hammer declines for 10 reps 2 sets, then 4 plates per side for 2 sets 5 reps. next workout i might get 3 plates per side for 2 sets of 12 reps, and 4 plates per side for 2 sets of 6 reps. once i can use the heavier weight for sets of 8 ill increase the weight in bot pairs of sets.
once or twice a month i will throw in a set or two of a heavy weight that i can only get 2-3 times. i find this can help break a strength/size platue.
it may help to know i split my body up into two workouts, one day is chest shoulders arms, second day is back rear delts traps and legs. ill do abs and calves almost everyworkout though. i generally train 1 day on 1 day off, so each muscle gets hit about every 4th day, sometimes every 3rd. depends on how im feeing and how much ive eaten.
i stop during my set at the point where it gets very tough to complete a rep, but im not forcing it and i know i could bang out a couple more if i tried.
after doing 4 sets in that manner ill flex the muscle and it will be very tight and hurt a little bit.
for chest back and quads i sometimes add in one more exercise for a a limited amount of sets. for example, i prefer decline hammers for chest but i usually do a couple sets of incline bb press at the end of my workout to keep my upper chest full. for back i like pulldowns but i will usually finish up with a couple sets of either bent over bb rows or deadlifts to keep the thickness up. for quads i can only really do leg extensions because i have fucked up knees, and i usually allow myself a few more sets on the leg extension (say 5-6 sets instead of just 4), but at the end of my workout ill do some light weight, controlled reps on the hack squat cuz i think it helps keep the entire leg, quad sweep, glutes, hammies all working together smoothly and thick.