I like to look at myself in the mirror just to analyze myself, I don't get a boner lol, tho I have been described as a beautiful man, beautiful and mysterious like a wild horse if you will, but I do not like to be hit on by women, and generally I do not trust women when they say they love me, I like to win them over by force and intimidation. My close friend is blond blue eyed very beautiful man and a lot of his social power comes from this, and he may be the most vain person in the world, but I would more describe him as a person who gets off on the power trip of being physically desirable, he describes what he thinks women think of him as "she was so in love with me blah lblah." I cringe when he says this, I could never say someone is in love with me, sounds like a ridiculous statement, but I believe this notion of being worshipped is what gets him off with women. I think this is vanity, not to actually love urself, but to accept readily the admiration of other people and the motivation behind accepting is the power that comes with being desired.