thats like telling someone,,,to not open your hand when money is handed to you,,,,people took responsiblity when estate boomed with becoming agents,,,you know how much money agents were making part time with full time job they had as a side job estate?? They maded roughly over 100k if not more minimall when boom was here,,,so why should they NOT take the money and spend it? We americans forget so easy,,,how bad we had it before when money is thrown at us like this,,,everyones credit rating was like yours during the boom,,,its how you got out of the boom is what matters is the NOW,,,
Throughout time it we've had boom times and bust times. The good (financial) times don't last forever. People who went through hard times are frequently more conservative during good times when money is flowing freely. I saw this with my father whose parents lost money during the depression (although they were never poor). My maternal grandfather was a high paid lawyer in the 1930's. Even so, my mom remembered them having warm milk with bread in it for dinner on occasion. Her parents were very conservative. As a result my father was relatively careful with money and my mom loved to spend it.
My mom and step-dad lived high on the hog and were seriously in debt while I was growing up. My friends all though my parents were rich because of the big house in Encino. CA with a pool and stables, the Cadillacs and later Lincolns parked in the circular driveway. I knew better. Eventually, when my step-dad's business was in a downturn, my parents did some serious downsizing. By then I was already a married adult with bills of my own. When my step-dad died, my mom had nowhere to go so she moved in with my wife and me. She lived off social security checks and the interest from my step-dad's life insurance policy. This was in the late 1970's and money market accounts were paying 11% interest. She would have (almost) starved trying to live off the interest of such an account today.
When times are good, it is easy to think they will go on forever. Why save money for tomorrow, when you can live like a king today? You mention that the banks were handing out money to people right and left, so why should they turn it down? Banks are still trying to loan money to people who are low risk. I know, Iconstantlyanty being asked to refinance the house or take out a loan for improvements, etc....with no fees and no closing costs. We would like to remodel the kitchen....and we will, when we have the cash to do it.
Just because money is offered doesn't mean you have to take it. Nothing is for free. Sure folks in real estate were making bigcommissionsisions and mortgage lenders were pulling downcommissionsisions too. Too bad they didn't consider that sometime that might change and throw some of those earnings in to relatively secure investments or even just a savings account. Instead of buying McMansions, if people had parlayed their inflated real estate earnings into income property they could be doing OK today. Rentals are in short supply right now because a lot of folks cannot afford to buy property.
Like you, I believe one should live in the present. However, this doesn't mean that one should not prepare for the future or reflect and learn from the past. No doubt, there will be folks who will do things differently for the rest of their lives because of the experiences they have found themselves in today.