What is the appropriate thing to do when people disrespect you extremely hard?

[purenaturalstrength]

He was hoping to piss you off so that you would throw a punch.  At that point he was planning to beat you to a pulp.  You see your muscles did not impress him.

if only ronnie coleman was with me  

[bike nut]

i'm 6' decent build and this is the bar tender (yes found his facebook) i always stalk my enemies and study their whereabouts with a sleeperaccount just so that in case a glorious opportunity for (legal)  revenge comes up i can not miss it

I honestly think this bartender would slap you semi-conscious, shit in your mouth and leave you laying on the sidewalk.

Tough guy.

 

[slaveboy1980]

[StanZoLOL]

HAHA  You guys must be 5'5 beasts if you're getting owned like that.

x2. I can't believe anyone who lifts fairly regularly would get treated like this.

[Tito24]

[purenaturalstrength]

x2. I can't believe anyone who lifts fairly regularly would get treated like this.

i can't believe it either!!!

[purenaturalstrength]

so guys... i really liked going to that bar, it has all the young high school girls and my buddies are often there


can i still go back there now?


the bouncer felt bad for me and respected my restraint, so i expect no problems from that perspective

[DukeX]

I was pondering at work about 2 occasions where I really wondered "what would ronnie coleman do?"

situation 1:
*having a drink with friends outside of bar
*go in bar, bar tenders don't serve me, are occupied chatting up the girls
*leave bar, get drink at night shop and drink it with my buddies outside the bar (buddies have drinks from the bar)
*bar tender comes out of the bar, gives me an attitude, says "this is our property" (meaning dont bring your own drinks)
*i say well if you serve drinks then i wouldn't have needed to go and buy elsewhere
*he says "well if you're gonna be like that" and grabs my hand holding my drink (in a can) and squeezes it and sprays the drink all over my shirt (i look all nasty now)

at this point i was sooooo angry but at the same time i knew that if i punched him or whatever i could get into legal problems again (in the past i was more wreckless and went for the violence option in similar situations)

so all i could do was insult him but he just seemed to get off on my anger

situation2:
*i found a job for my girlfriend in a bar owned by my friend's girlfriend
*she serves drinks there and does dishes
*one day after work i go there when her shift is about to finish
*some asshole is talking to her like she's a black whore (not even trying to chat her up, really talking to her like she's a whore who will not need fake friendlyness just crude remarks)
*my friend's girlfriend (who owns the bar) tells the guy to shut up and says she's my girlfriend
*the guy who is like 10 years older than me says something like  "how old are you..blabla..don't think she's going to be your last one blabla"

what he said was not so special but the way he said it and the attitude made me fill with the question again "i should be beating him up but since that's illegal what can i do to degrade him and regain respect?"


i wonder...

is there a good solution or just deal with it and try to forget about it?

1. do the unexpected, dismiss a battleship with a wave and a smile
2. this goes too far for the unexpected, glass the c*nt instead

 

[Swlabr]

The sad thing is that the bartender probably got laid that night, whereas our friend here went to bed alone thinking up revenge scenarios.

[purenaturalstrength]

The sad thing is that the bartender probably got laid that night, whereas our friend here went to bed alone thinking up revenge scenarios.

highly unlikely, he is unattractive and these chumps can't close untill 7 am

[ManBearPig...]

highly unlikely, he is unattractive and these chumps can't close untill 7 am

whose gimmick are you?  i see the persona you're building up for yourself here.

[apply85]

yeah I don't think either of these scenarios actually happened

[kiwiol]

That's not Nathan Fillion

[purenaturalstrength]

whose gimmick are you?  i see the persona you're building up for yourself here.

what persona is that?


gimmick? u mean like charles glass?

[Army of One]

Honestly,Id have punched them both

[purenaturalstrength]

Honestly,Id have punched them both

i would have too in the past, but after being busted for some shit like that a few times i had to do community service and probation and legal fees and this and that

i broke the law then the law broke me 

[Dr Dutch]

i'm 6' decent build and this is the bar tender (yes found his facebook) i always stalk my enemies and study their whereabouts with a sleeperaccount just so that in case a glorious opportunity for (legal)  revenge comes up i can not miss it

All the trouble and energy you put in this.....

"Living well is the best revenge"

[Dr Dutch]

I was pondering at work about 2 occasions where I really wondered "what would ronnie coleman do?"

I often wonder: WWWHD ?

[LurkerNoMore]

whose gimmick are you?  i see the persona you're building up for yourself here.

Jumpstart

[Palpatine Q]

punch and leave fast as fuck

You are the kind of little weasel that would do that, hit the guy out of nowhere and run away.....because you didn't get your drink fast enough

What would happen is the bartender, basically unfazed by your pathetic little "punch"....would signal to the bouncer that you hit him for no reason and you are trying to leave like a pussy.   the bouncer would grab you by your collar and lift you off the ground like a puppy.....take you out back and beat the living shit out of you. As you tried to "submit" the arm he is punching you in the face with.  LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

[Palpatine Q]

whose gimmick are you?  i see the persona you're building up for yourself here.

The same douche that runs all of these naive "sad sack" gimmicks...don't know who, but they are all the same. 

[ManBearPig...]

The same douche that runs all of these naive "sad sack" gimmicks...don't know who, but they are all the same. 

like Marty whatever?

Jumpstart

i lold

[Man of Steel]

If you're big enough already no one messes with you.....my advice is to get big.

[RustyTrenbolona]

dude, just think of the 100,000,000 euro dollas sittin in ur bank collecting interest yearly (even if it is only 2 percent) and smile a fat smile

[Mick33]

now i can't stop thinking up revenge scenarios for dealing with the bar tender

as long as i can find a legal way to have great revenge, why not


but i can't come up with ideas


HELP

If you did not have the nerve to slip a quick little jab to his nose and make him bleed, stop thinking about it now because it is probably just a waste of your time.