How do people respond to your muscularity?

[James28]

Interesting stories here. Most of you guys pretty much hit the mark. I generally find two situations that seems to be recurring the most. One is feigned disinterested where he/she (usually he) would rather saw of his own dick than take a look and by that look acknowledging, or one where the person I'm talking to 'used to train and be just as big'. I've only ever had one compliment and that was from my girlfriend's best mate. The rest of the time people seem to hate. Directly or indirectly.

[BILL ANVIL]

Women get angry and roll their eyes, some of them try to deny your existence. Men want an autograph and wanna be your best friend. The guys that suffer from ego complexes hold their arms out like they have razor blades under their arms when they see me and act like I ain't shit.

Those are the most common reactions I get. When people hold doors open for me and look scared I almost shed a single tear, its so flattering.  

[ChristopherA]

HOW DO PEOPLE...

Good looking women, old or young, wish i could be their fucktoy the first time they see me. They often live with a skinny fat dude who only focus on money and material goods and is insecure in bed, talking a lot about sex but shitty at it. The kind of people who always check twitter and spam their facebooks with stupid pics of themselves striking poses ressembling those of the stars you see on Tv and in the magazines. Or they re single, but so fucked up in their head, so self centered, so badly raised that even if they re good looking and working, they re desperate for genuine relationships they dont have the tools to create nor maintain.

At work the younger ones attempt to seduce me everytime in the beginning but when they figure they cant cause i m engaged, they start getting angry and passive aggressive cause they cannot obtain my attention. The want to be adored, worshipped constantly, to impress, because they have a low self esteem and their only pleasure in life is to dominate others, that's the way they ve been raised from day one, so i aint going to change this anytime soon, that's just the way it is.
 I mostly despise them for their superficiality and lack of honnesty which doesnt help, after a while.  Most average looking single females like me and wish I could be their man, but they know it's impossible, that it's not realistic so a true friendship then can follow, when everything is very clear and when you know you re going to be able to count on their honnesty and genuine friendship because nothing else is at work in the background of everyone subconscious. Of course they touch themselves at night dreaming about me, but that's how it works.
These people are truly interesting , you can do something with them, and I often leave them some insights on my personal relationship with my woman, on how to please men, how to improve their looks / way of thinking , how to be feminine and down to earth subrepticely over time. These people actually like me a lot and simultaneously are in conflict with the aggressive, dominating prima donnas/drama queens who are looking good but just use this to stab people in their back every chance they get. They are often spending more time pretending to be happy than they really are, while the down to earth , less attractive girls are always happy go lucky.
I use what i have to inspire other people better themselves as much as possible, and avoid improductive conflicts with the dumbest ones using my brains instead of my appearance. After all they re just suffering individuals who didnt learn how to correctly interact with others because of their own parents.

After some time spent in a place, most people both women and men out of the blue start talking about diet, doing cardio, etc right in front of me on purpose just because they saw details of my chiseled lean body under a shirt and it automatically redirect all their thoughts and discussions toward the subject. I politely ignore them as they obviously wait for me to give in and start opening my mouth on a subject i obviously know enough to speak about, and as i keep my mouth shut and let them make fools of themselves, they get even more frustrated, but i know from experience it's useless, they would all start get even more insecure i would have to expose them. I simply let them come to me personaly by themselves when the occasion presents itself. This way im not the one asking, demanding anything, showing off, pretending to be better than everyone, and i place myself in a position of humility ,  it's a gift to them if i share my knowledges, an opportunity. They re the ones who asked for it in the firstplace.

Then it's all, always, about "how can i /lose weight/get toned/losing belly fat doing crunches and sit ups (...) i d like to train for health but "i dont want to look like arnold s/" etc and other bullshits. Again I politely tell them what it truly requires, the genetical part of it, that anyone can do it, that's it easy and mostly only requires consistancy over time and in change of habits... that ultimately it doesnt garantee anyone complete eternal blissful hapiness for the rest of their life... that other things are important in life.. that training can improve life but that if you re fucked up psychologically it aint going to help much ...that it's both about working on your mind as much as you work on your body... and 9 times out of 10 after a week they just simply forget it all and decide to come back to their old habits. They figured what it really takes, their illusions are shattered and only the smartest, most motivated ones keep asking me for advises, thus giving birth to a friendly relationship. They give me things in return, of course. That's how it works, human, animal nature.
They obviously stay jealous, but a bit less than in the beginning as you re useful to them in some way.

Out of shape men are jealous for most. Not just of my physique when they can see some of its details when im wearing a shirt but essentially also of my facial traits. Seeing muscles just reinforce the tendancy. Only very few of them like my character but most of the time because i represent a father figure and because they want to learn my knowledges about weight lifting to become just like me so they get somewhat friendly. But you cant be friend with everyone, right? Also the more you age, the more you understand that your life revolves only around two or three at most, truly meaningful relationships, we arent designed for more. Men on steroids due to the artificial effects of drugs on the biochemical processes in their brains think everyone is in love with them, that everyone respects them, that they are living gods. Of course it lasts as long as they re on. Both the feeling of being powerful, and the respect of others. I think nobody exists in their mind but themselves. I went thru that when i started lifting weights and figured the impact it had on others. But i was too well educated fromt he beginning to sink into the extremes these people with bad (or no) advisers followed. They mostly despise/ignore me just like they ignore/despise anyone who isnt falling for their fake, bullshit personnality anyway, yet simultaneously instinctively think that i have something they could need later in life, when they grow up. Only later in life will they remember my behaviors and sayings, and figure that i understood what they just understand now, years before them. Exceptionnaly some of them are attracted by my personnality and start taking some of my stuff and introduce it into their own thought process, but they are often used to take without giving in return, so they cannot get much more from me while other more genuine people can. Fact is especially nowadays, you often have to teach people who want to interact with you, HOW TO INTERACT GIVING AS MUCH AS YOU ASK FIRST, because their parents abandonned religion, which was a unique systeme everybody followed in the interest of the majority, so everyone was following the same rules and principles. Give as much as you ask. Be polite. Dont be self centered, have empathy. These people just attempt to fuck other people in the ass to get what they want -and  worse, more and more take pleasure in this-, just because that's how their -divorced- parents interacted in front of them during their whole childhood/adolescence. These new generations have been raised by single mothers, with no or poor father figures, with no principles that are superior to themselves. They think they are god himself. They all think they are god. Immature, violent, emotionless, manipulative kids who use all their knowledges to their sole and only benefit. Thank socialism, capitalism , feminism, and the destruction of Christianity, the Father, and the family.

Again the juice monkeys are on drugs because they cant deal with real life without them, they re just living in an illusion  waiting to dissipate at some point in life just like all other illusions. I believed in illusions too, so i understand where they re at. And that it's useless to convince people they are acting dumb by sheer ignorance until they didnt find it out by themselves, often while destroying relationships with really meaningful loved ones. When it happens, i become important to them, and they leave the fake personnality at the door. The re often coming from families filled with addictive behaviors, who have a hard time finding a right middle in what they do or think. I know too well what s really at work deep in the background, and how useless it would be while they re on an artificially produced chemical rush to talk some sense into them. They re addicts just like any other addict, but because the whole world dont condemn their addiction because it's not a well known one like cigarettes, alcohol, etc, they think it's not an addiction. They re luring themselves, lying to themselves. And they think they re also smarter than everyone else, doing something that artificially put them above other human beings in particular circumstances. They can only rely on it as time goes, they fear the day they wont be able to use anymore, the day they ll become normal again. They also tend not to be able to go outside of their bubble in fear of being exposed. They re like a fish outside of the water, and they dont like it. So they stay together and backstab each others  over and over with huge bleached smiles, in their little vain bubble, cheating on themselves, on everyone else, injecting and believing they are gods. When they re just mortals addicted to drugs who contribute almost nothing to society, considering they even despise the people they could, should train. These people are affraid someone might look better , more dominant than them, so they wont even help customers, it's the oposite.

They are not humans. As real humans deal with reality without the help of drugs. They re enhanced, yet psychologically fragile, colossus with weak feet. Sooner or later it will be proven, and they ll be the creators of their own despair. It's all in the head, first and foremost. Appearence and behaviors are only the result of what's in the head. And what's in the head is programmed originally by the way you ve been loved, the way you interacted with your caregivers.

I wont even comment on the younger kids who just happened to discover weight lifting, sport all the disguise accessories, wether they re on steroids or not. It's useless to waste any energy talking some sense into them at that stage. Is there really a need to mention 99,9% of them are left without a decent father figure?

I cover my muscles 95% of the time and only reveal them ponctually once in a while just to remember people that the fitness level of my body is superior to theirs, as a main strategy of survival "outside". I dont take any pleasure in doing so, more like i'm forced to because i m with dumb people subconsciouly following dumb principles that make everyone feel shitty. I have to play the game with the animals as i m sometime forced to evolve in their vicinity. But it's only happening in environments filled with dumb or intellectually average individuals. This shit doesnt happen when you re dealing with the smartest and genuinely empathic individuals on earth who can read in your mind like in an open books. These people have no time for all these bullshits, they re busy helping people, raising kids, contributing genuinely.
The more you age the less it matters much to be the bigger fish in the pond, as there s always a new bigger one in it, the more brains are needed instead of muscles. It's called growing up , maturing. If past 30 you re still into impressing other men showing off muscles... it means you only understood 1% of what life is about. Also you cannot raise kids if you re only focusing on yourself being an immature kid yourself -because your parents who divorced/abandonned you were immatures kids themselves; that 's what you learned subconsciously, to reproduce their thought processes and behaviors-.

Something guys in their 40s or even 60s still didnt understand. Age has nothing to do with being wise , especially nowadays with older people attempting to become kids again as death approaches. They fear death because they havent been prepared to face it, because they abandoned religion, which precisely is intended to prepare you for this event. If you re not prepared, you re fearing it -like a kid- and you adopt bullshit strategies that only show you re not prepared to those who are.
Education, genuine love and spirituality and facing life with humility, with a fully developped consciousness, without using any shortcuts, are what make you wiser.

A nice lesson of humility is when i play basketball outdoor with some random teens in summer, and realizes that my legs and knees , as muscular and fit i am, are hurting only after 15/20 minutes of play. I also cant even fucking breath anymore and need to rest for like 30 minutes afterwards. I might be muscular and fit, but there are only very few people that benefit from it; me and my loved ones. If i can inspire others, when they deserve it and ask for my knowledges to improve their own chances of survival and if they give me something i actually could need in return , it's all good. But it only happens like 0,01 % of the time. These kids tell me that they re impressed by my physique, that it motivates them and they hope they look that good at my age.

 I answer by telling them ... to focus on studies and family instead of basketball and "being the biggest/baddest fish in the shitty pond" they re forced to swim in with others badly raised kids like them. Again, is anyone surprised these kids see me as a father figure considering they ve had none or terrible ones?

20min of basketball tires you out?

[hench]

is that Carl Weathers on the right of this pic?

Typical reaction?

[Dr Dutch]

is that Carl Weathers on the right of this pic?

Nah, he was killed by Drago remember ?

[Ursus]

Pretty fine most of time.

Never had a negative comment in my FT job but on the door occassional comments made.

[James28]

is that Carl Weathers on the right of this pic?

Damn, well spotted. Sure does look like him.

[deceiver]

HOW DO PEOPLE...

Good looking women, old or young, wish i could be their fucktoy the first time they see me. They often live with a skinny fat dude who only focus on money and material goods and is insecure in bed, talking a lot about sex but shitty at it. The kind of people who always check twitter and spam their facebooks with stupid pics of themselves striking poses ressembling those of the stars you see on Tv and in the magazines. Or they re single, but so fucked up in their head, so self centered, so badly raised that even if they re good looking and working, they re desperate for genuine relationships they dont have the tools to create nor maintain.

At work the younger ones attempt to seduce me everytime in the beginning but when they figure they cant cause i m engaged, they start getting angry and passive aggressive cause they cannot obtain my attention. The want to be adored, worshipped constantly, to impress, because they have a low self esteem and their only pleasure in life is to dominate others, that's the way they ve been raised from day one, so i aint going to change this anytime soon, that's just the way it is.
 I mostly despise them for their superficiality and lack of honnesty which doesnt help, after a while.  Most average looking single females like me and wish I could be their man, but they know it's impossible, that it's not realistic so a true friendship then can follow, when everything is very clear and when you know you re going to be able to count on their honnesty and genuine friendship because nothing else is at work in the background of everyone subconscious. Of course they touch themselves at night dreaming about me, but that's how it works.
These people are truly interesting , you can do something with them, and I often leave them some insights on my personal relationship with my woman, on how to please men, how to improve their looks / way of thinking , how to be feminine and down to earth subrepticely over time. These people actually like me a lot and simultaneously are in conflict with the aggressive, dominating prima donnas/drama queens who are looking good but just use this to stab people in their back every chance they get. They are often spending more time pretending to be happy than they really are, while the down to earth , less attractive girls are always happy go lucky.
I use what i have to inspire other people better themselves as much as possible, and avoid improductive conflicts with the dumbest ones using my brains instead of my appearance. After all they re just suffering individuals who didnt learn how to correctly interact with others because of their own parents.

After some time spent in a place, most people both women and men out of the blue start talking about diet, doing cardio, etc right in front of me on purpose just because they saw details of my chiseled lean body under a shirt and it automatically redirect all their thoughts and discussions toward the subject. I politely ignore them as they obviously wait for me to give in and start opening my mouth on a subject i obviously know enough to speak about, and as i keep my mouth shut and let them make fools of themselves, they get even more frustrated, but i know from experience it's useless, they would all start get even more insecure i would have to expose them. I simply let them come to me personaly by themselves when the occasion presents itself. This way im not the one asking, demanding anything, showing off, pretending to be better than everyone, and i place myself in a position of humility ,  it's a gift to them if i share my knowledges, an opportunity. They re the ones who asked for it in the firstplace.

Then it's all, always, about "how can i /lose weight/get toned/losing belly fat doing crunches and sit ups (...) i d like to train for health but "i dont want to look like arnold s/" etc and other bullshits. Again I politely tell them what it truly requires, the genetical part of it, that anyone can do it, that's it easy and mostly only requires consistancy over time and in change of habits... that ultimately it doesnt garantee anyone complete eternal blissful hapiness for the rest of their life... that other things are important in life.. that training can improve life but that if you re fucked up psychologically it aint going to help much ...that it's both about working on your mind as much as you work on your body... and 9 times out of 10 after a week they just simply forget it all and decide to come back to their old habits. They figured what it really takes, their illusions are shattered and only the smartest, most motivated ones keep asking me for advises, thus giving birth to a friendly relationship. They give me things in return, of course. That's how it works, human, animal nature.
They obviously stay jealous, but a bit less than in the beginning as you re useful to them in some way.

Out of shape men are jealous for most. Not just of my physique when they can see some of its details when im wearing a shirt but essentially also of my facial traits. Seeing muscles just reinforce the tendancy. Only very few of them like my character but most of the time because i represent a father figure and because they want to learn my knowledges about weight lifting to become just like me so they get somewhat friendly. But you cant be friend with everyone, right? Also the more you age, the more you understand that your life revolves only around two or three at most, truly meaningful relationships, we arent designed for more. Men on steroids due to the artificial effects of drugs on the biochemical processes in their brains think everyone is in love with them, that everyone respects them, that they are living gods. Of course it lasts as long as they re on. Both the feeling of being powerful, and the respect of others. I think nobody exists in their mind but themselves. I went thru that when i started lifting weights and figured the impact it had on others. But i was too well educated fromt he beginning to sink into the extremes these people with bad (or no) advisers followed. They mostly despise/ignore me just like they ignore/despise anyone who isnt falling for their fake, bullshit personnality anyway, yet simultaneously instinctively think that i have something they could need later in life, when they grow up. Only later in life will they remember my behaviors and sayings, and figure that i understood what they just understand now, years before them. Exceptionnaly some of them are attracted by my personnality and start taking some of my stuff and introduce it into their own thought process, but they are often used to take without giving in return, so they cannot get much more from me while other more genuine people can. Fact is especially nowadays, you often have to teach people who want to interact with you, HOW TO INTERACT GIVING AS MUCH AS YOU ASK FIRST, because their parents abandonned religion, which was a unique systeme everybody followed in the interest of the majority, so everyone was following the same rules and principles. Give as much as you ask. Be polite. Dont be self centered, have empathy. These people just attempt to fuck other people in the ass to get what they want -and  worse, more and more take pleasure in this-, just because that's how their -divorced- parents interacted in front of them during their whole childhood/adolescence. These new generations have been raised by single mothers, with no or poor father figures, with no principles that are superior to themselves. They think they are god himself. They all think they are god. Immature, violent, emotionless, manipulative kids who use all their knowledges to their sole and only benefit. Thank socialism, capitalism , feminism, and the destruction of Christianity, the Father, and the family.

Again the juice monkeys are on drugs because they cant deal with real life without them, they re just living in an illusion  waiting to dissipate at some point in life just like all other illusions. I believed in illusions too, so i understand where they re at. And that it's useless to convince people they are acting dumb by sheer ignorance until they didnt find it out by themselves, often while destroying relationships with really meaningful loved ones. When it happens, i become important to them, and they leave the fake personnality at the door. The re often coming from families filled with addictive behaviors, who have a hard time finding a right middle in what they do or think. I know too well what s really at work deep in the background, and how useless it would be while they re on an artificially produced chemical rush to talk some sense into them. They re addicts just like any other addict, but because the whole world dont condemn their addiction because it's not a well known one like cigarettes, alcohol, etc, they think it's not an addiction. They re luring themselves, lying to themselves. And they think they re also smarter than everyone else, doing something that artificially put them above other human beings in particular circumstances. They can only rely on it as time goes, they fear the day they wont be able to use anymore, the day they ll become normal again. They also tend not to be able to go outside of their bubble in fear of being exposed. They re like a fish outside of the water, and they dont like it. So they stay together and backstab each others  over and over with huge bleached smiles, in their little vain bubble, cheating on themselves, on everyone else, injecting and believing they are gods. When they re just mortals addicted to drugs who contribute almost nothing to society, considering they even despise the people they could, should train. These people are affraid someone might look better , more dominant than them, so they wont even help customers, it's the oposite.

They are not humans. As real humans deal with reality without the help of drugs. They re enhanced, yet psychologically fragile, colossus with weak feet. Sooner or later it will be proven, and they ll be the creators of their own despair. It's all in the head, first and foremost. Appearence and behaviors are only the result of what's in the head. And what's in the head is programmed originally by the way you ve been loved, the way you interacted with your caregivers.

I wont even comment on the younger kids who just happened to discover weight lifting, sport all the disguise accessories, wether they re on steroids or not. It's useless to waste any energy talking some sense into them at that stage. Is there really a need to mention 99,9% of them are left without a decent father figure?

I cover my muscles 95% of the time and only reveal them ponctually once in a while just to remember people that the fitness level of my body is superior to theirs, as a main strategy of survival "outside". I dont take any pleasure in doing so, more like i'm forced to because i m with dumb people subconsciouly following dumb principles that make everyone feel shitty. I have to play the game with the animals as i m sometime forced to evolve in their vicinity. But it's only happening in environments filled with dumb or intellectually average individuals. This shit doesnt happen when you re dealing with the smartest and genuinely empathic individuals on earth who can read in your mind like in an open books. These people have no time for all these bullshits, they re busy helping people, raising kids, contributing genuinely.
The more you age the less it matters much to be the bigger fish in the pond, as there s always a new bigger one in it, the more brains are needed instead of muscles. It's called growing up , maturing. If past 30 you re still into impressing other men showing off muscles... it means you only understood 1% of what life is about. Also you cannot raise kids if you re only focusing on yourself being an immature kid yourself -because your parents who divorced/abandonned you were immatures kids themselves; that 's what you learned subconsciously, to reproduce their thought processes and behaviors-.

Something guys in their 40s or even 60s still didnt understand. Age has nothing to do with being wise , especially nowadays with older people attempting to become kids again as death approaches. They fear death because they havent been prepared to face it, because they abandoned religion, which precisely is intended to prepare you for this event. If you re not prepared, you re fearing it -like a kid- and you adopt bullshit strategies that only show you re not prepared to those who are.
Education, genuine love and spirituality and facing life with humility, with a fully developped consciousness, without using any shortcuts, are what make you wiser.

A nice lesson of humility is when i play basketball outdoor with some random teens in summer, and realizes that my legs and knees , as muscular and fit i am, are hurting only after 15/20 minutes of play. I also cant even fucking breath anymore and need to rest for like 30 minutes afterwards. I might be muscular and fit, but there are only very few people that benefit from it; me and my loved ones. If i can inspire others, when they deserve it and ask for my knowledges to improve their own chances of survival and if they give me something i actually could need in return , it's all good. But it only happens like 0,01 % of the time. These kids tell me that they re impressed by my physique, that it motivates them and they hope they look that good at my age.

 I answer by telling them ... to focus on studies and family instead of basketball and "being the biggest/baddest fish in the shitty pond" they re forced to swim in with others badly raised kids like them. Again, is anyone surprised these kids see me as a father figure considering they ve had none or terrible ones?

Gosh, you're so delusional.

Truth is, majority of people, including women couldn't care less about how you look. Sad, but true. People who are succesful in some part of life just don't focus on other parts.

[mesmorph78]

If there was god and steroids didn't exist then you would be right!

While you sat there and came up with that clever comment
I did a full days work....
and pressed dumbells probably equivalent to your bodyweight.. each

... 

[JasonH]

HOW DO PEOPLE...

Good looking women, old or young, wish i could be their fucktoy the first time they see me. They often live with a skinny fat dude who only focus on money and material goods and is insecure in bed, talking a lot about sex but shitty at it. The kind of people who always check twitter and spam their facebooks with stupid pics of themselves striking poses ressembling those of the stars you see on Tv and in the magazines. Or they re single, but so fucked up in their head, so self centered, so badly raised that even if they re good looking and working, they re desperate for genuine relationships they dont have the tools to create nor maintain.

At work the younger ones attempt to seduce me everytime in the beginning but when they figure they cant cause i m engaged, they start getting angry and passive aggressive cause they cannot obtain my attention. The want to be adored, worshipped constantly, to impress, because they have a low self esteem and their only pleasure in life is to dominate others, that's the way they ve been raised from day one, so i aint going to change this anytime soon, that's just the way it is.
 I mostly despise them for their superficiality and lack of honnesty which doesnt help, after a while.  Most average looking single females like me and wish I could be their man, but they know it's impossible, that it's not realistic so a true friendship then can follow, when everything is very clear and when you know you re going to be able to count on their honnesty and genuine friendship because nothing else is at work in the background of everyone subconscious. Of course they touch themselves at night dreaming about me, but that's how it works.
These people are truly interesting , you can do something with them, and I often leave them some insights on my personal relationship with my woman, on how to please men, how to improve their looks / way of thinking , how to be feminine and down to earth subrepticely over time. These people actually like me a lot and simultaneously are in conflict with the aggressive, dominating prima donnas/drama queens who are looking good but just use this to stab people in their back every chance they get. They are often spending more time pretending to be happy than they really are, while the down to earth , less attractive girls are always happy go lucky.
I use what i have to inspire other people better themselves as much as possible, and avoid improductive conflicts with the dumbest ones using my brains instead of my appearance. After all they re just suffering individuals who didnt learn how to correctly interact with others because of their own parents.

After some time spent in a place, most people both women and men out of the blue start talking about diet, doing cardio, etc right in front of me on purpose just because they saw details of my chiseled lean body under a shirt and it automatically redirect all their thoughts and discussions toward the subject. I politely ignore them as they obviously wait for me to give in and start opening my mouth on a subject i obviously know enough to speak about, and as i keep my mouth shut and let them make fools of themselves, they get even more frustrated, but i know from experience it's useless, they would all start get even more insecure i would have to expose them. I simply let them come to me personaly by themselves when the occasion presents itself. This way im not the one asking, demanding anything, showing off, pretending to be better than everyone, and i place myself in a position of humility ,  it's a gift to them if i share my knowledges, an opportunity. They re the ones who asked for it in the firstplace.

Then it's all, always, about "how can i /lose weight/get toned/losing belly fat doing crunches and sit ups (...) i d like to train for health but "i dont want to look like arnold s/" etc and other bullshits. Again I politely tell them what it truly requires, the genetical part of it, that anyone can do it, that's it easy and mostly only requires consistancy over time and in change of habits... that ultimately it doesnt garantee anyone complete eternal blissful hapiness for the rest of their life... that other things are important in life.. that training can improve life but that if you re fucked up psychologically it aint going to help much ...that it's both about working on your mind as much as you work on your body... and 9 times out of 10 after a week they just simply forget it all and decide to come back to their old habits. They figured what it really takes, their illusions are shattered and only the smartest, most motivated ones keep asking me for advises, thus giving birth to a friendly relationship. They give me things in return, of course. That's how it works, human, animal nature.
They obviously stay jealous, but a bit less than in the beginning as you re useful to them in some way.

Out of shape men are jealous for most. Not just of my physique when they can see some of its details when im wearing a shirt but essentially also of my facial traits. Seeing muscles just reinforce the tendancy. Only very few of them like my character but most of the time because i represent a father figure and because they want to learn my knowledges about weight lifting to become just like me so they get somewhat friendly. But you cant be friend with everyone, right? Also the more you age, the more you understand that your life revolves only around two or three at most, truly meaningful relationships, we arent designed for more. Men on steroids due to the artificial effects of drugs on the biochemical processes in their brains think everyone is in love with them, that everyone respects them, that they are living gods. Of course it lasts as long as they re on. Both the feeling of being powerful, and the respect of others. I think nobody exists in their mind but themselves. I went thru that when i started lifting weights and figured the impact it had on others. But i was too well educated fromt he beginning to sink into the extremes these people with bad (or no) advisers followed. They mostly despise/ignore me just like they ignore/despise anyone who isnt falling for their fake, bullshit personnality anyway, yet simultaneously instinctively think that i have something they could need later in life, when they grow up. Only later in life will they remember my behaviors and sayings, and figure that i understood what they just understand now, years before them. Exceptionnaly some of them are attracted by my personnality and start taking some of my stuff and introduce it into their own thought process, but they are often used to take without giving in return, so they cannot get much more from me while other more genuine people can. Fact is especially nowadays, you often have to teach people who want to interact with you, HOW TO INTERACT GIVING AS MUCH AS YOU ASK FIRST, because their parents abandonned religion, which was a unique systeme everybody followed in the interest of the majority, so everyone was following the same rules and principles. Give as much as you ask. Be polite. Dont be self centered, have empathy. These people just attempt to fuck other people in the ass to get what they want -and  worse, more and more take pleasure in this-, just because that's how their -divorced- parents interacted in front of them during their whole childhood/adolescence. These new generations have been raised by single mothers, with no or poor father figures, with no principles that are superior to themselves. They think they are god himself. They all think they are god. Immature, violent, emotionless, manipulative kids who use all their knowledges to their sole and only benefit. Thank socialism, capitalism , feminism, and the destruction of Christianity, the Father, and the family.

Again the juice monkeys are on drugs because they cant deal with real life without them, they re just living in an illusion  waiting to dissipate at some point in life just like all other illusions. I believed in illusions too, so i understand where they re at. And that it's useless to convince people they are acting dumb by sheer ignorance until they didnt find it out by themselves, often while destroying relationships with really meaningful loved ones. When it happens, i become important to them, and they leave the fake personnality at the door. The re often coming from families filled with addictive behaviors, who have a hard time finding a right middle in what they do or think. I know too well what s really at work deep in the background, and how useless it would be while they re on an artificially produced chemical rush to talk some sense into them. They re addicts just like any other addict, but because the whole world dont condemn their addiction because it's not a well known one like cigarettes, alcohol, etc, they think it's not an addiction. They re luring themselves, lying to themselves. And they think they re also smarter than everyone else, doing something that artificially put them above other human beings in particular circumstances. They can only rely on it as time goes, they fear the day they wont be able to use anymore, the day they ll become normal again. They also tend not to be able to go outside of their bubble in fear of being exposed. They re like a fish outside of the water, and they dont like it. So they stay together and backstab each others  over and over with huge bleached smiles, in their little vain bubble, cheating on themselves, on everyone else, injecting and believing they are gods. When they re just mortals addicted to drugs who contribute almost nothing to society, considering they even despise the people they could, should train. These people are affraid someone might look better , more dominant than them, so they wont even help customers, it's the oposite.

They are not humans. As real humans deal with reality without the help of drugs. They re enhanced, yet psychologically fragile, colossus with weak feet. Sooner or later it will be proven, and they ll be the creators of their own despair. It's all in the head, first and foremost. Appearence and behaviors are only the result of what's in the head. And what's in the head is programmed originally by the way you ve been loved, the way you interacted with your caregivers.

I wont even comment on the younger kids who just happened to discover weight lifting, sport all the disguise accessories, wether they re on steroids or not. It's useless to waste any energy talking some sense into them at that stage. Is there really a need to mention 99,9% of them are left without a decent father figure?

I cover my muscles 95% of the time and only reveal them ponctually once in a while just to remember people that the fitness level of my body is superior to theirs, as a main strategy of survival "outside". I dont take any pleasure in doing so, more like i'm forced to because i m with dumb people subconsciouly following dumb principles that make everyone feel shitty. I have to play the game with the animals as i m sometime forced to evolve in their vicinity. But it's only happening in environments filled with dumb or intellectually average individuals. This shit doesnt happen when you re dealing with the smartest and genuinely empathic individuals on earth who can read in your mind like in an open books. These people have no time for all these bullshits, they re busy helping people, raising kids, contributing genuinely.
The more you age the less it matters much to be the bigger fish in the pond, as there s always a new bigger one in it, the more brains are needed instead of muscles. It's called growing up , maturing. If past 30 you re still into impressing other men showing off muscles... it means you only understood 1% of what life is about. Also you cannot raise kids if you re only focusing on yourself being an immature kid yourself -because your parents who divorced/abandonned you were immatures kids themselves; that 's what you learned subconsciously, to reproduce their thought processes and behaviors-.

Something guys in their 40s or even 60s still didnt understand. Age has nothing to do with being wise , especially nowadays with older people attempting to become kids again as death approaches. They fear death because they havent been prepared to face it, because they abandoned religion, which precisely is intended to prepare you for this event. If you re not prepared, you re fearing it -like a kid- and you adopt bullshit strategies that only show you re not prepared to those who are.
Education, genuine love and spirituality and facing life with humility, with a fully developped consciousness, without using any shortcuts, are what make you wiser.

A nice lesson of humility is when i play basketball outdoor with some random teens in summer, and realizes that my legs and knees , as muscular and fit i am, are hurting only after 15/20 minutes of play. I also cant even fucking breath anymore and need to rest for like 30 minutes afterwards. I might be muscular and fit, but there are only very few people that benefit from it; me and my loved ones. If i can inspire others, when they deserve it and ask for my knowledges to improve their own chances of survival and if they give me something i actually could need in return , it's all good. But it only happens like 0,01 % of the time. These kids tell me that they re impressed by my physique, that it motivates them and they hope they look that good at my age.

 I answer by telling them ... to focus on studies and family instead of basketball and "being the biggest/baddest fish in the shitty pond" they re forced to swim in with others badly raised kids like them. Again, is anyone surprised these kids see me as a father figure considering they ve had none or terrible ones?

Post of the day.

[Primemuscle]

Are they intrigued?, disgusted?, jealous?, positive? Do they openly stare?

They openly stare....but then I am usually naked! LOL.

[bradistani]

in my younger days, i could hardly ever so for a drink in a pub without some random pisshead telling me 'you should be playing rugby, you'..

[Palpatine Q]

I get three different responses.

1) people who tote me as a guy who can fight when i can't
2)guys that compete with me for no reason
3)people that think because I'm lanky/slouch that I'm somehow out of shape.

So I've kinda learned that what people think and what is are total opposites. Truth is I look like shit but am somewhat fit compared to the majority of the population.

Yup....."I wouldn't want to fuck with you man"....Really, i haven't had a fight in forever and I'm in my 40's...I'm such a "badass" 

of course my cousin's barber's doctor's nephew lifts weighs too....and he's REALLY big 

[D.O.U.P]

Great post/question

Women seem to accept me verbally fucking with their minds.

Men get a little uppity/nervous until they realise I'm not a huge cock.

[deceiver]

Do you really think people actually care about your muscles? Normal people just want to look fit, that's it. If you have way more muscles than average then you're same freak as fat guys to them.

Get real guys. Nobody cares about muscles.

[deadz]

They get out of my way. I've also been asked if I was a cop on numerous occassions.

[makaveli25]

People always ask me If I'm a football player or If I'm one of those mma guys. I had a woman come up to me at the bar a few weeks ago In front of her fiance. She asked me If I could come to her baccalaureate party and be one of the strippers. She said she loves guys with bald heads and muscles. I felt bad for her fiance. Why would someone disrespect their partner like that. I just kind of laughed it off and said well I charge a lot for that kind of thing. I just kind of laughed and tried to be as humble as I could. When people pay me compliments I thank them and treat them good.

I played in a volleyball league this year. My team was all girls except for me and another dude. When I took my shirt off the look on their faces was pretty priceless. The girls kept trying to jump on my back and flirt with me. A few of the woman came up and said "damn I didn't know you had all that under those work clothes." I work at a hospital and the league was all nurses and therapists. It was a great time. It's nice to hear things like that!

Dudes at bars will be very respectful and will make comments like "man I wouldn't mess with you" I hear that a lot. I never had to fight because of my looks. I know a lot of guys will say people always want to challenge the big guy never happend to me.

I've had a lot of people tell me I look just like Vin Dieslel woman love that guy so I really enjoy that one.

[makaveli25]

It's such a double standard with woman. At work they say anything they want. They will make comments about how I should bend over and pick something up in front of them so they can pinch my butt. Another woman said I should take my shirt off before I go into a room that will get their attention. Imagine a guy saying something like that. I could win a major lawsuit If I started recording some of the comments haha.

[deadz]

Do you really think people actually care about your muscles? Normal people just want to look fit, that's it. If you have way more muscles than average then you're same freak as fat guys to them.

Get real guys. Nobody cares about muscles.

^^^^outed, pencil neck

[The Grim Lifter]

Women get angry and roll their eyes, some of them try to deny your existence. Men want an autograph and wanna be your best friend. The guys that suffer from ego complexes hold their arms out like they have razor blades under their arms when they see me and act like I ain't shit.

Those are the most common reactions I get. When people hold doors open for me and look scared I almost shed a single tear, its so flattering.  

This one is a funny one. I have it all the time. The best is a girl i worked with who was probably a 7/10 so not bad, who never said anything to me and pretended i wasn't there. Except one time she had to talk to me for work and she couldn't look me in the eye and tried to get it over with as quick as possible.

[da_vinci]

Being tall and having a structure of god (I'm humble too) + knowing the way to dress well - I've got countless remarks/compliments/preachings/etc.. in the last 10 years. I've heard word "perfect" many times, from females usualy, but guys say nice words too, I guess I'm quite approachable person myself, so once they get to know me - their guard goes down (oh, and the questions begin.. esp. from drunk guys with fat bellies. And. esp. once they beome aware of my way to explain things, the way I go into the details they've never thought about, being an obsessive perfectionist that I am - I certainly can go on about the topic for a long time and sound like I'm a fukkin genius, well most of the time I am, but still...).
 Females get "touchy", very noticeable, some literally fuck me with their eyes (the last one I remember was from a last weeken in one rave I went. Wore a nice thin sweater-shirt, my perfect lines were quite apparent, yep... oh, so she was turning her head and I could see when her eyes locked on my body in quite a shock/disbelief lol...then, as my peripheral vision is well developed, I could notice her constantly checkin me out. A tiny, cute girl, I guess - of the type that likes bigger guys).
 I like another "effect" of being in shape - I could dress my worst clothes i the worst possible way, go to an official institution/place and still be treated very respectfully, while an ordinary person would get a "meh" look. This one especially works on guys, who work in official enviroment.

I'm an artist, I create my body, I carve it, and every artist likes to expose his art to the world, so I'm proud to show what I've created and fuck anyone who doesn't care, cares enough to "preach" me, or some fat slob who's just jealous as hell so he thinks it's "shallow". 20-30-40 or 50 (like that poster wrote above. BTW - Post was good till' I encountered word "religion". It always astonishes me how intelligent ppl can be religious at the same time. I mean - intelligent enough to express their thoughts in a way that not many can express) who cares, if you are bodybuilder (and it's a state of mind, an obsessioin, a fukkin illness) you are a bodybuilder till you are dead. I personally find guys who are in a ridiclously good shape at an advanced age to be even more respectful then someone young and jacked. It takes a dedication, some serious one (and usualy - certain risks too..)..
 Remembered another one (plenty of stories like these): a month ago I was visiting germany, went to a fast-food place with a few ppl. A really fat guy was behind the counter. Once he became aware I don't speak german - he started praising my physique in english. A few days passed by, I was walking a few streets from that place again, a car is passing me by, the same dude almost falls out thourgh window all smiling and greeting me (not in a homo way). All that just because I'm above average when it comes to being "fit".

I think it's a biological reaction people have. You can be rich in one country, but in another you can be just an "average joe" (if many are as rich or richier) but if you've developed your body to something worth lookin' at - wherever you go - you will get some kind of a reaction. It's subconscious. Animal encounters another animal that is SUPERIOR. *bam* the neurons fire in the "ape brain", and the rest depends on the state of mind of a given person.

[Palpatine Q]

In short, women want to fuck me, men want to be me.

and then when I open my mouth and they realize i'm a highly intelligent, wise person with solid morals, and i'm a standup guy...either they think I'm the greatest thing that ever happened....or they HATE me....because i guess it's not fair that i have the body, looks..and BRAINS too..oh well, comes with the territory

what i call myself is "walking guilt".....Because no matter what the situation, when I am around... people inevitably start talking about 'getting back into it"...."i've be eating really well"...because they see you and they realize how bad they look in contrast.

It does get old......but the truth is looking the way i do sets me apart from the crowd and is an instant conversation starter in any social setting...and it's up to me to use it to my advantage.... I'm not ashamed to say i do

[makaveli25]

Being tall and having a structure of god (I'm humble too) + knowing the way to dress well - I've got countless remarks/compliments/preachings/etc.. in the last 10 years. I've heard word "perfect" many times, from females usualy, but guys say nice words too, I guess I'm quite approachable person myself, so once they get to know me - their guard goes down (oh, and the questions begin.. esp. from drunk guys with fat bellies. And. esp. once they beome aware of my way to explain things, the way I go into the details they've never thought about, being an obsessive perfectionist that I am - I certainly can go on about the topic for a long time and sound like I'm a fukkin genius, well most of the time I am, but still...).
 Females get "touchy", very noticeable, some literally fuck me with their eyes (the last one I remember was from a last weeken in one rave I went. Wore a nice thin sweater-shirt, my perfect lines were quite apparent, yep... oh, so she was turning her head and I could see when her eyes locked on my body in quite a shock/disbelief lol...then, as my peripheral vision is well developed, I could notice her constantly checkin me out. A tiny, cute girl, I guess - of the type that likes bigger guys).
 I like another "effect" of being in shape - I could dress my worst clothes i the worst possible way, go to an official institution/place and still be treated very respectfully, while an ordinary person would get a "meh" look. This one especially works on guys, who work in official enviroment.

I'm an artist, I create my body, I carve it, and every artist likes to expose his art to the world, so I'm proud to show what I've created and fuck anyone who doesn't care, cares enough to "preach" me, or some fat slob who's just jealous as hell so he thinks it's "shallow". 20-30-40 or 50 (like that poster wrote above. BTW - Post was good till' I encountered word "religion". It always astonishes me how intelligent ppl can be religious at the same time. I mean - intelligent enough to express their thoughts in a way that not many can express) who cares, if you are bodybuilder (and it's a state of mind, an obsessioin, a fukkin illness) you are a bodybuilder till you are dead. I personally find guys who are in a ridiclously good shape at an advanced age to be even more respectful then someone young and jacked. It takes a dedication, some serious one (and usualy - certain risks too..)..
 Remembered another one (plenty of stories like these): a month ago I was visiting germany, went to a fast-food place with a few ppl. A really fat guy was behind the counter. Once he became aware I don't speak german - he started praising my physique in english. A few days passed by, I was walking a few streets from that place again, a car is passing me by, the same dude almost falls out thourgh window all smiling and greeting me (not in a homo way). All that just because I'm above average when it comes to being "fit".

I think it's a biological reaction people have. You can be rich in one country, but in another you can be just an "average joe" (if many are as rich or richier) but if you've developed your body to something worth lookin' at - wherever you go - you will get some kind of a reaction. It's subconscious. Animal encounters another animal that is SUPERIOR. *bam* the neurons fire in the "ape brain", and the rest depends on the state of mind of a given person.

A little full of yourself there stud 

[da_vinci]

In short, women want to fuck me, men want to be me.

and then when I open my mouth and they realize i'm a highly intelligent, wise person with solid morals, and i'm a standup guy...either they think I'm the greatest thing that ever happened....or they HATE me....because i guess it's not fair that i have the body, looks..and BRAINS too..oh well, comes with the territory

[da_vinci]

A little full of yourself there stud  

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