All men want a submissive, caring wife who cooks, take genuinely care of kids, is smart, witty but not dominating and neutering, and all men like to treat them like whores in bed for their mutual greatest pleasure once in a while.
This is textbook what a perfect wife is based on the Bible. Women shouldnt work as the energy put in trying to have a "carreer" to imitate, replace men by vanity, couldnt be put in taking care of home and kids at the same time. A woman cant do it all. She can have a social role outside of her family, in the feminine community, but it must never take over what she s suposed, designed, to do for her Man first, and kids. If she takes care of her man, he wont leave for a better oportunity. Man works and provides ressources for family. He s the creation of God, his son and answers directly to God. The woman answers to her Man who himself answers to God.
Kids answer to their father, mother, who themselves follow God's voice.
Men have to accept their role, as women have to accept theirs. When you dont accept the roles designed by God/nature/evolution, you suffer and make other people suffer. As simple as that.