Any girl I've ever had an interest in, has never been with a guy bigger, so think what you want. Seriously you guys live in some whacked out reality, if you think looking like a steroid user will land you a descent girl.
Ha ha...Let me guess, you're between 5'9 - 6'0 and 120 - 160 lbs...
Women are no different than men, primitively women are attracted to broad shoulders, small waist, nice chest, nice arms.
Why are on this board? You're more of a bodybuilding.com kinda boy.
Get the fuck out.