Dear,
Sheila, Your husband probably wouldnt have cheated on you if you didnt get comfortable in the marriage.Let me guess, since you married your husband, you gained 50-60lbs, and you only have sex with your husband only half as much as you did before you married him.
The problem with most American women is this.When they get married, they 1) always gain weight.2) always cut sex in atleast half.
I dont agree with cheating, it is adultry, and its not cool.But rejecting your husband is just as bad as cheating.
Being rejected, by your spouse when you got blue balls, makes a mna feel like complete shit.
Why do you think 75% of men cheat on there spouses?...I dont agree with it, but if a woman pleased her man sexually, trust me, most men probably wouldnt cheat.
Men cheat, because they get rejected by there spouses and by cheating it does 2 things.
1) It fufills his sexual needs and gets rid of his blue balls.2) It makes him feel confident again because all the times his wife rejected him, it lowered his self esteem.
The lesson that can be learned from this.
1) Dont marry a American girl, American a Spanish or Latin girl.@) Dont get married at all.This way if they with hold sex you can tell them to get the fu#$# out.
If you dont beleive me ask any married man, once you get married, your sex life is never the same.Most guys think, now I will have security, and a great sex life...Wrong !!!!
