I'm being serious here. We have these hit it threads with gorgeous women and everyone drools and wishes they can have her, but the fact is someone probably is already fucking her.
What's wrong with most guys here? Most of us workout, are in the 1% of people that are muscular and in shape yet we seem to struggle to date models and hot bitches. So who actually dates these hot bitches and models?
Most of the dudes here are funny as fuck, quick with comebacks and seem semi-intelligent, what is the mistake we're all making?
Yesterday I was Costco, I kept on catching this HOT HOT HOT ginger haired woman looking at me. She was begging me to approach her and ask her out. What did I do? NOTHING. WTF! Is it the bodyuilding mentality that despite being in better shape than anyone in that store that in my eyes, I wasn't as lean as I was mid summer so I didn't feel that confident?
What's the issue boys?
If you're a decent guy and not full of yourself it's always going to be very hard to approach a stranger cold. Even in a club when she's drunk (though that makes it a lot easier). Also, when you do the balance of power immediate shifts to her side. You are now the one put in the position where you are essentially asking for approval and acceptance. Very few men can get away with this. You either have to have a whole lot of game or be already known, or give the impression that you are Alpha Alpha (good looking, successful, good personality).
I can count on one hand, maybe three fingers, where I put myself in that position. Doing the cold call. It always sucked. I mean, just going up to some stranger at a grocery store -- that takes balls or self-delusion.
It's much better to be in situations where you already get to know the person. College, work... anywhere where you interact regularly and you get to warm up to a person and she gets to warm up to you. It won't take much to know if someone is interested in you. Then you're success rate is practically 100%.
The trick is to get yourself in those type of situations which can be very hard. Most of a person's waking hours are spent at work and if there's no prospect there things can be very hard. It helps if you work at a big company. Even better if they have summer and temporary interns. Perfect for a brief meaningless affair with college coeds and you don't have to worry about them sticking around and awkwardness and tension of seeing them if things don't work out.
