Damn ! Some GREAT posts in this thread. I'm impressed ! LOL ! Some of you guys obviously have been on the frontline !
My attitude in this game is the same as american vietnam veterans attitude was when sweeping the moist and hot jungles in vietnam, knowing that each step could be a booby trap, sometimes walking MILES and nothing happening, but on the edge the entire time because there was entire platoons blown to bits little by little from booby traps in the jungle. You still know that it can happend at any second, so the soldiers were never easy.
So try to imagine THAT, but in socialising with women.
But, in your case, don't stress your ex... hence the "ex", she's your ex, you shouldn't feel this way. Life goes on, theo nly permanent thing n life is change, and as painfull it might be to go forward, you have to do it because only then you will realise that LOL, thank god I'm not with her anymore.. not hating her, but still you've grown up more as a person and have learned more and capable of being without a 50% relationships and still be happy and selfawere.
(no homo)