I know that video but my question is not related to "should or shouldn't" I smack my woman, I'm passed that right now,
I need to know how...
When I grill a steak I think the best technique is to uses the hottest temperature that cooks the steak properly (e.g. medium, medium-rate, etc.) without charring the outside. I think the same advice holds for striking your wife if you replace "grill/cook" with "slap" and "steak" with "woman".